FabSwingers.com forum: How do I appeal to tgirls and tvs?

By *ingcom76 OP Man
over a year ago

cheltenham

Hi,

Been trying for ages to find a tgirl or tv but I'm not having much luck. How can I improve either my profile or what is the best opening message to send?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you need to remember we are all individuals. There is no magic method of appealing to any type of person on this site, whether they are male, female, Trans etc.

Whilst I am not digging you out for it, being married will mean a lot of people wont meet you.

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By *isandreTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

A two and a half line profile isn't quite long in enough to get me overly interested and when it includes

'Looking to tick a few things off my to do list before the end of the year'

it doesn't improve matters.

A couple of paragraph's would be better, a bit more about you and some more details about why you find yourself drawn to t-girls would help you.

As it is there is no suggestion you would put any real value on my company other than a line through something on a bit of paper. I'm more than that, you know?

So, why do we fascinate you? At the moment all I get is that I am held in as much esteem as an elusive Panini sticker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi,

Been trying for ages to find a tgirl or tv but I'm not having much luck. How can I improve either my profile or what is the best opening message to send? "

Sorry but I don't think your poo splattered butt cheeks and dido will do you any favours either.

. I'd delete that pic for starters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a little trim down below would help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi,

Been trying for ages to find a tgirl or tv but I'm not having much luck. How can I improve either my profile or what is the best opening message to send?

Sorry but I don't think your poo splattered butt cheeks and dido will do you any favours either.

. I'd delete that pic for starters."

Agree....

Also I know a few tvs amd they like smooth not a wire rug x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi,

Been trying for ages to find a tgirl or tv but I'm not having much luck. How can I improve either my profile or what is the best opening message to send?

Sorry but I don't think your poo splattered butt cheeks and dido will do you any favours either.

. I'd delete that pic for starters."

Agh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd recommend grooming and up the personal hygiene

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By *oxymTV/TS
over a year ago

cramlington

Yeah a trim and douche before you use a dildo again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi,

Been trying for ages to find a tgirl or tv but I'm not having much luck. How can I improve either my profile or what is the best opening message to send?

Sorry but I don't think your poo splattered butt cheeks and dido will do you any favours either.

. I'd delete that pic for starters."

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

No one likes to feel like a fetish. We are all human beings with feelings and want to be lusted after for being ourselves, not because we are something for you to tick off a bucket list

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By *inkyKellyCDTV/TS
over a year ago

Coventry

I'd agree with what's been said already mostly - I obviously can't speak for all Tgirls as we're not clones of each other but:

-The married thing is a no for me personally (but I very much appreciate the honesty)

-That dildo picture isn't helping you, for reasons already mentioned

-You're a bit hairy down there (again, this is down to preference though, but I like it trimmed a bit. Since you're married I doubt you get a say in it, though!

)

-Again, this might be more my preference but you don't say what you'd like to do with a Tgirl, whether you'd like to be 'top' or 'bottom' essentially. From the cock cage and the dildo i'm guessing bottom, and I get the impression a lot of/most Tgirls prefer to be bottom.

On the bright side;

-You actually mention you're into Tgirls in your "looking for" bit and profile, you may think it's odd that it surprises me but most messages I get are from guys with "straight" and "looking for: women" only in their profile. Thankyou for not being ashamed about it (nobody wants to sleep with someone who's thinking "uuugh" in the back of their mind).

-You have meet verifications! Should help you a fair bit, shows you actually turn up and aren't a fantasist.

-You can type in actual English and seem a decent guy generally.

Keep at it :]

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By *ingcom76 OP Man
over a year ago

cheltenham

Thanks for the tips. I've deleted said photo and will rethink my profile text. No wish to shave downstairs. Did it once and it's not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't like to think my lover saw me as a fetish. Maybe some girls do but not me.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Try this: "gizzashagyabitch" or "drop-em-n-spread-em"

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By *ingcom76 OP Man
over a year ago

cheltenham

"I wouldn't like to think my lover saw me as a fetish. Maybe some girls do but not me.

It's not a fetish for me. I find tgirls and tvs both fascinating and sexy.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Personally I've no interest in being a tick on a bucket list.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

just read their profile and say hi liked your profile/pix and would love to meet up with you sometime. its that easy

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By *ingcom76 OP Man
over a year ago

cheltenham

"just read their profile and say hi liked your profile/pix and would love to meet up with you sometime. its that easy "

It isn't. Done that twice this week with no joy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the tips. I've deleted said photo and will rethink my profile text. No wish to shave downstairs. Did it once and it's not for me.

Trim it back then! No one like parting a bush to get to the goods and no one likes pulling pubes from their teeth. You ask for help to achieve a meet but you're ignoring the wishes of the very ladies you're after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the tips. I've deleted said photo and will rethink my profile text. No wish to shave downstairs. Did it once and it's not for me.

