FabSwingers.com forum: Outed

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Frickin great. Seems we've been outed locally.

Fuck you.

I am not ashamed of who I am.

So you've found this adult on an adult site.

Fuck you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ffffffffff them I agree

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Argh that's shite. What makes people do these things? Knobheads

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm going to the police tomorrow. I will not bow down.

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick

"I'm going to the police tomorrow. I will not bow down. "

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

What's happened?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do people actually gain by doing shit like this?

Quick example.

We were out for dinner at a Toby cavery a weeks or so ago, was almost certain we recognised the female half of a couple we met a while back, what did we do?

Fuck all...that's what we did, even though we've met before we actively stayed out of the way, it turned out it wasn't here, just a very close look-alike.

Stories I read on here of people approaching people in public from fab makes my skin crawl.

What happened to a bit of privacy and discretion.

Hope you get things sorted OP.

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

Hope it gets resolved. Hugs xx

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By *ollymopWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

They are on for the same reason so fuck them we are all adults OP do wat you have to, you are wat you are an your lovely don't let the bastards grind you down xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly the chance you take when making yourself recognisable. It's happened to us. Not much can be done.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i doubt I can say why this woman is grasping at straws and has started trying to discredit us. Not without getting a time out from the forums.

A young girl will be the one who's told her. She's on here somewhere. She outed another couple thinking it funny. She didn't seem concerned that the fella of the couple was an ex para. A hero. Oh; also dying of cancer.

This 20 yr old is enjoying the lifestyle but doesn't understand discretion.

So she'll have found us. Told this crap mother who's now trying to destroy everyone around her rather than admit it's her with the issue.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sadly the chance you take when making yourself recognisable. It's happened to us. Not much can be done."

I take your point. I don't hide who I am. The clues are there when you see me in the pub as I sit there feet up. Legs shaved. Anklet and flip flops. Everyone knows about my tattoos and belly piercing.

My wife has stopped swinging. Our profile hidden. It has been for a year or more. It's that profile that they're talking about.

I don't care who knows I'm trans.

My sexuality too.

Like I say; I'm on an adult site. I sleep with men. My business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sadly the chance you take when making yourself recognisable. It's happened to us. Not much can be done.

My wife has stopped swinging. Our profile hidden. It has been for a year or more. It's that profile that they're talking about.

I don't care who knows I'm trans.

My sexuality too.

Like I say; I'm on an adult site. I sleep with men. My business. "

Then i hate to say it but you do kinda open yourself up to it. It shouldn't be but it is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sadly the chance you take when making yourself recognisable. It's happened to us. Not much can be done.

My wife has stopped swinging. Our profile hidden. It has been for a year or more. It's that profile that they're talking about.

I don't care who knows I'm trans.

My sexuality too.

Like I say; I'm on an adult site. I sleep with men. My business.

Then i hate to say it but you do kinda open yourself up to it. It shouldn't be but it is."

Perhaps. Open myself to the world knowing I'm trans. Bi. A raving hat rack.

What I do in rooms isn't there to be used against me as a weapon though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I guess I should expect a bnp party member to stoop low.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

I'm guessing this has happened as recently as today??

Even if its in the last few days, you are bound to be fucked off. A good nights sleep will help you no end (yeah yeah I know, easier said than done right at this moment lol)

You have been through.. and will face more harrowing times in your life more deserving of your time and effort.

This is not one of those times.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm guessing this has happened as recently as today??

Even if its in the last few days, you are bound to be fucked off. A good nights sleep will help you no end (yeah yeah I know, easier said than done right at this moment lol)

You have been through.. and will face more harrowing times in your life more deserving of your time and effort.

This is not one of those times."

Deep breaths.

Thank you.

Shock.

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By *isexmistressWoman
over a year ago

Prestwich

"I'm guessing this has happened as recently as today??

Even if its in the last few days, you are bound to be fucked off. A good nights sleep will help you no end (yeah yeah I know, easier said than done right at this moment lol)

You have been through.. and will face more harrowing times in your life more deserving of your time and effort.

This is not one of those times.

Deep breaths.

Thank you.

Shock. "

My deepest sympathies..

Some morons have poison running through them,misfits dissatisfied with their lot usually..

Small compensation but true colours and all that..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it sounds like your loved ones already know everything there is to know so the question seems to be about what you say to people that know you more casually. Personally, I'd go scarface on their ass, go into work, stand on a chair and say:

"What you lookin' at? You all a bunch of fuckin' assholes. You know why? You don't have the guts to be what you wanna be? So... what that make you? Good? You're not good. You just know how to hide, how to lie. Me, I don't have that problem. Me, I always tell the truth. Even when I lie."

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By *ivinefoxWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

I'm sorry this has happened to you. It takes a lot of courage and strength to be who you truly are when it goes against the grain of what is considered 'normal' ( whatever the fuck that is). I hope it blows over for you. People just aren't that bothered these days about people's sexualities. Hold your head up high. People who matter to you won't care and those who do, don't matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as your closest friends and family understand, I'm sure it will blow over eventually. Those who are least happy often try to upset the balance and lives of others. Hope you're okay anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sorry this has happened to you. It takes a lot of courage and strength to be who you truly are when it goes against the grain of what is considered 'normal' ( whatever the fuck that is). I hope it blows over for you. People just aren't that bothered these days about people's sexualities. Hold your head up high. People who matter to you won't care and those who do, don't matter. "

This

You do what you want. We are only here once, so make the most of it doing whatever makes you happy and if your lifestyle offends some people, well fuck em'!

