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"[Removed by poster at 13/02/16 02:18:29]" Spending this weekend with hot wife whilst hubbys away....., sharing some of the details... | |||
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"This sounds like a horrendous idea, you're setting him up without his knowledge, if he goes for it you will know that your "friendship" isn't worth a damn, and if your OH likes him that much (and you're feeling jealousy just thinking about it), well....... Way to ruin both friendship and relationship in my book." Totally agree | |||
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"From what has been said, he can obviously read between the lines that it may be more than just a social call as both of you have been leading him on. The not having any kind of control because you will be working adds to the sexual tension for you. It sounds really exciting. When he arrives, your wife should make it clear to him that you are fully aware of what might happen later and are quite happy/ excited by the prospect After that it's down to them to have fun and you to not go completely crazy with lust" Tell him before he arrives only fair | |||
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"Hey I think all married men should let their best mate fuck their wife ,its a given ,give something back to the community ,share and share alike ,its what mates are for " So are you married and can we all share your wife? | |||
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"pmsl - your mate is going be fucking your wife every time you are away from now until whenever. You are now going to have to have a chat with him about not fucking your wife every time you are away, and you are going to lose a friend whether he has fucked your wife already or not. Good for your horn, not good for your social circle lol " Why would his mate be fucking his wife every time. Does she not get to consent each time. Or are you assuming once a lady says yes she no longer has an option? | |||
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"pmsl - your mate is going be fucking your wife every time you are away from now until whenever. You are now going to have to have a chat with him about not fucking your wife every time you are away, and you are going to lose a friend whether he has fucked your wife already or not. Good for your horn, not good for your social circle lol Why would his mate be fucking his wife every time. Does she not get to consent each time. Or are you assuming once a lady says yes she no longer has an option? " everyone knows women are just chattels oh the joys of equality | |||
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"This sounds like a horrendous idea, you're setting him up without his knowledge, if he goes for it you will know that your "friendship" isn't worth a damn, and if your OH likes him that much (and you're feeling jealousy just thinking about it), well....... Way to ruin both friendship and relationship in my book." We agree completely. | |||
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"It'd be pretty funny if he turned her down out of loyalty to you, then calls you to say: "mate, your bird's a slag."" Well at that point he can ask if he was tempted and if he says yes, then say well next time just go for it. | |||
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"It'd be pretty funny if he turned her down out of loyalty to you, then calls you to say: "mate, your bird's a slag."" That would make him a cracking mate | |||
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"It gives one of you bragging rights in the pub though " We think you're playing with fire here. We don't ever mix swinging and friendships as the lines can become blurred and as someone says, bragging rights, etc, etc. For some people this can work, for a lot of people, it doesn't. | |||
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"Can't wait for an update.. " Would you say go for it or think again? | |||
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"This sounds like a horrendous idea, you're setting him up without his knowledge, if he goes for it you will know that your "friendship" isn't worth a damn, and if your OH likes him that much (and you're feeling jealousy just thinking about it), well....... Way to ruin both friendship and relationship in my book." In total agreement, this may sound horny....but could all end in tears... | |||
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"Op you're up for it, the Mrs is up for it and obviously your friend is more than up for it. There really should be no problem but the fact that you're seeking advice/assurance suggests there's more than something in the back of your mind ? Only you know what that is but if you have any doubts then call it off and be there when/if it actually happens." | |||
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"Maybe don't do it this time. Have a meet with him and you present. Then do this next time you are away. Everyone knows the score then." If they tell him though then the seduction element is lost. They may as well just arrange a meeting on here. | |||
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"If Seduction is the key element then a night in a singles bar is a much less risky option. The senario proposed is messing with the emotions of a friend. " True but I can understand the attraction, a singles bar involves having to deal with d*unken loutish behaviour and going solo without friends makes for an awkward night. Were as a friend brings an element of safety, that they know what they are getting. Not saying it's without problems but I can also see it from their side. | |||
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"Dodgy he is your mate buddy for me its teritory you don't need to stray into. But it's your life, but think you asking for trouble...." | |||
