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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I popped on here the other day for a bit of a nosey about and up has popped my best friends little sister who's best friend I also used to date!

Now at the moment she has a relatively new profile with no veris so I'm unsure if it is some sad sad person who has got her pictures or if it's actually genuinely her!

Because I know her well I can think of reasons for and against her actually being on here!

How would people approach this as

A I wouldn't want someone using my friends sisters pictures

B my naughty side coming out by just openly asking her it not being her and having to explain how I saw it

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell

Just block and forget you see her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would block unless you think youd get anywhere with her lol

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"Just block and forget you see her "

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

If the location and any other facts you have about her are close to true on her profile, then I would just block and forget it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did she have her face pic on private?

Maybe - without telling her who you are give her some advice on staying discreet

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

If age and area ect are completely different then say to her ,bearing in mind she'll then know your on here .Other wise leave her to have her fun and go on enjoying yours.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

If she's over the age of consent it's her Choices / life....

If you think her pictures have been pilfered report to admin...

Other than that it's her business, block and look elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How about if it's not her and people are using her pics!

I'm not bothered about playing I just don't like her pics being shared!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and ignore

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff


"How about if it's not her and people are using her pics!

I'm not bothered about playing I just don't like her pics being shared!"

Well you aren't going to know unless you actually ask her face to face, or in a way that you know it is actually her you are talking to.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"How about if it's not her and people are using her pics!

I'm not bothered about playing I just don't like her pics being shared!"

Well you know her so I'd presume you'd would know if there was something "not right" about the profile and if it was fake . Clearly there isn't or you'd just have reported the profile right away . So it just seems you are looking for excuses to talk to her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As I said it's a relatively new profile so there isn't much to go off or else I'd have had reported it without hesitation already!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just let them do their thing. If they get verified in time you will know she is genuine and then block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just let them do their thing. If they get verified in time you will know she is genuine and then block. "

To coin a phrase:

Not your circus, not your monkeys.

Keep your nose out, her business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why don't you just send her a message and chat to her or see if shes on cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about if it's not her and people are using her pics!

I'm not bothered about playing I just don't like her pics being shared!"

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Are they only pics used on another site?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There only one way to know for sure but would you be happy her knowing you on here

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By *isdirtygirlCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

Why do you find it so difficult to believe she could be on a swinging site? No matter how well you may think you know her you won't know what goes on in her had - especially not sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I popped on here the other day for a bit of a nosey about and up has popped my best friends little sister who's best friend I also used to date!

Now at the moment she has a relatively new profile with no veris so I'm unsure if it is some sad sad person who has got her pictures or if it's actually genuinely her!

Because I know her well I can think of reasons for and against her actually being on here!

How would people approach this as

A I wouldn't want someone using my friends sisters pictures

B my naughty side coming out by just openly asking her it not being her and having to explain how I saw it

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give me some info and I will ask her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about if it's not her and people are using her pics!

I'm not bothered about playing I just don't like her pics being shared!"

But you've got no evidence that that;s the case?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"As I said it's a relatively new profile so there isn't much to go off or else I'd have had reported it without hesitation already!"

You're over thinking this and its a bit weird

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"As I said it's a relatively new profile so there isn't much to go off or else I'd have had reported it without hesitation already!"

There will be age and area though. A dead give away if totally different to what you know . Clearly not or as you said you would of reported if it said she was up in the Highlands. So aging just seems like you are looking for any excuse to mail her and there's none .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some are FB others aren't!

I have no intention at all of playing with her its my friends sister and she's really not my type!

I don't understand why people are saying I'm using it as an excuse to talk to her if I wanted to do that I'd just pick up my phone and ring or text!

All I was concerned for was the fact someone MAY be using her pics as her being on something like this could be rather out the blue!

Cheers for the replies and the PM although the abusive ones are bizarre!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well your on "something like this" so why shouldnt she be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some are FB others aren't!

I have no intention at all of playing with her its my friends sister and she's really not my type!

I don't understand why people are saying I'm using it as an excuse to talk to her if I wanted to do that I'd just pick up my phone and ring or text!

All I was concerned for was the fact someone MAY be using her pics as her being on something like this could be rather out the blue!

Cheers for the replies and the PM although the abusive ones are bizarre! "

You donlt seem to keen on acknowledging the posyts that suggest how easy it os to tell if it is her - age and location?

I'll be honest, I think you know it;s her and are shocked that she'd be on a site like this.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Some are FB others aren't!

I have no intention at all of playing with her its my friends sister and she's really not my type!

I don't understand why people are saying I'm using it as an excuse to talk to her if I wanted to do that I'd just pick up my phone and ring or text!

All I was concerned for was the fact someone MAY be using her pics as her being on something like this could be rather out the blue!

Cheers for the replies and the PM although the abusive ones are bizarre! "

If you're concerned, report the profile. A simple solution but you seem loathe to use it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some are FB others aren't!

I have no intention at all of playing with her its my friends sister and she's really not my type!

I don't understand why people are saying I'm using it as an excuse to talk to her if I wanted to do that I'd just pick up my phone and ring or text!

All I was concerned for was the fact someone MAY be using her pics as her being on something like this could be rather out the blue!

Cheers for the replies and the PM although the abusive ones are bizarre! "

why would you automatically think that someone was using her pics to set up a fake profile as opposed to her actually setting up a profile herself with her own pics?

as long as she is over the age of consent its allowed

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

Or ...

Just ask her.

You aren't going to know unless you ask her. Noone else can tell you only she can.

So either talk to her or move on and forget about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or ...

Just ask her.

You aren't going to know unless you ask her. Noone else can tell you only she can.

So either talk to her or move on and forget about it."

at last someone using logic

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Personally, I'd offer to verify her to help her on her way...then wish her luck and leave her to have some fun.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some are FB others aren't!

I have no intention at all of playing with her its my friends sister and she's really not my type!

I don't understand why people are saying I'm using it as an excuse to talk to her if I wanted to do that I'd just pick up my phone and ring or text!

All I was concerned for was the fact someone MAY be using her pics as her being on something like this could be rather out the blue!

Cheers for the replies and the PM although the abusive ones are bizarre! "

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Then how would anyone else get her pics to use?

Just accept it's her, block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block she may be uncomfortable from now on knowing you have seen her rude bits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block, and don't mention it again to her or anyone you know, and stop being a dick about it, take people's advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it a crime if the girl wants to swing...no...let her get on with the scene...and you do the same,then everyone is happy.

That is if it is a genuine profile

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Some pig ignorant responses on here. Yes op. It's hard one to balance her feelings and privicey. I'd be very subtle and talk alone about thinking of on line dating. That'd be the ideal stalking horse. Would be a horrible shame to cramp her style. But if she is a teacher and someone has stolen her pics it could be ruinous for her. Best of luck.

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