Axx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walk with you head held high. You are strong enough to be you. You don't shit all over people and then sleep like a baby. I know who I would rather have as a friend x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's shite Rachael, horrible when it's directed at your OH too who's not even active on here at the moment.

Hope you get it sorted x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *H Hello There!Couple
over a year ago

hotel in boro

Been thought something similer when someome found my old dirty david profile from 10 years ago from work. Sorry your going though this it will get better x

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By *exymilfandhimCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Frickin great. Seems we've been outed locally.

Fuck you.

I am not ashamed of who I am.

So you've found this adult on an adult site.

Fuck you. "

poor you. but maybe having the face pics for all to see isnt a good idea mate. make them private ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm guessing this has happened as recently as today??

Even if its in the last few days, you are bound to be fucked off. A good nights sleep will help you no end (yeah yeah I know, easier said than done right at this moment lol)

You have been through.. and will face more harrowing times in your life more deserving of your time and effort.

This is not one of those times.

Deep breaths.

Thank you.

Shock. "

There's some really idiots about (lots on here) You've done nothing wrong,You're not hurting anyone. Really hope you get this matter resolved xxx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Frickin great. Seems we've been outed locally.

Fuck you.

I am not ashamed of who I am.

So you've found this adult on an adult site.

Fuck you.

poor you. but maybe having the face pics for all to see isnt a good idea mate. make them private ... "

I had a face pic up and just this minute made it private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wankers are jealous xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Frickin great. Seems we've been outed locally.

Fuck you.

I am not ashamed of who I am.

So you've found this adult on an adult site.

Fuck you.

poor you. but maybe having the face pics for all to see isnt a good idea mate. make them private ... "

This goes for face pic Friday to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's too late to hide my face. Too late to hide.

All I can do is hold my pretty head high and show off the body they'd love to have.

So I enjoy sex. Big frickin deal. I'm a grown up.

If my pictures get downloaded and shown around, that's an offence, I believe.

If my being bisexual or transgender is spoken about in a derisory way, that too is an offence, I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going to the police tomorrow. I will not bow down.

not worth getting yourself upset over!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your first priority should be protect your children. Obviously they know about you being Trans, but do they need to read your posts on here about the multiple cocks in one night etc etc.

Getting your head around the fact that "dad" has become "mum" is one thing. But understanding that dad/mum has a black boyfriend and on occasion has asked for advice on how to cope with multiple strangers fucking him/her in the ass is an all together different step.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm guessing this has happened as recently as today??

Even if its in the last few days, you are bound to be fucked off. A good nights sleep will help you no end (yeah yeah I know, easier said than done right at this moment lol)

You have been through.. and will face more harrowing times in your life more deserving of your time and effort.

This is not one of those times.

Deep breaths.

Thank you.

Shock.

There's some really idiots about (lots on here) You've done nothing wrong,You're not hurting anyone. Really hope you get this matter resolved xxx"
+1

I really hope things work out and it's not as bad as it first appears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't want others to know then don't put it on the Internet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you don't want others to know then don't put it on the Internet. "

Point taken but all of us here have.

I doubt many of us would want our closest family, friends or work colleagues knowing though. And not having someone else telling them for you.

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By *ylonhunterMan
over a year ago

Can I ask what dose outed mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't want others to know then don't put it on the Internet.

Point taken but all of us here have.

I doubt many of us would want our closest family, friends or work colleagues knowing though. And not having someone else telling them for you. "

No of course not but doin a few simple things makes it more unlikely to be found out.

Hope it ends well for you

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Can I ask what dose outed mean? "

Some arse telling the world what you get up to in private

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

had somebody try to out us to my work both here and on a well known fetish site . had a lovely very giggley convo with the female head of our HR who was very sympathetic as it didnt involve company time or equipment so they wernt bothered .did notice several new members from around head office area that weekend tho .

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By *ylonhunterMan
over a year ago

"Can I ask what dose outed mean?

Some arse telling the world what you get up to in private "

Thanks I didn't know.

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

What a twat.

1. Piss in tupperware.

2. Freeze.

3. Pop out.

4. Through the letterbox.

Sorted.

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By *ylonhunterMan
over a year ago

"Can I ask what dose outed mean?

Some arse telling the world what you get up to in private "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What a twat.

1. Piss in tupperware.

2. Freeze.

3. Pop out.

4. Through the letterbox.

Sorted. "

Lol.

Dna?

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"What a twat.

1. Piss in tupperware.

2. Freeze.

3. Pop out.

4. Through the letterbox.

Sorted.

Lol.

Dna?

According to Google:

" Urine is not considered an ideal source of DNA due to the low concentration of nucleated cells present in human urine. The nucleated cells found in urine are typically white blood cells and epithelial cells. There are large differences between the amount of epithelial cells present in male and female urine. "

Plus, once it's soaked into her hall carpet, it'll be too hard to get enough out again for testing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What a twat.

1. Piss in tupperware.

2. Freeze.

3. Pop out.

4. Through the letterbox.

Sorted.

Lol.

Dna?

