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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get viewed a lot but not many messages!

Try to not message women as imagine they get hundreds and I'm not the pushy or harass a woman type.

Any suggestions ladies or maybe this site isn't for me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get viewed a lot but not many messages!

Try to not message women as imagine they get hundreds and I'm not the pushy or harass a woman type.

Any suggestions ladies or maybe this site isn't for me?"

Only you can answer that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I get viewed a lot but not many messages!

Try to not message women as imagine they get hundreds and I'm not the pushy or harass a woman type.

Any suggestions ladies or maybe this site isn't for me?"

I think you should take the bull by the horns and send a few messages out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No effort =no results

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No effort =no results "

Negativity = no results

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make the message personal to the receiver.Don't use the popular cut and paste type.They're obvious and will lose you brownie points.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get viewed a lot but not many messages!

Try to not message women as imagine they get hundreds and I'm not the pushy or harass a woman type.

Any suggestions ladies or maybe this site isn't for me?

I think you should take the bull by the horns and send a few messages out "

To those that viewed you....be up front..ask if they liked what they saw?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather be someone's glass of champagne than everyone's cup of tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get viewed a lot but not many messages!

Try to not message women as imagine they get hundreds and I'm not the pushy or harass a woman type.

Any suggestions ladies or maybe this site isn't for me?"
think yourself lucky I get so many takes me all day to answer them ,I've got a deal for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No effort =no results

Negativity = no results "

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How am I being negative?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Your profile begins negatively and that's a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No effort =no results

Negativity = no results

..

How am I being negative? "
not you ... Him ya daft twonk

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

I would suggest you DO send messages out. Go through profiles, and identify your top 10 where you are a perfect match (you're what they want, they're what you want). Read the profile carefully, and send a polite introductory message, mentioning things to show that you've read the profile (not just looked at the pictures). Make each message at least 3 short paragraphs. Ask if they would be interested in getting to know each other better.

Your profile shows that can write in an intelligent and humorous way, so you might get a response. But you might not.

Repeat on week 2, with the next 10 profiles, and keep repeating each week until you have some success.

Meanwhile, 'put yourself about a bit'. Check for socials in your area. Think about going to a swingers club. Keep posting in the Forum. Take time to chat in your regional chat room. The more times people see your name, the more likely you are to attract attention in a positive way.

Good luck!

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

Oh, and don't target the people who have viewed your profile. They looked, they didn't get in touch, in all probability, they're not interested in you. Don't - whatever you do! - say "I see you looked at my profile"... That just forces women and couples to look in stealth mode.

Oh, and don't obsess about the status of your sent messages. The only thing that is important is whether they reply, not whether they read it, deleted it etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send 1,000 cut and paste messages....that's always a winner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get viewed a lot but not many messages!

Try to not message women as imagine they get hundreds and I'm not the pushy or harass a woman type.

Any suggestions ladies or maybe this site isn't for me?"

you get out what you put in...

no pain no gain...

see who has looked and try messaging them... you have got to be in it to win it blah blah blah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send 1,000 cut and paste messages....that's always a winner "

does that work for you then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send 1,000 cut and paste messages....that's always a winner "

Remember to add several cock pics too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send 1,000 cut and paste messages....that's always a winner

does that work for you then "
fabmsfox I like New avatar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send 1,000 cut and paste messages....that's always a winner

does that work for you then fabmsfox I like New avatar "

blimey I didn't recognise you without your emojis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get viewed a lot but not many messages!

Try to not message women as imagine they get hundreds and I'm not the pushy or harass a woman type.

Any suggestions ladies or maybe this site isn't for me?"

in all seriousness can I ask how you think meets happen on here? if you don't send a message and they aren't telepathic then its not going to happen...try doing a search in the browse section and start targeting

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