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By *st timers 2012 OP   Couple
over a year ago

helmsdale

We are relatively new to hotwifeing if that's the word ?

And it feels so good to us to do it together we feel as if we should be able to talk about it and I (Dave) would love Stacey to talk to her friends about it but we know in real life many would not understand and would judge us so feel we never could

Have any couples found that they could talk openly about it with vanilla friends? And if so how did they react?

Thanks in advance for any replys xx

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Hi, interesting question. We haven't actually considered talking to vanilla friends about this life. It shouldn't be a problem, but then again the same is true for many things and people get very judgemental. For us, we actually like it being seperate and private, not really bothered if people know, but enjoy the frisson of excitement that comes from doing something that is regarded as risque to the majority!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately for us it's just our dark little secret , it's so frustrating though having a fantastic weekend of swinging fun and not being able to tell a soul .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While people I work with and the majority of my family are clueless that we are swingers it's something I've been very open about with with my friends.

All my closest friends know and while they may not fully understand it they've been very accepting and it means I'm not constantly having to watch what I say.

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn


"We are relatively new to hotwifeing if that's the word ?

And it feels so good to us to do it together we feel as if we should be able to talk about it and I (Dave) would love Stacey to talk to her friends about it but we know in real life many would not understand and would judge us so feel we never could

Have any couples found that they could talk openly about it with vanilla friends? And if so how did they react?

Thanks in advance for any replys xx"

I think pretty much all of our friends and a lot of our family know about our alternative lifestyle. None have openly said they dissaprove and some (including family) have actually been fascinated and wanted to know more.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.


"Unfortunately for us it's just our dark little secret , it's so frustrating though having a fantastic weekend of swinging fun and not being able to tell a soul . "

The same for us. We can only share on here or with friends at a club...

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By *st timers 2012 OP   Couple
over a year ago

helmsdale

Thanks guys really nice to talk to people about it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've told my 2 best friends that I'm on here and been to clubs and stuff, I've always been very open sexually so it probably didn't come as too much of a surprise.

On the other hand, my work colleagues will never be told (it's none of their business) and my mum thinks I'm her little angel! So my halo is staying put and my mouth is staying shut where family are concerned! Hahaha

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By *athandCleoCouple
over a year ago

Poole


"We are relatively new to hotwifeing if that's the word ?

And it feels so good to us to do it together we feel as if we should be able to talk about it and I (Dave) would love Stacey to talk to her friends about it but we know in real life many would not understand and would judge us so feel we never could

Have any couples found that they could talk openly about it with vanilla friends? And if so how did they react?

Thanks in advance for any replys xx"

I (Cleo) have told only 2 of my friends about what I'm doing. One doesn't have much interest in sex and the other one is asexual and has no interest in sex at all. It's funny though because they're the only people I know that wouldn't judge me for doing this.

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By *st timers 2012 OP   Couple
over a year ago

helmsdale


"We are relatively new to hotwifeing if that's the word ?

And it feels so good to us to do it together we feel as if we should be able to talk about it and I (Dave) would love Stacey to talk to her friends about it but we know in real life many would not understand and would judge us so feel we never could

Have any couples found that they could talk openly about it with vanilla friends? And if so how did they react?

Thanks in advance for any replys xx

I (Cleo) have told only 2 of my friends about what I'm doing. One doesn't have much interest in sex and the other one is asexual and has no interest in sex at all. It's funny though because they're the only people I know that wouldn't judge me for doing this. "
must feel liberating talking about it with people who aren't involved

Sadly don't think we will

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By *st timers 2012 OP   Couple
over a year ago

helmsdale


"I've told my 2 best friends that I'm on here and been to clubs and stuff, I've always been very open sexually so it probably didn't come as too much of a surprise.

On the other hand, my work colleagues will never be told (it's none of their business) and my mum thinks I'm her little angel! So my halo is staying put and my mouth is staying shut where family are concerned! Hahaha "
yes agree totally work and family need never know

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

Frisky told a friend that we go to a naturist club that held swingers parties.

At that point we hadn't played with anyone else. That was the end of that friendship... Unfortunately we didn't realise that it's un-natural to enjoy sex and that it should stop the moment you don't want anymore children...

Both sets of parents know we go to a naturist club. Mine don't care, Frisky's think it's disgusting...

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