Got a pet ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What a twat.

1. Piss in tupperware.

2. Freeze.

3. Pop out.

4. Through the letterbox.

Sorted.

Lol.

Dna?

According to Google:

Urine is not considered an ideal source of DNA due to the low concentration of nucleated cells present in human urine. The nucleated cells found in urine are typically white blood cells and epithelial cells. There are large differences between the amount of epithelial cells present in male and female urine.

Plus, once it's soaked into her hall carpet, it'll be too hard to get enough out again for testing.

Sorted. Piss lolly it is then

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"What a twat.

1. Piss in tupperware.

2. Freeze.

3. Pop out.

4. Through the letterbox.

Sorted.

Lol.

Dna?

According to Google:

Plus, once it's soaked into her hall carpet, it'll be too hard to get enough out again for testing.

Sorted. Piss lolly it is then

Glad to be of assistance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What a twat.

1. Piss in tupperware.

2. Freeze.

3. Pop out.

4. Through the letterbox.

Sorted.

Lol.

Dna?

a couple of tons of horse manure tipped out side their front door pay cash no trace

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By *ylonhunterMan
over a year ago

Can you not tell the people your closest to and then you wouldn't have to worry about these pricks outing you? Surely your close family and friends would understand the person you are and stand with you and your choices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that...its totally pants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to say

I enjoy your forum posts and I'm sure that you are 100% comfortable with who you are

Hope this gets sorted

To all wanna be whistle blowers !!

We are here where we have to trust that the ppl who look at us and contact us are of the best of characters ! For our personal and sexual safety they will be discreet !

It's a shame that you can't name and shame ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What a twat.

1. Piss in tupperware.

2. Freeze.

3. Pop out.

4. Through the letterbox.

Sorted.

Lol.

Dna?

a couple of tons of horse manure tipped out side their front door pay cash no trace "

I can help with the horse poo!!! I've got loads!! Pm me their address, I'd be happy to help

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can you not tell the people your closest to and then you wouldn't have to worry about these pricks outing you? Surely your close family and friends would understand the person you are and stand with you and your choices.

I am one of the fortunate in the trans world who has come out to my family and friends already.

They accept my being transgender. They realise and recognise the female core exists in me and has all my life. It makes me the friend, parent and husband I am.

I've been there to listen and guide many of them through their emotional ups and downs. I even put two seriously emotionally damaged friends together and then helped them sort their personal issues. They're getting married now.

No one has been surprised to find I'm trans. It's made many open up even more. I love being their confidant.

Some were a little surprised I dress to express myself. I showed them some of my favourite pics and they all responded with a "wow".

They know I'm bi too.

They all know I adore my wife and she me.

Only a few people, including my wife, know I'm sexually active with men on a regular basis.

It's my sex life. That's the private bit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just to say

I enjoy your forum posts and I'm sure that you are 100% comfortable with who you are

Hope this gets sorted

To all wanna be whistle blowers !!

We are here where we have to trust that the ppl who look at us and contact us are of the best of characters ! For our personal and sexual safety they will be discreet !

It's a shame that you can't name and shame ? "

I'm glad my random outbursts on the forums are sometimes appreciated.

I mean no harm.

I see life through silly glasses.

It's supposed to be fun and if I can't laugh at myself sometimes I'm doomed.

I'd vanish up my own bum if I could sometimes but I can only get the first couple of inches in.

With that last image burnt irretrievably into your minds eye I'll stop there

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage

Regardless whether anyone has public pics or not, everyone has the right to expect respect, no one should be outed.

Sad sad world we live in if people get their kicks outing others

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage

"It's too late to hide my face. Too late to hide.

All I can do is hold my pretty head high and show off the body they'd love to have.

So I enjoy sex. Big frickin deal. I'm a grown up.

If my pictures get downloaded and shown around, that's an offence, I believe.

If my being bisexual or transgender is spoken about in a derisory way, that too is an offence, I think.

Todays gossip is tomorrows chip wrappers, dont lower yourselves by going to war against them, involve police then act as like you don't give a shit, people will soon move onto next gossip story

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By *abcouple11Couple
over a year ago

Truro

"It's too late to hide my face. Too late to hide.

All I can do is hold my pretty head high and show off the body they'd love to have.

So I enjoy sex. Big frickin deal. I'm a grown up.

If my pictures get downloaded and shown around, that's an offence, I believe.

If my being bisexual or transgender is spoken about in a derisory way, that too is an offence, I think.

Hang in there. Best wishes and projections of strength and determination from both of us - R&B.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think I'll ask my wife about going out dressed to our local tonight.

Bite the bullet.

Let them see what I really am. A hot transgender girl not some hairy 70's tranny.

If anyone has heard the rumours that we swing I'll just say to mind their own business.

If anyone has a go at me I'll just point out how much stronger my marriage is than theirs as most people have at least fantasised about casual sex or swinging or some such fun.

We're strong enough to be able to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your first priority should be protect your children. Obviously they know about you being Trans, but do they need to read your posts on here about the multiple cocks in one night etc etc.

is bang on kid

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By *anillanomoreCouple
over a year ago

Chichester

Shit. I am so sorry this has happened to such a lovely person.

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By *rallvalCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Bung prawns and fish in the blender

Freeze in block

Pop through letterbox on the first day of their summer holiday

Smile imagining their smell on their return after 2 weeks festering in the summer. It seeps into every surface

Revenge is a dish best served cold.

