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"I ve just created profile what would you advise me? " Write about what you would like and what you can offer. Good luck | |||
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"Well i ve never been on dating sites before Is it so important to fill introduction page even if i write there lots of lies whatever woomen like to read What happened to old and fun conversation ..." This is not a dating site... | |||
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"Well i ve never been on dating sites before Is it so important to fill introduction page even if i write there lots of lies whatever woomen like to read What happened to old and fun conversation ..." The choice is yours. Fill it in as has been advised or leave it and continue to struggle. | |||
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"Pics are there can be sent no problems " looks like you know what you are doing then! Good luck. | |||
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"In a word - yes " hehe he's not he's just in competition with many for so few xx | |||
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"Pics are there can be sent no problems " Lesson 1. It's a buyers (females) market. Lesson 2. The more hoops that people have to jump through to get information, photos etc, the more the guys who provide it all will be wiping the floor with you. Lesson 3 See lesson 1 | |||
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"Pics are there can be sent no problems Lesson 1. It's a buyers (females) market. Lesson 2. The more hoops that people have to jump through to get information, photos etc, the more the guys who provide it all will be wiping the floor with you. Lesson 3 See lesson 1" | |||
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"Well i ve never been on dating sites before Is it so important to fill introduction page even if i write there lots of lies whatever woomen like to read What happened to old and fun conversation ..." .. It's not a dating site. Why would you lie? Yes it's important to write something... Or you will get bypassed. People won't converse with you if you don't tell them a little about yourself first... | |||
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"Well i ve never been on dating sites before Is it so important to fill introduction page even if i write there lots of lies whatever woomen like to read What happened to old and fun conversation ... The choice is yours. Fill it in as has been advised or leave it and continue to struggle." It hasn't worked up to now by the sounds of it,so maybe do a better profile nothing to lose have you. You need to give something for people to grasp on to so go speak | |||
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"I ve just created profile what would you advise me? " Yes. There is nothing on it apart from 'just ask' Not very appealing. | |||
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"Can u help me to fill it (what should I write or about what )" This is the worst thing to ask. Your profile is meant to represent you. Having someone else tell you what to put (or worse do it for you) would be misleading. From what I can tell in this thread you should leave your profile blank. | |||
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"In a word - yes hehe he's not he's just in competition with many for so few xx " Well he was when he first posted this. There was nothing there | |||
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"Pics are there can be sent no problems " Do you think anyone is going to bother to message you to ask to see them when there are loads of men here who already have photos to give people an idea of what they look like? | |||
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"Pics are there can be sent no problems " . People will want to see pictures on a profile , otherwise they will assume that you are a fake . Would you contact anyone who had no pictures on their profile?. | |||
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"Well i ve never been on dating sites before Is it so important to fill introduction page even if i write there lots of lies whatever woomen like to read What happened to old and fun conversation ..." Good luck with that attitude | |||
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"Well i ve never been on dating sites before Is it so important to fill introduction page even if i write there lots of lies whatever woomen like to read What happened to old and fun conversation ..." What happened to it was that I do not have the time to exchange messages with 1,000 different men every month here. If his profile and his first message does not cause me to notice him, then "NEXT" | |||
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"Well i ve never been on dating sites before Is it so important to fill introduction page even if i write there lots of lies whatever woomen like to read What happened to old and fun conversation ..." Your not on a dating site here. | |||
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"These posts are just so samey. Male pitches up whinging that he isnt getting any action. The usual brigade point out the heinous errors in his profile. Meanwhile other males ive advice and boast at how much more successful they are . Lets be honest, males dont get any because the site is full of fakes and it is mostly total bullshit. It should be a gay or bi dating site." Someone else not happy | |||
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"These posts are just so samey. Male pitches up whinging that he isnt getting any action. The usual brigade point out the heinous errors in his profile. Meanwhile other males ive advice and boast at how much more successful they are . Lets be honest, males dont get any because the site is full of fakes and it is mostly total bullshit. It should be a gay or bi dating site. Someone else not happy " Yes i am perfectly happy because i have accepted the truth about the site and now just come on for a browse. I know how it works and i know that its run by a clique. I couldnt care less whether i never receive another message. Its highly unlikely because its mostly fake, then there are the prostitutes and hookers for clubs ,the occasional real female who just enjoys the attention etc,,all very tedious and boring.. | |||
