FabSwingers.com forum: First time at Kestrels tomorrow. Tips?

By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Hey folks!

I'm going to Kestrels for the first time tomorrow, for just a few hours in the afternoon.

If you've been before, what are some of the things you wish younger you knew before going?

Thanks!

HLF

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a large venue so its easy to not realise who is there and whats going on. The pool/hot-tub/tea hut area is the social hub whereas the dungeon area is where much of the more open play occurs.

Take flipflops or similar, a robe and any snacks or drinks you might want other than tea/coffee and water which are available for free.

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Its a large venue so its easy to not realise who is there and whats going on. The pool/hot-tub/tea hut area is the social hub whereas the dungeon area is where much of the more open play occurs.

Take flipflops or similar, a robe and any snacks or drinks you might want other than tea/coffee and water which are available for free.

Ah, thanks!

What kind of a robe....? Like a dressing gown? Or something thinner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dressing gown, thicker the better given the weather.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This weather take a warm dressing gown.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thick dressing gown !...it gets very chilly down there

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Oh god! Lol. OK.

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By *estsideukMan
over a year ago

Hatfield area

And two forms of ID, one of which is photo, or you'll have a wasted trip!

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"And two forms of ID, one of which is photo, or you'll have a wasted trip!"

Oh!

Like, photo + address, you mean?

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By *estsideukMan
over a year ago

Hatfield area

Yup. Photo drivers licence and recent utility bill is what I usually use

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Yup. Photo drivers licence and recent utility bill is what I usually use"

Got it.

That would definitely have been a wasted trip otherwise! Lol.

Thanks!

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By *estsideukMan
over a year ago

Hatfield area

The staff are very friendly - take them up on their offer of a tour before you get changed. You'll get a better sense of where to start.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

There are soft drinks and water on tap but it's BYOB.

Most people are very friendly and the staff are cool so you should have fun.

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Do people go there to fuck during the day, or is that only an evening activity? :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people go there to fuck during the day, or is that only an evening activity? :D"
Yes !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People play during the day. The main house isn't open, but the dungeon is as are all the cabins.

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Awesome!

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By *estsideukMan
over a year ago

Hatfield area

People play everywhere... pool, hottub, etc. All levels of privacy - from completely private cabins to full on show bedrooms.

Its funny, as often you'll have people chatting about normal life stuff with a couple at it hammer and tongs five feet away! Particularly true in summer, when many come just to sunbathe

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm really nervous about the nudity part of it, actually. Can I just keep my robe on?

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By *estsideukMan
over a year ago

Hatfield area

Absolutely. It's bloody cold tomorrow, you'll want it on!

However, you'll see every body size and shape imaginable. After a very short time, it comes normal

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Absolutely. It's bloody cold tomorrow, you'll want it on!

However, you'll see every body size and shape imaginable. After a very short time, it comes normal"

Heh. OK!

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

"I'm really nervous about the nudity part of it, actually. Can I just keep my robe on? "

Nudity isn't compulsory. Wear what you feel comfortable in but it's quite laid back so most get used to being naked very quickly

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

I tried to send you a private message but am outside your age range. The first time I went during the daytime, it was very quiet indeed, so much so that there was virtually no opportunity to play. It was also mainly blokes sitting around waiting for something (usually a woman arriving) to happen. When a woman did arrive, it was like bees round a honey pot. So, as a single woman, sadly outside my age range, expect to be shown some interest from some rather needy/keen men. And as it will be cold, you should definitely take a dressing gown and flip flops, as the pathway to the back rooms (dungeons and cabins) is wooden and you may get splinters. The pool is nice and hot though. Its a shame I can't come with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm really nervous about the nudity part of it, actually. Can I just keep my robe on?

Nudity isn't compulsory. Wear what you feel comfortable in but it's quite laid back so most get used to being naked very quickly"

It isn't but it needs to be a robe like garment as opposed to clothes.

Tuesday is generally the quieter day & in this weather I imagine most will either be in the pool, hot tubs under cover area.

No naked sunbathing 2mrrw

Hope you have fun, it's a great place when the sun is shining too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were down there just two weeks ago. Great club

Go in the pool, it feels wonderful. Bring your own drinks - they have refrigerators to put them in. I didn't have a robe and would go without it again, but if you do have one then bring it as some parts do get rather cold.