Or so a big boy told me once....

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

todays newspaper is tomorrows fish wrap....

as soon as you put a picture up you make yourself recognisable... its one of the things you take into consideration...

I have had past meets come up to me and say hello in the street... its nice, its doesn't have to be malicious and my private life is my private life.....

if people ask me how i know them... they get the answer of "they are friends" and no need to go further.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You stay strong and happy - the low life that outed you - well karma will come around. Sending hugs and proud to say you're on our friend list

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I'll ask my wife about going out dressed to our local tonight.

Bite the bullet.

Let them see what I really am. A hot transgender girl not some hairy 70's tranny.

If anyone has heard the rumours that we swing I'll just say to mind their own business.

If anyone has a go at me I'll just point out how much stronger my marriage is than theirs as most people have at least fantasised about casual sex or swinging or some such fun.

We're strong enough to be able to do it. "

Are you absolutely sure that the whole town has heard the rumours? Could it be just a few daft people gossiping? Don't out yourself if there's a chance it's not as bad as you think.

Good luck. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps changing profile names might help? If people try and google your name and fabswingers it might stop them looking for old forum posts

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your first priority should be protect your children. Obviously they know about you being Trans, but do they need to read your posts on here about the multiple cocks in one night etc etc.

Clearly my children are my first priority.

I doubt I'm the first parent to have discussed unconventional sex with others of a similar mind on a sex site.

I'd rather other people didnt feel the need,when they are on the same site and recognise me, to out me to the world though.

With hindsight perhaps I shouldn't be so openly honest on here.

My kids are tough.

When a jealous ex messaged my daughter some years ago to tell her I was seeing a 21 yr old girl she just got told to mind her own business. My daughter called me straight away to tell me.

Yes, I'd rather my kids didn't know about those things you list. I'm pretty confident if someone try's to tell them they'll tell that person to mind their own business and they won't then go to look. They respect my privacy same as I respect theirs. They won't want to read those posts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think I'll ask my wife about going out dressed to our local tonight.

Bite the bullet.

Let them see what I really am. A hot transgender girl not some hairy 70's tranny.

If anyone has heard the rumours that we swing I'll just say to mind their own business.

If anyone has a go at me I'll just point out how much stronger my marriage is than theirs as most people have at least fantasised about casual sex or swinging or some such fun.

We're strong enough to be able to do it.

Are you absolutely sure that the whole town has heard the rumours? Could it be just a few daft people gossiping? Don't out yourself if there's a chance it's not as bad as you think.

Good luck. x"

I doubt many know.

Quite a few will know I dress. I'm pretty sure if that but that's my own doing.

I'm happy to walk in my own shoes as a girl. Tbh I'm proud to.

I won't be outing myself as a swinger.

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By *anillanomoreCouple
over a year ago

Chichester

You have so many friends on here, I am sure lots of your neighbours won't care what you do in private and will just love you for the wonderful person you are.

You are lucky to have such an understanding family and supportive wife. They can't hurt you if you don't let them.

Think of it as a filter. You will find out who your real friends are anyone who judges you is not worth your time. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you seem surprised it's happened ?

it's a public forum lad so you reap what you sew

tis a shame but there you go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that. Don't know why someones business has to become someone elses business for vindictive reasons.

Could be worse, you could actually be the person who starts shitty rumours and tries to hurt other people in the way this person has. Small consolation but i'm sure plenty of people who know her are thinking this too.

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By *anillanomoreCouple
over a year ago

Chichester

"Your first priority should be protect your children. Obviously they know about you being Trans, but do they need to read your posts on here about the multiple cocks in one night etc etc.

I don't think anyone would want to hear details of their parents sex lives but there are plenty of people on this site. No one expects someone to out them. Rachael being trans is nothing to do with it. She may have been a little too trusting but she clearly needs support at the moment, not kicking when she is down.

I'm not keen on the victim blaming on this thread, I thought we were a little more open minded than the general population. This sounds more like the daily mail than a swingers site.

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By *anillanomoreCouple
over a year ago

Chichester

"Your first priority should be protect your children. Obviously they know about you being Trans, but do they need to read your posts on here about the multiple cocks in one night etc etc.

I'm not keen on the victim blaming on this thread, I thought we were a little more open minded than the general population. This sounds more like the daily mail than a swingers site. "

Sorry, just looked at your profile. Pot and kettle. You have face pics. Would you want to explain to your mother/kids your enjoyment of crossdressing or cock?

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Unfortunately the rise of the Internet makes the spreading of gossip much easier for trolls. It's edgy and exciting to be an exhibitionist in a closed environment but once that curtain that protects our privacy in here lets a little part of the outside world peep through and relay whats going on the edginess is not as comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no! Id delete my profile!

Who would want that even as a possibility!?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"you seem surprised it's happened ?

it's a public forum lad so you reap what you sew

tis a shame but there you go "

Not a very compassionate or helpful reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going to the police tomorrow. I will not bow down. "

I so hope you do.

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By *anillanomoreCouple
over a year ago

Chichester

"I'm going to the police tomorrow. I will not bow down.

I so hope you do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm going to the police tomorrow. I will not bow down.

I so hope you do.

I've calmed after the initial.