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"Thanks for all the messages - even the normal forum trolls that can't be happy or complimentary about any post or scenario! There's been no update because the event is set for Saturday and nothing has changed in the mean time - 'ish!! Obviously there were some details that I forgot to include and the key one is that before they actually 'did' anything - he would have been told that I was fully aware and wanted it to happen! That was her idea because she doesn't want him feeling bad lol The issue we have now is that I don't have to go away anymore. So what we have decided to do is - she is going to meet him early evening while I'm at work. I will meet up with them later. We will go back to ours for drinks and I will then go to bed at some point - when she will deduce him! The choice is then up to me whether I go and join them or not! I think I preferred the original idea though!!??" Well, do you still have a friend? L | |||
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"Morning all - sorry for not keeping some of you 'instantly' updated on the events of the weekend lol As some If you read, the plans changed and I was there on Saturday. So we all went out to a few pubs, she was very sexually dressed and had her remote vibrating bullet inside her. We all had a good laugh and it was the usual flirty sexually charged night that we normally have! We spoke about threesomes and she came out and said that we really enjoy them and have had quite a few. Which then developed into quite a long chat about what we had done and what we liked doing. When we got home we had a few more drinks and I decided to give him the remote to the toy inside her, which he started controlling. I could tell that this really turned her, the fact that he was controlling the feelings in her pussy! After about 15 minutes I 'fell asleep' on the sofa and they carried in chatting. Luckily, before I fell asleep properly, she asked if he could help her sort out a duvet for me as they are stored in the top of our wardrobe! They both went off to our bedroom and all was quiet! After 15 minutes I crept to the bottom of stairs and could hear her moaning away and the actual squelching of her as she was so wet. After about 20 mins of that they started fucking properly and I could hear everything and went back to the sofa and wanked before falling into a d*unken, spunky sleep! I woke up at about 0530 and went up to bed, she was in there on her own so I cuddled up-was told to get my fingers away as she was quite sore and I'd have to wait. Finally got to have my way with her at about midday lol Without a doubt the horniest night ever!" Interesting....and have you spoken with your friend since? And how's that dynamic now? L | |||
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"Hey I think all married men should let their best mate fuck their wife ,its a given ,give something back to the community ,share and share alike ,its what mates are for " I agree Surprise Surprise!! | |||
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"Spoke on Sunday and was all good - he even made a jokey comment about how awesome she is lol" Sounds like it went well for you all. Your partner had a really good time with him so.....does she want to have sex with him again? L | |||
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"If it was a swinging friend would not have a problem but a friend who knows nothing about this side of our life noway our golden rule no friends" Agreed we are the same Separate your friends from swingers | |||
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"Morning all - sorry for not keeping some of you 'instantly' updated on the events of the weekend lol As some If you read, the plans changed and I was there on Saturday. So we all went out to a few pubs, she was very sexually dressed and had her remote vibrating bullet inside her. We all had a good laugh and it was the usual flirty sexually charged night that we normally have! We spoke about threesomes and she came out and said that we really enjoy them and have had quite a few. Which then developed into quite a long chat about what we had done and what we liked doing. When we got home we had a few more drinks and I decided to give him the remote to the toy inside her, which he started controlling. I could tell that this really turned her, the fact that he was controlling the feelings in her pussy! After about 15 minutes I 'fell asleep' on the sofa and they carried in chatting. Luckily, before I fell asleep properly, she asked if he could help her sort out a duvet for me as they are stored in the top of our wardrobe! They both went off to our bedroom and all was quiet! After 15 minutes I crept to the bottom of stairs and could hear her moaning away and the actual squelching of her as she was so wet. After about 20 mins of that they started fucking properly and I could hear everything and went back to the sofa and wanked before falling into a d*unken, spunky sleep! I woke up at about 0530 and went up to bed, she was in there on her own so I cuddled up-was told to get my fingers away as she was quite sore and I'd have to wait. Finally got to have my way with her at about midday lol Without a doubt the horniest night ever!" Sounds like a perfect night for the three of you well done for going through with it. You will have to create another fantasy and share that with us next | |||
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"I think this sounds very hot indeed! You're all grown ups and we're all aware of what was happening. Enjoy it! Don't let others piss on your chips ... (Am very jealous... Not that I'd find many of my hubbys friends that hot " Were... Stupid iPhone | |||
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