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"These posts are just so samey. Male pitches up whinging that he isnt getting any action. The usual brigade point out the heinous errors in his profile. Meanwhile other males ive advice and boast at how much more successful they are . Lets be honest, males dont get any because the site is full of fakes and it is mostly total bullshit. It should be a gay or bi dating site. Someone else not happy Yes i am perfectly happy because i have accepted the truth about the site and now just come on for a browse. I know how it works and i know that its run by a clique. I couldnt care less whether i never receive another message. Its highly unlikely because its mostly fake, then there are the prostitutes and hookers for clubs ,the occasional real female who just enjoys the attention etc,,all very tedious and boring.." ..you won't really get anywhere with that attitude ... Lighten up | |||
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"Well i ve never been on dating sites before Is it so important to fill introduction page even if i write there lots of lies whatever woomen like to read What happened to old and fun conversation ..." Your asking advice Yet not taking any what's the point of asking?? | |||
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"These posts are just so samey. Male pitches up whinging that he isnt getting any action. The usual brigade point out the heinous errors in his profile. Meanwhile other males ive advice and boast at how much more successful they are . Lets be honest, males dont get any because the site is full of fakes and it is mostly total bullshit. It should be a gay or bi dating site. Someone else not happy Yes i am perfectly happy because i have accepted the truth about the site and now just come on for a browse. I know how it works and i know that its run by a clique. I couldnt care less whether i never receive another message. Its highly unlikely because its mostly fake, then there are the prostitutes and hookers for clubs ,the occasional real female who just enjoys the attention etc,,all very tedious and boring.. ..you won't really get anywhere with that attitude ... Lighten up " | |||
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"These posts are just so samey. Male pitches up whinging that he isnt getting any action. The usual brigade point out the heinous errors in his profile. Meanwhile other males ive advice and boast at how much more successful they are . Lets be honest, males dont get any because the site is full of fakes and it is mostly total bullshit. It should be a gay or bi dating site. Someone else not happy Yes i am perfectly happy because i have accepted the truth about the site and now just come on for a browse. I know how it works and i know that its run by a clique. I couldnt care less whether i never receive another message. Its highly unlikely because its mostly fake, then there are the prostitutes and hookers for clubs ,the occasional real female who just enjoys the attention etc,,all very tedious and boring.." That escalated quickly ...... | |||
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"These posts are just so samey. Male pitches up whinging that he isnt getting any action. The usual brigade point out the heinous errors in his profile. Meanwhile other males ive advice and boast at how much more successful they are . Lets be honest, males dont get any because the site is full of fakes and it is mostly total bullshit. It should be a gay or bi dating site. Someone else not happy Yes i am perfectly happy because i have accepted the truth about the site and now just come on for a browse. I know how it works and i know that its run by a clique. I couldnt care less whether i never receive another message. Its highly unlikely because its mostly fake, then there are the prostitutes and hookers for clubs ,the occasional real female who just enjoys the attention etc,,all very tedious and boring.." It's highly unlikely because of your appalling attitude.... If it's tedious and boring why don't you leave? People around the pram have to gather up all the toys each time you post... | |||
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"These posts are just so samey. Male pitches up whinging that he isnt getting any action. The usual brigade point out the heinous errors in his profile. Meanwhile other males ive advice and boast at how much more successful they are . Lets be honest, males dont get any because the site is full of fakes and it is mostly total bullshit. It should be a gay or bi dating site. Someone else not happy Yes i am perfectly happy because i have accepted the truth about the site and now just come on for a browse. I know how it works and i know that its run by a clique. I couldnt care less whether i never receive another message. Its highly unlikely because its mostly fake, then there are the prostitutes and hookers for clubs ,the occasional real female who just enjoys the attention etc,,all very tedious and boring.. ..you won't really get anywhere with that attitude ... Lighten up " Thanks but i have no desire to get anywhere. I have had my full share of women and i dont expect to meet any on here. Im simply here out of idle curiosity. Not to meet women or couples.. | |||
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"These posts are just so samey. Male pitches up whinging that he isnt getting any action. The usual brigade point out the heinous errors in his profile. Meanwhile other males ive advice and boast at how much more successful they are . Lets be honest, males dont get any because the site is full of fakes and it is mostly total bullshit. It should be a gay or bi dating site. Someone else not happy Yes i am perfectly happy because i have accepted the truth about the site and now just come on for a browse. I know how it works and i know that its run by a clique. I couldnt care less whether i never receive another message. Its highly unlikely because its mostly fake, then there are the prostitutes and hookers for clubs ,the occasional real female who just enjoys the attention etc,,all very tedious and boring.. ..you won't really get anywhere with that attitude ... Lighten up Thanks but i have no desire to get anywhere. I have had my full share of women and i dont expect to meet any on here. Im simply here out of idle curiosity. Not to meet women or couples.." OP pay attention, this is why some men have success on fab and others don't, either you have positive attitude and enjoy yourself and make the most of the site, like myself and others do Or You can moan about it all, claim people are fake and that the site is tedious and boaring, like the above poster. I'll leave it to you which side you wish to choose | |||