It's for me, no one else to out myself as trans or bi. It is also for me and my wife to decide if we want people to know we are swingers.

As I've already said; I am not phased about being outed for my sexuality and gender issues, although I'd rather choose the pace myself.

Outing our swinging is at a text message to my friend stage. If it turns out this woman has been telling others then, yes, I will take it to the police.

I've had a very enlightening message in my legal position.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm going to the police tomorrow. I will not bow down.

I so hope you do.

I've calmed after the initial.

It's for me, no one else to out myself as trans or bi. It is also for me and my wife to decide if we want people to know we are swingers.

As I've already said; I am not phased about being outed for my sexuality and gender issues, although I'd rather choose the pace myself.

Outing our swinging is at a text message to my friend stage. If it turns out this woman has been telling others then, yes, I will take it to the police.

I've had a very enlightening message in my legal position. "

Is it the woman that you text that you suspect of outing you?

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By *anillanomoreCouple
over a year ago

Chichester

"I'm going to the police tomorrow. I will not bow down.

I so hope you do.

I've calmed after the initial.

It's for me, no one else to out myself as trans or bi. It is also for me and my wife to decide if we want people to know we are swingers.

As I've already said; I am not phased about being outed for my sexuality and gender issues, although I'd rather choose the pace myself.

Outing our swinging is at a text message to my friend stage. If it turns out this woman has been telling others then, yes, I will take it to the police.

I've had a very enlightening message in my legal position.

Is it the woman that you text that you suspect of outing you?"

Surely she has outed herself too otherwise how did she find you on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex partner and I has this many years ago, I do have to say though there were not too many problems locally but plenty of support.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry this has happened to you. I hope it gets resolved with as little upset to yourself and family as possible x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well,you haven't broken any laws. Rise above them knowing that you are the better person.

It works for me having had constant jibes over the years re,being on the large size.

Feel the love from the nice fab members.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried, but I really don't understand this thread. Think maybe you're twisting your knickers over nowt Op

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm going to the police tomorrow. I will not bow down.

I so hope you do.

I've calmed after the initial.

It's for me, no one else to out myself as trans or bi. It is also for me and my wife to decide if we want people to know we are swingers.

As I've already said; I am not phased about being outed for my sexuality and gender issues, although I'd rather choose the pace myself.

Outing our swinging is at a text message to my friend stage. If it turns out this woman has been telling others then, yes, I will take it to the police.

I've had a very enlightening message in my legal position.

Is it the woman that you text that you suspect of outing you?"

It's a bit of a maze.

A young barmaid I know is on here as a single female. I blocked her and everyone local as soon as I realised.

She's gossiped about several people she's found but I thought we had escaped her gaze.

She's told my mates ex. His ex is bnp. Right wing. Racist. Homophobic. Convinced it's ' not natural' to be gay. Etc.

She and her sister are trying to alienate everyone they can from my mate. Hey text his recently ex girlfriend trying to ensure she stays away from me and my wife.

Little do they know but she and I are very close. She spray tans me and we do nails together. She knows all about me and my antics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was under the impression the text my friend got had been globally sent but I'm not so sure now that they've told that many people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Mrs was outed by a couple who shop where she works. She was not happy at all but just laughed it off. Her work colleagues just let it slide and never mention it. For us we wouldn't care if people knew what we do but we have kids who we don't want to know.

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By *anillanomoreCouple
over a year ago

Chichester

"I was under the impression the text my friend got had been globally sent but I'm not so sure now that they've told that many people. "

Fingers crossed for you that it isn't as bad as you first thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone should be who and what they want to be, without the behaviour of childish, ignorant, arseholes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have recently received a anonymous letter to our house saying that they are aware of what we do having seen us in a local club and its discusting as one of us works with kids and we could catch a std and pass it on to them ,And if social services found out we would have our own taken away it then goes on to threaten us that if we continued they would tell the local community where we live. They are on here whoever wrote it as they quote one of our verifications. There are some very sad pathetic people out there who seem to take pleasure in causing problems for others.

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By *haron4465TV/TS
over a year ago

HULL

Even in this big brother world we exist in what you do and enjoy in your private life is nothing to do with any one but you and yours it's not as if you are hurting any one these people should wind thier necks in and look to them selves so take heart and fuck em !!!!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have recently received a anonymous letter to our house saying that they are aware of what we do having seen us in a local club and its discusting as one of us works with kids and we could catch a std and pass it on to them ,And if social services found out we would have our own taken away it then goes on to threaten us that if we continued they would tell the local community where we live. They are on here whoever wrote it as they quote one of our verifications. There are some very sad pathetic people out there who seem to take pleasure in causing problems for others. "

Some proper arseholes about.

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By *anillanomoreCouple
over a year ago

Chichester

They saw you at a club but judge you for being there? They are on here as well?

How exactly are you going to pass STDS to kids you look after? I would rather have people who are confident about their sexuality around my kids than people who are so repressed. They are more likely to be hiding any unacceptable desires.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope you went to police..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would think that in this day and age the website owners could see the ip addy then the user and contact them advising them of the implications.

Wait a minute they can ! Report to admin in fact direct to the owner as it probably needs his level of authority.

I mean if they aren't happy to look after innocent ppl being outed then why should they have. Successful site? Him?