It seemed like a relaxed place with a good crowd. We went on a Saturday with a group of other people so we didn't socialize with others too much, but everyone seemed really friendly.

Have a great time

-Courtney

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

"I tried to send you a private message but am outside your age range. The first time I went during the daytime, it was very quiet indeed, so much so that there was virtually no opportunity to play. It was also mainly blokes sitting around waiting for something (usually a woman arriving) to happen. When a woman did arrive, it was like bees round a honey pot. So, as a single woman, sadly outside my age range, expect to be shown some interest from some rather needy/keen men. And as it will be cold, you should definitely take a dressing gown and flip flops, as the pathway to the back rooms (dungeons and cabins) is wooden and you may get splinters. The pool is nice and hot though. Its a shame I can't come with you.

You obviously not being a keen and needy man.....

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

You obviously not being a keen and needy man.....

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Ah! Thanks for all the comments! Super useful!

And Courtney babe - if I looked like you I wouldn't have a robe either.

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By *abcouple11Couple
over a year ago

Truro

Gown, flip-flops.

Picnic.

Condoms and lube. Normally have a small bag - like a small wash-kit bag.

At K's they can't hand out condoms - is a naturist spa...

You'll look weird trying not to be nude.

Is a naturist spa.

It'll only take you a few minutes to overcome that lifetime of programming - don't worry about it.

But you will feel weird for those minutes as you make yourself walk around "letting it all hang out".

For sure you will need a gown. Just wear it for warmth, but otherwise look natural. In the dungeon it's usually warm enough to be without a gown.

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Gown, flip-flops.

Picnic.

Condoms and lube. Normally have a small bag - like a small wash-kit bag.

At K's they can't hand out condoms - is a naturist spa...

You'll look weird trying not to be nude.

Is a naturist spa.

It'll only take you a few minutes to overcome that lifetime of programming - don't worry about it.

But you will feel weird for those minutes as you make yourself walk around "letting it all hang out".

For sure you will need a gown. Just wear it for warmth, but otherwise look natural. In the dungeon it's usually warm enough to be without a gown.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"People play during the day. The main house isn't open, but the dungeon is as are all the cabins. "

The end of the house is with lounge/TV area and two playrooms. Good place to eat lunch in the warm when it's cold

Enjoy you'll have great fun. Tuesday's can be quiet but post a meet up and you'll get some company

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"People play during the day. The main house isn't open, but the dungeon is as are all the cabins.

The end of the house is with lounge/TV area and two playrooms. Good place to eat lunch in the warm when it's cold

Enjoy you'll have great fun. Tuesday's can be quiet but post a meet up and you'll get some company

Oooh! Good shout!

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By *iceshortsMan
over a year ago

South East

Wear a cheeky smile, Take some food, as if you choose to be busy you might need a nice break to replenish your energy.

Choose wisely and be very comfortable saying no thank you to those you do not wish to play with.

You will have a great time and the fun thing is the uncertainty of it all and people fucking when they should all be at work!

I plan to scive off myself. Maybe see you there x

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Wear a cheeky smile, Take some food, as if you choose to be busy you might need a nice break to replenish your energy.

Choose wisely and be very comfortable saying no thank you to those you do not wish to play with.

You will have a great time and the fun thing is the uncertainty of it all and people fucking when they should all be at work!

I plan to scive off myself. Maybe see you there x

Hee hee hee. Thanks!

I don't have a bag to take around with me. Everything I need fits into my robe pockets, I think. Will that be an issue?

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By *iceshortsMan
over a year ago

South East

"Wear a cheeky smile, Take some food, as if you choose to be busy you might need a nice break to replenish your energy.

Choose wisely and be very comfortable saying no thank you to those you do not wish to play with.

You will have a great time and the fun thing is the uncertainty of it all and people fucking when they should all be at work!

I plan to scive off myself. Maybe see you there x

Hee hee hee. Thanks!

I don't have a bag to take around with me. Everything I need fits into my robe pockets, I think. Will that be an issue?

No that will be fine. There is a fridge for food and drinks and everyone finds a way of carrying a condom x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ah! Thanks for all the comments! Super useful!

And Courtney babe - if I looked like you I wouldn't have a robe either.

Just saw this

Let us know how you get on!!

