FabSwingers.com forum: how do i tell her

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

as you can see from my profile im a bi cd , my gf knows i dress up and likes me to do so for her when the need arises , the problem i have is id love to experience dressing with another cd with my gf there with us ... also would love her to join in and have fun with us while we dress , this is and has been a total fantasy of mine for a long time , id love to watch my gf play with another cd and me at same time ... just dont know how to aproach the subject .. any advice would be good please

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Maybe a bit of porn along those lines, see how she reacts to that first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sounds awesome! I'm (male half) not a cross-dresser myself but I think if I were and I wanted to invite another CD over for a girly dress up and drinks the mrs would love it!

I think if she encourages you to be who you want to be and likes you dressing up then she will have no problem with the first part of it.

With the second part (having a joint play) that will depend entirely on if she likes the idea of group sex. The worst she can say is no! It's scary asking your partner for the first time what you would like but she'll sure hear you out.

My mrs said she hated the idea of being with other people when i tactfully asked her what she thought of 3/moresomes... Turns out she ends up telling that she didn't want to seem 'like a slut' or give me the wrong impression about it. She loves it almost as much as I do

Good luck

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By *eepndarkMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"That sounds awesome! I'm (male half) not a cross-dresser myself but I think if I were and I wanted to invite another CD over for a girly dress up and drinks the mrs would love it!

I think if she encourages you to be who you want to be and likes you dressing up then she will have no problem with the first part of it.

Good luck

You lucky sod.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"as you can see from my profile im a bi cd , my gf knows i dress up and likes me to do so for her when the need arises , the problem i have is id love to experience dressing with another cd with my gf there with us ... also would love her to join in and have fun with us while we dress , this is and has been a total fantasy of mine for a long time , id love to watch my gf play with another cd and me at same time ... just dont know how to approach the subject .. any advice would be good please "

Actually I would go careful.. I would bring the subject in gerneral up in a casual manner about the subject.. then gauge her reaction.. then take it from there

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Just tell her .... im sure she would rather you be honest with her ..... then its out ... simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start off asking if you can invite a friend round to dress together ?

If she enjoys the whole experience ask if she'd like to take things further ?

Just don't rush ?

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Maybe explore fantasies in discussion together, perhaps during an intimate moment and ask her if she's ever fancied a threesome. If she is not keen, drop it. If she likes the idea, ask her if that would be with a F, M, CD, etc and develop.

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