FabSwingers.com forum: Long time, no meet, too late to support?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guys, so I've been on this site for a little while but have not yet met anyone from it (catch22 situation). I want to support the site to show im genuine and hopefully get a meet but what I want to know is Should I start a fresh profile or keep this one??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up to you.

You don't seem to have any friends or verifications to lose on the profile you have now so making a new one wouldn't affect these things. You'd have to do the photo verify again though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Up to you.

You don't seem to have any friends or verifications to lose on the profile you have now so making a new one wouldn't affect these things. You'd have to do the photo verify again though."

You're right.. it must look better to be verified from day1 though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can look better because some people will think you aren't really up for meeting because of being on here for so long without meeting anyone. Not everyone will think this but some might.

If you got a verification on this profile now then it's pretty much the same as getting one on a different profile.

So do whichever you fancy doing.

Another option is to make a new profile and pay to upgrade that and keep this profile but don't bother using it. Like test out your theory.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Hi guys, so I've been on this site for a little while but have not yet met anyone from it (catch22 situation). I want to support the site to show im genuine and hopefully get a meet but what I want to know is Should I start a fresh profile or keep this one??

Being a site supporter does not suggest to me that anyone is "genuine" or is here to meet.

Some people pay the fee because they want some of the features. They may still only use the site for camming and/or chatting.

If you want the features, by all means go for it but don't expect it to up your chances of getting a meet. It wouldn't influence my decision.

I've also recently learned that site supporters keep the same site supporter rate that was current when they joined so if you create a new profile, it may end up costing you slightly more to become a site supporter.

People can't tell how long you've been a site supporter or for how long you've been verified anyway.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

9 months isn't excessive to go without a meet. I've heard it said on here that guys often wait 6 months or more for their first meet.

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

Hiya, to not have a meet in 9 months, there's something very wrong. I'm also fairly sure I know what that is.

If you look at your profile, it is cock pics and sex, sex, sex. Do you think that's how women choose a man? By how sexual he is?

If you want my opinion, get some advice on how to write your profile, and just make friends with women and learn how this site works.

Yes, get a new profile, the reason being, you may have caused a lot of blocks. Site supporter doesn't do anything for you either, apart from giving you more features.

John x

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I think it depends on how you have used the profile. Not everyone who has been on here for nine months makes it their be all and end all of their existence. That said, though, to read a profile that is full of excuses about why there have been no meets isn't good either (I haven't looked at your profile, OP, so I dont know if yours has this). I would say cam to get a verification or go to a club, then it doesn't matter as the time will be water under the bridge....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're only looking for meets off here then I'd say start a new profile. If you're looking at going to clubs or socials then it doesn't matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I thought your pics were hot and it's a sex site what's wrong with cock pics. I like to know what I'm getting!

Profile is ok too. It's short but says everything it needs to. Some profiles are way too long and not filled with anything interesting anyway!

I was a single fem on fab for years and id have met you based on those pics and profile.

As for original question. I'd say keep the profile you have. I'd see 9 months as you being choosy about who you meet. Id avoid a profile with a meet veri in the first week and dismiss the profile owner as a shag anything type.

Maybe add a few lines to say why no veri in 9 months then people can decide for themselves.

Real girl.

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By *ricksydemonMan
over a year ago

llandudno

Keep your profile, most women won't entertain newbies. If you want to set up another one too that's fine, that way in a few weeks or so if you want to change then it's no longer a new profile and it makes life easier. My advice is go to a social meet locally advertised on here or a club and get verified that way and build on that. Very few women will be attracted to 50 verifications in 9 months so don't worry about not having enough... And pitch it in a way that some lucky women gets your fab cherry!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice guys

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