You should have come by two weeks ago when we were down there

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By *arahD72TV/TS
over a year ago

Bucks

Flip flops and warm robe in this cold weather. You'll have an amazing time!

There's a microwave and a fridge so always a good thing to take something to eat.

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Too cold for me now. Will have to visit when the temperatures are kinder

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Shame we all didn't scive off today and have a big party

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By *iceshortsMan
over a year ago

South East

"Shame we all didn't scive off today and have a big party

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By *erts_darlings1Couple
over a year ago

watford

We go often and it is our favoured venue. We and a handful of hardy souls were there last Saturday. Yes it was cold and yes there were less people than at a medium sized gang bang but the pool was lovely and so was the mirror room. Friendly chat with people we knew and on the whole a good way to spend a Saturday afternoon.

Please keep us informed as to whether you enjoyed yourself or not, we would be surprised if you didn't.

PS guys, it is now the law to wear your locker key on the wrist of your wanking hand despite what others may tell you

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

"We go often and it is our favoured venue. We and a handful of hardy souls were there last Saturday. Yes it was cold and yes there were less people than at a medium sized gang bang but the pool was lovely and so was the mirror room. Friendly chat with people we knew and on the whole a good way to spend a Saturday afternoon.

Please keep us informed as to whether you enjoyed yourself or not, we would be surprised if you didn't.

PS guys, it is now the law to wear your locker key on the wrist of your wanking hand despite what others may tell you

But what if your ambidextrous? Or use both at the same time!

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By *erts_darlings1Couple
over a year ago

watford

Please keep us informed as to whether you enjoyed yourself or not, we would be surprised if you didn't.

PS guys, it is now the law to wear your locker key on the wrist of your wanking hand despite what others may tell you

But what if your ambidextrous? Or use both at the same time!"

Two lockers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or just hang the key from your cock.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

"Or just hang the key from your cock."

I've used mine as a cock ring on someone. Saved me holding it

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By *outhernchappieMan
over a year ago

brighton

How did it go HLF?

Hopefully not too many bees around the honey pot...

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By *erts_darlings1Couple
over a year ago

watford

"Or just hang the key from your cock.

I've used mine as a cock ring on someone. Saved me holding it

We have seen guys using the little bands near the hair driers as cock rings

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

The swimming pool is epic! I'd go there every night if I lived close enough!

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Hope you had a fun day.. Was it as you anticipated. ? Has been a lovely day so bright .

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

Owww plan to go Monday 29th. How did you find it Hap? Xx

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

So, I went, I came back, I didn't die of hypothermia. lol.

I had a really nice time!

I was only there for a couple hours, between work assignments, so it was really more to scope out the layout and facilities of the place, rather than to do anything really specific.

It was really quiet, I personally saw maybe a dozen people, at most? Which was nice, because I didn't have to talk to a lot of people, and could kick my social anxiety in my own time.

I met some lovely people! And the facilities are very cool! Can't wait to try them out more of an evening.

And I heard it a lot, but I didn't really know what people meant when they say people "follow women about".

I do now. lol.

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Owww plan to go Monday 29th. How did you find it Hap? Xx"

Don't propose to anyone when you go, Mae.

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

"So, I went, I came back, I didn't die of hypothermia. lol.

I had a really nice time!

I was only there for a couple hours, between work assignments, so it was really more to scope out the layout and facilities of the place, rather than to do anything really specific.

It was really quiet, I personally saw maybe a dozen people, at most? Which was nice, because I didn't have to talk to a lot of people, and could kick my social anxiety in my own time.

I met some lovely people! And the facilities are very cool! Can't wait to try them out more of an evening.

And I heard it a lot, but I didn't really know what people meant when they say people "follow women about".

I do now. lol.

Well I did try to warn you about bees round a honey pot. Glad you liked it though.

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Well I did try to warn you about bees round a honey pot. Glad you liked it though."

Heh. Just one bee. I'm not exactly a honey pot. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the place I'm going with some friends on the 29th can't wait

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

HorniBitch and myself generally go Sunday afternoons for a jacuzzi dip and catch up with friends. We tend to take something to eat and drink in between, if either of us plays then it's a bonus.

Handy being so close, although would need to book a Wednesday off if midweek. Glad you liked it.

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