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"These posts are just so samey. Male pitches up whinging that he isnt getting any action. The usual brigade point out the heinous errors in his profile. Meanwhile other males ive advice and boast at how much more successful they are . Lets be honest, males dont get any because the site is full of fakes and it is mostly total bullshit. It should be a gay or bi dating site. Someone else not happy Yes i am perfectly happy because i have accepted the truth about the site and now just come on for a browse. I know how it works and i know that its run by a clique. I couldnt care less whether i never receive another message. Its highly unlikely because its mostly fake, then there are the prostitutes and hookers for clubs ,the occasional real female who just enjoys the attention etc,,all very tedious and boring.." Same old shit profile with cock pics (yaaaaaawwwwnnnnn) zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz | |||
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"I m new here but so far i just get ignored by all girls so far am i doing something wrong? " Your profile reads like a cv and I appreciate you said you are European but spellchecker helps. Also re pics, no private pics and you can put up public pics that don't show your face. Good luck | |||
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"Roots frantically for some means of rewinding my age a few years !!! How much younger Ms.R ??? Wait sorry what was this thread about again ? All I saw was pig tails " Hahaha! I'm going through a mid life crisis, what can I say! When I hit my 'dirty old man phase' you'll be the first to know | |||
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"Ok i got it now but all i wrote sounds stupid to me ( but now lies) Can you please take a look at it now and tell what to delete or what to add " Dude, you need pics! Women on here get so many messages from people with photos, they can see what they are getting. Even if you keep face pics private, at least a body shot, no need for cock pics. I had loads of pics a while back and got quite a bit of attention, i deleted them and now i don't get as many. It doesn't matter if you are big, short, slim or whatever, some women will be after your type, so just put a pic or two up. You don't need to put lies on your profile. Just read what others have written that sounds good to you and stylise your text on some some of the better profiles. Good luck | |||
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"I m new here but so far i just get ignored by all girls so far am i doing something wrong? " they say a picture paints a 1000 words,and you have none In a world of choices,many with pics,dont be surprised that your profile gets overlooked.. And have you seen some of the guys verifications!They are getting meets galore.But they ALL have pics | |||
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"These posts are just so samey. Male pitches up whinging that he isnt getting any action. The usual brigade point out the heinous errors in his profile. Meanwhile other males ive advice and boast at how much more successful they are . Lets be honest, males dont get any because the site is full of fakes and it is mostly total bullshit. It should be a gay or bi dating site. Someone else not happy Yes i am perfectly happy because i have accepted the truth about the site and now just come on for a browse. I know how it works and i know that its run by a clique. I couldnt care less whether i never receive another message. Its highly unlikely because its mostly fake, then there are the prostitutes and hookers for clubs ,the occasional real female who just enjoys the attention etc,,all very tedious and boring.." hey as a guy I understand to a certain extent where he gets these comments from and their are a lot of gay and bi men here but in his case he leads with a cock avatar which doesn't appeal to most women but does appeal to the guys/bi/gays being negative doesn't get anyone anywhere ever so lose that lose cock pic ,have a body pic ,I agree pushing the club thing on single guys is tiresome especially as in my area they are very expensive and lots of negative feedback from couples and women but women rule here take on board the pic thing guys ,write positive messages based on target profiles and send a smiling face pic and you may get somewhere | |||
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"These posts are just so samey. Male pitches up whinging that he isnt getting any action. The usual brigade point out the heinous errors in his profile. Meanwhile other males ive advice and boast at how much more successful they are . Lets be honest, males dont get any because the site is full of fakes and it is mostly total bullshit. It should be a gay or bi dating site. Someone else not happy Yes i am perfectly happy because i have accepted the truth about the site and now just come on for a browse. I know how it works and i know that its run by a clique. I couldnt care less whether i never receive another message. Its highly unlikely because its mostly fake, then there are the prostitutes and hookers for clubs ,the occasional real female who just enjoys the attention etc,,all very tedious and boring.." . On what basic do you conclude that the site is mainly fake . ? If you just ignore the short two line profiles or those with no pictures , and then assess those of more than two lines you will have elimated all the fakes . | |||
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"Roots frantically for some means of rewinding my age a few years !!! How much younger Ms.R ??? Wait sorry what was this thread about again ? All I saw was pig tails Hahaha! I'm going through a mid life crisis, what can I say! When I hit my 'dirty old man phase' you'll be the first to know " Yeah !!! Score | |||
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"I'd suggest you loose the 'I'm new here' and the 'boring' at the start of your profile. Get a clothed pic with your face marked blank and use as your main profile... If you want to be 'new' you need a profile that is new, not 11 months 'old'. Ps. Get cam verified or go to a singers venue near you!!! Too many complain but don't do nothing to put it right. Anyway, happy swinging " loose or lose ? | |||
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"These posts are just so samey. Male pitches up whinging that he isnt getting any action. The usual brigade point out the heinous errors in his profile. Meanwhile other males ive advice and boast at how much more successful they are . Lets be honest, males dont get any because the site is full of fakes and it is mostly total bullshit. It should be a gay or bi dating site." wrong answer but thanks for playing......... there is a lovely old saying that I think is true..... you get out what you put in.... so if you put yourself out there... be that going to clubs... or going to socials... you are taking advantage of an avenue others are not (for whatever reason they decide)...... having a blast me..... | |||
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