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By *anillanomoreCouple
over a year ago

Chichester

I hope you went to police.. "

Surely that is blackmail? If one of you is bi it could also be seen as a hate crime?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You would think that in this day and age the website owners could see the ip addy then the user and contact them advising them of the implications.

Wait a minute they can ! Report to admin in fact direct to the owner as it probably needs his level of authority.

I mean if they aren't happy to look after innocent ppl being outed then why should they have. Successful site? Him?"

I think the point is that since the letter was anonymous the recipients don't know who sent it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't know who sent it but have an inclination given the rather appalling grammar , it reads as if a child has written it which quite frankly given the immaturity of the content they are childish and very sad. The police have been informed and it's a criminal offence to write a anonymous letter that causes distress but proving who wrote it is the issue and although it could be Dna tested the author would have to be on the national database and in the grand scheme of things it's not a important public interest crime so there is not possibility for this course of action which is understandable.

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"you seem surprised it's happened ?

it's a public forum lad so you reap what you sew

tis a shame but there you go

Not a very compassionate or helpful reply."

Also some nice* casual misgendering there of the OP.

*disgusting

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"you seem surprised it's happened ?

it's a public forum lad so you reap what you sew

tis a shame but there you go

Not a very compassionate or helpful reply.

Also some nice* casual misgendering there of the OP.

*disgusting"

Yeah I chose to ignore that bit of his remark

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By *anillanomoreCouple
over a year ago

Chichester

"you seem surprised it's happened ?

it's a public forum lad so you reap what you sew

tis a shame but there you go

Not a very compassionate or helpful reply.

Also some nice* casual misgendering there of the OP.

*disgusting

Yeah I chose to ignore that bit of his remark"

Never argue with an idiot. They drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any updates?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What a twat.

1. Piss in tupperware.

2. Freeze.

3. Pop out.

4. Through the letterbox.

Sorted.

Lol.

Dna?

According to Google:

Plus, once it's soaked into her hall carpet, it'll be too hard to get enough out again for testing.

Can't comment on the DNA bit but that last sentence is definatley not true. It's just whether they can be bothered, they've got viable samples off a lot worse than a hall carpet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put on a good mascara and walk like a bitch x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Put on a good mascara and walk like a bitch x"

That I can do.

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By * Busty HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

It does make me wonder when people who exercise no discretion whatsoever, or respect for their own privacy, expect others to do it for them.

The world is full of pratts and small minded people, agreed, but if you make yourself such an obvious target, some of them will make a song and a dance about it because their lives are totally s***.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP now the horse has bolted damage limitation is what you need to concentrate on now, for your children.

You're a big girl and I'm sure can handle yourself but your children will be vulnerable from now on, their well being should be your number one priority.

I knew a couple who were outed and I'm afraid to say it was their children who suffered badly. School life was unbearable and they moved to different schools because of it.

You and your Mrs have done nothing wrong but others sadly won't agree so you have to fully protect your children now.

I obviously don't know how old your children are or even if still at school but I'm sure you get my meaning, if they're young adults now.

Swinging will never be accepted in mainstream society and being trans aswell doesn't help your situation.

I hope it all blows over and good luck I think you will need it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you seem surprised it's happened ?

it's a public forum lad so you reap what you sew

tis a shame but there you go

Not a very compassionate or helpful reply.

Also some nice* casual misgendering there of the OP.

*disgusting

Yeah I chose to ignore that bit of his remark

Never argue with an idiot. They drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.

am not wrong though babe

you're not the first too hate me for it

green eyed monster my ol mum would say

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"you seem surprised it's happened ?

it's a public forum lad so you reap what you sew

tis a shame but there you go

Not a very compassionate or helpful reply.

Also some nice* casual misgendering there of the OP.

*disgusting

Yeah I chose to ignore that bit of his remark

Never argue with an idiot. They drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.

am not wrong though babe

you're not the first too hate me for it

green eyed monster my ol mum would say "

I assume you're referring to your pointless deliberate misgendering here?

I don't hate you for your ignorance and neither will I bother rising to it.

You clearly have your own view and I'm not interested in it.

Thank you for your contribution to the thread.

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"you seem surprised it's happened ?

it's a public forum lad so you reap what you sew

tis a shame but there you go

Not a very compassionate or helpful reply.

Also some nice* casual misgendering there of the OP.

*disgusting

Yeah I chose to ignore that bit of his remark

Never argue with an idiot. They drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.

am not wrong though babe

you're not the first too hate me for it

green eyed monster my ol mum would say "

Don't think anyone here is jealous of your casual transphobia, buddy. Lol.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Racheal .... telling your family was the biggest hurdle ....

The people who are currently being very childish towards you ... will if you ignore them , get bored , and this time next week you will be old news .....chin up girl .....go buy some new shoes .....and dont worry about them ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Racheal .... telling your family was the biggest hurdle ....

Brilliant advice. Anything that suggests I buy more shoes has to be good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rachael,

I am sorry this has happened and hope you're ok.

This is another of the threads that builds my blocklist with the (few) negative responses you've had!

Keep fighting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you seem surprised it's happened ?

it's a public forum lad so you reap what you sew

tis a shame but there you go

Not a very compassionate or helpful reply.

Also some nice* casual misgendering there of the OP.

*disgusting

Yeah I chose to ignore that bit of his remark

Never argue with an idiot. They drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.

am not wrong though babe

you're not the first too hate me for it

green eyed monster my ol mum would say

I assume you're referring to your pointless deliberate misgendering here?

I don't hate you for your ignorance and neither will I bother rising to it.

You clearly have your own view and I'm not interested in it.

Thank you for your contribution to the thread."

post a thread and only want replies that you wanna hear

nice one pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you seem surprised it's happened ?

it's a public forum lad so you reap what you sew

tis a shame but there you go

Not a very compassionate or helpful reply.

Also some nice* casual misgendering there of the OP.

*disgusting

Yeah I chose to ignore that bit of his remark

Never argue with an idiot. They drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.

am not wrong though babe

you're not the first too hate me for it

green eyed monster my ol mum would say

Don't think anyone here is jealous of your casual transphobia, buddy. Lol.

transphobia ? that even a word lovely

lad is a term of endearment where i come from

still put words in my mouth like for dramatic effect

give me strength

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"you seem surprised it's happened ?

it's a public forum lad so you reap what you sew

tis a shame but there you go

Not a very compassionate or helpful reply.

Also some nice* casual misgendering there of the OP.

*disgusting

Yeah I chose to ignore that bit of his remark

Never argue with an idiot. They drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.

am not wrong though babe

you're not the first too hate me for it

green eyed monster my ol mum would say

Don't think anyone here is jealous of your casual transphobia, buddy. Lol.

transphobia ? that even a word lovely

lad is a term of endearment where i come from

still put words in my mouth like for dramatic effect

give me strength "

Sure, sure. Bet you call all the girls "lad".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you seem surprised it's happened ?

it's a public forum lad so you reap what you sew

tis a shame but there you go

Not a very compassionate or helpful reply.

Also some nice* casual misgendering there of the OP.

*disgusting

Yeah I chose to ignore that bit of his remark

Never argue with an idiot. They drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.

am not wrong though babe

you're not the first too hate me for it

green eyed monster my ol mum would say

Don't think anyone here is jealous of your casual transphobia, buddy. Lol.

transphobia ? that even a word lovely

lad is a term of endearment where i come from

still put words in my mouth like for dramatic effect

give me strength

Sure, sure. Bet you call all the girls "lad".

bang on a bit don't ya lovely

and where did I say that ?

proper hard work you like

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"you seem surprised it's happened ?

it's a public forum lad so you reap what you sew

tis a shame but there you go

Not a very compassionate or helpful reply.

Also some nice* casual misgendering there of the OP.

*disgusting

Yeah I chose to ignore that bit of his remark

Never argue with an idiot. They drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.

am not wrong though babe

you're not the first too hate me for it

green eyed monster my ol mum would say

Don't think anyone here is jealous of your casual transphobia, buddy. Lol.

transphobia ? that even a word lovely

lad is a term of endearment where i come from

still put words in my mouth like for dramatic effect

give me strength

Sure, sure. Bet you call all the girls "lad".

bang on a bit don't ya lovely

and where did I say that ?

proper hard work you like "

You said it's a term of endearment. So do you use it with all genders? Or only men? If so, you're misgendering Rachael, my girl.

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

For those recommending going to the police..... I'd think VERY carefully before doing that.

Involvement with the police did not work out well for me at all.

But good luck whatever you choose

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"you seem surprised it's happened ?

it's a public forum lad so you reap what you sew

tis a shame but there you go

Not a very compassionate or helpful reply.

Also some nice* casual misgendering there of the OP.

*disgusting

Yeah I chose to ignore that bit of his remark

Never argue with an idiot. They drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.

am not wrong though babe

you're not the first too hate me for it

green eyed monster my ol mum would say

I assume you're referring to your pointless deliberate misgendering here?

I don't hate you for your ignorance and neither will I bother rising to it.

You clearly have your own view and I'm not interested in it.

Thank you for your contribution to the thread.

post a thread and only want replies that you wanna hear

nice one pal "

Lol. Silly boy. I've been on this site long enough to know that any thread I post will have replies who support me and some who don't.

You're right. It's a public forum. I reap what I sew.

As for referring to me with a 'term of endearment ' that the majority would consider to be a term of reference aimed st a person of male gende; well I'll let the public forum draw their own conclusions as to your motives.

I do, however, wish you luck getting meets now you've shown your colours here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh come on! You know no one uses the forum! It won't make any difference to his success or lack of it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh come on! You know no one uses the forum! It won't make any difference to his success or lack of it!"

Ah. Bugger. Another massive flaw in my scheme.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow this thread's helped me with my block list.

Anyway.

Any more developments OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wow this thread's helped me with my block list.

Anyway.

Any more developments OP?

I thought block lists may grow after the response of some.

Well I've been messaged by a second person who was told about me.

I was described as a freak, apparently. She was challenged as to why dressing made me a freak. The person she said it to has a transgender cousin. She claimed I wear my wife's clothes and prance around the house.

It doesn't appear she's telling people for positive reasons. More to try to belittle me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you seem surprised it's happened ?

it's a public forum lad so you reap what you sew

tis a shame but there you go

Not a very compassionate or helpful reply.

Also some nice* casual misgendering there of the OP.

*disgusting

Yeah I chose to ignore that bit of his remark

Never argue with an idiot. They drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.

am not wrong though babe

you're not the first too hate me for it

green eyed monster my ol mum would say

I assume you're referring to your pointless deliberate misgendering here?

I don't hate you for your ignorance and neither will I bother rising to it.

You clearly have your own view and I'm not interested in it.

Thank you for your contribution to the thread.

post a thread and only want replies that you wanna hear

nice one pal

Lol. Silly boy. I've been on this site long enough to know that any thread I post will have replies who support me and some who don't.

You're right. It's a public forum. I reap what I sew.

I do, however, wish you luck getting meets now you've shown your colours here. "

like i said kid I'm never wrong

some hate me for for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's at times like this rach, when I really wish we could name and shame. Also a new rule for the site...outed means lifetime ban from fab! Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh come on! You know no one uses the forum! It won't make any difference to his success or lack of it!"

my ol mum used to say show them the way stevie and they will follow

never be a sheep

she was never wrong either like

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Unfortunately the rise of the Internet makes the spreading of gossip much easier for trolls. It's edgy and exciting to be an exhibitionist in a closed environment but once that curtain that protects our privacy in here lets a little part of the outside world peep through and relay whats going on the edginess is not as comfortable "

Exactly. And this not only applies to Bisexual or Transgender people but to everyone

But am still sorry that this happened to you, Rachael. If it is any consolation, it is now one less thing which can happen to you in the future

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"you seem surprised it's happened ?

it's a public forum lad so you reap what you sew

tis a shame but there you go

Not a very compassionate or helpful reply.

Also some nice* casual misgendering there of the OP.

*disgusting

Yeah I chose to ignore that bit of his remark

Never argue with an idiot. They drag you down to their level and beat you with experience.

am not wrong though babe

you're not the first too hate me for it

green eyed monster my ol mum would say

Don't think anyone here is jealous of your casual transphobia, buddy. Lol.

transphobia ? that even a word lovely

lad is a term of endearment where i come from

still put words in my mouth like for dramatic effect

give me strength

Sure, sure. Bet you call all the girls "lad".

That's what he calls his mother. Personally, I can't see a problem with that

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Oh come on! You know no one uses the forum! It won't make any difference to his success or lack of it!

my ol mum used to say show them the way stevie and they will follow

never be a sheep

she was never wrong either like

Your ol mum had a lot to say for herself didn't she,maybe you want to start thinking for yourself lad...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm flipping this to a positive in my mind.

My ol muvver used to say to look for the positive, and like me, she's often right. Like me too; she's not afraid to learn or admit when she's wrong either.

As Josie said; it's one less thing that can happen now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh come on! You know no one uses the forum! It won't make any difference to his success or lack of it!

my ol mum used to say show them the way stevie and they will follow

never be a sheep

she was never wrong either like

Your ol mum had a lot to say for herself didn't she,maybe you want to start thinking for yourself lad..."

tis true babe like most women knowing when to be quiet was not her strong point

still as rare as it is she's a goodun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear about this

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Oh come on! You know no one uses the forum! It won't make any difference to his success or lack of it!

my ol mum used to say show them the way stevie and they will follow

never be a sheep

she was never wrong either like

Your ol mum had a lot to say for herself didn't she,maybe you want to start thinking for yourself lad...

tis true babe like most women knowing when to be quiet was not her strong point

still as rare as it is she's a goodun "

Listen lassie, I spent good money trying to learn English. Now do me a favour and write in English

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By *ubyExpreeWoman
over a year ago

BBBW Heaven

@Steview. Your comments are decide and Homophobic. I hope your removed from the site and banned. You little mind is not right for this site!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Oh come on! You know no one uses the forum! It won't make any difference to his success or lack of it!

my ol mum used to say show them the way stevie and they will follow

never be a sheep

she was never wrong either like

Your ol mum had a lot to say for herself didn't she,maybe you want to start thinking for yourself lad...

tis true babe like most women knowing when to be quiet was not her strong point

still as rare as it is she's a goodun "

Ay,I'm sure you're ol mum is proud of you lad

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"Oh come on! You know no one uses the forum! It won't make any difference to his success or lack of it!

my ol mum used to say show them the way stevie and they will follow

never be a sheep

she was never wrong either like

Your ol mum had a lot to say for herself didn't she,maybe you want to start thinking for yourself lad...

tis true babe like most women knowing when to be quiet was not her strong point

still as rare as it is she's a goodun

Listen lassie, I spent good money trying to learn English. Now do me a favour and write in English"

It's funny _osie,I think he is actually his mum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh come on! You know no one uses the forum! It won't make any difference to his success or lack of it!

my ol mum used to say show them the way stevie and they will follow

never be a sheep

she was never wrong either like

Your ol mum had a lot to say for herself didn't she,maybe you want to start thinking for yourself lad..."

That's prob cos his mum had a 25 odd year start - funny eh .

You ever know your mum to be wrong about anything ?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Wow this thread's helped me with my block list.

Anyway.

Any more developments OP?

I thought block lists may grow after the response of some.

Well I've been messaged by a second person who was told about me.

It doesn't appear she's telling people for positive reasons. More to try to belittle me. "

All of this could be tittle tattle, he said this, she said the other.

To your OP, if as you say the person is on the site then report the person as Admin take "outing" people very seriously.

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