I have to say shaving is not just for you but your sexual partners. If it causes you a problem, such as irritation , I understand but otherwise I think you could prob do with doing something

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

"just read their profile and say hi liked your profile/pix and would love to meet up with you sometime. its that easy

It isn't. Done that twice this week with no joy.

Twice and no joy? How awful

You have to be patient on here and wait until you find someone where you meet their requirements and they like you. That could be weeks/months and a large number of messages. That's just normal.

Don't go to the other extreme mind and carpet bomb the TS/TV community on here

I don't think Samantha meant that if you send a message like that you'll definitely get a reply and a meet. She just means you've do the right thing and all you can do. The rest will be in the hands of the Fab gods.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

"Hi,

Been trying for ages to find a tgirl or tv but I'm not having much luck. How can I improve either my profile or what is the best opening message to send? "

you could always become one.. your chances would maybe improve then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't like to think my lover saw me as a fetish. Maybe some girls do but not me.

It's not a fetish for me. I find tgirls and tvs both fascinating and sexy.

Well you profile said we were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi,

Been trying for ages to find a tgirl or tv but I'm not having much luck. How can I improve either my profile or what is the best opening message to send? "

Won't appeal to anyone with a hidden profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try un-blocking you're profile. Might help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's rewriting it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi,

Been trying for ages to find a tgirl or tv but I'm not having much luck. How can I improve either my profile or what is the best opening message to send? "
hey you appeal to people by being appealing all people have the same needs respectful messages bit of humour face pic with a smile

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By *ingcom76 OP Man
over a year ago

cheltenham

"Try un-blocking you're profile. Might help"

It's currently closed for refurbishment.

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By *ingcom76 OP Man
over a year ago

cheltenham

"I wouldn't like to think my lover saw me as a fetish. Maybe some girls do but not me.

It's not a fetish for me. I find tgirls and tvs both fascinating and sexy.

Well you profile said we were. "

It did but it won't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't like to think my lover saw me as a fetish. Maybe some girls do but not me.

It's not a fetish for me. I find tgirls and tvs both fascinating and sexy.

Well you profile said we were.

It did but it won't.

Hence my comment. You said you saw us as a fetish to tick of a list.

Hopefully your new profile will be a little less insulting to your target audience.

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

Well be chatty and do not talk to us as though we are sex objects,begin with talking about everyday things.We all know what you want but just saying your horny will get you blocked by me and others,improve profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try treating them like you would any girl

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Your profiles a little confusing ....it seems your looking for allsorts ....

Youd be better off going to a fetish club ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi,

Been trying for ages to find a tgirl or tv but I'm not having much luck. How can I improve either my profile or what is the best opening message to send? "

I think you should get a pic done with you going down on that bed post. You will defo pull then.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Thanks for the tips. I've deleted said photo and will rethink my profile text. No wish to shave downstairs. Did it once and it's not for me.

I have to say shaving is not just for you but your sexual partners. If it causes you a problem, such as irritation , I understand but otherwise I think you could prob do with doing something"

But if his grooming habits down stairs change it could be a give away to his Mrs

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By *ingcom76 OP Man
over a year ago

cheltenham

"Thanks for the tips. I've deleted said photo and will rethink my profile text. No wish to shave downstairs. Did it once and it's not for me.

I have to say shaving is not just for you but your sexual partners. If it causes you a problem, such as irritation , I understand but otherwise I think you could prob do with doing something

Right

But if his grooming habits down stairs change it could be a give away to his Mrs "

I tried it once and couldn't stand the itching as it grew again.

Have rewritten my profile too. I'm not great with writing but hopefully it's better now.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

well u dont have to shave totally ..just a good trim wd be fine ..personally i wdnt meet any guy that had pubes like that .it just puts me off..tho i see youve had a few meets so some girls obviously dont mind .

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East

"Maybe a little trim down below would help?"

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By *ingcom76 OP Man
over a year ago

cheltenham

Tried trimming recently but have yet to take a photo of the end result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi,

Been trying for ages to find a tgirl or tv but I'm not having much luck. How can I improve either my profile or what is the best opening message to send? "

Well you aren't doing yourself any favours on your profile, 1-Don't know how to express yourself. 2-I'm bored (never a good start) 3-foot fetish - severely limiting when its the only positive thing on your profile. PS I have met t-gurls on here and rl. They all like different types of men, some like masculines and many only like other t-gurls.

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By *ingcom76 OP Man
over a year ago

cheltenham

"Hi,

Been trying for ages to find a tgirl or tv but I'm not having much luck. How can I improve either my profile or what is the best opening message to send?

-?"

I wish I could write the perfect profile and be could with words. I know I can't appeal to everyone but my profile as undergone several rewrites since joining but I've yet to find the perfect formula for creating a perfect profile.

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover

"Hi,

Been trying for ages to find a tgirl or tv but I'm not having much luck. How can I improve either my profile or what is the best opening message to send? "

What is it your looking for?

A shag, a girlfriend or a relationship?

Without knowing that it tough to give advise on how to go about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi,

Been trying for ages to find a tgirl or tv but I'm not having much luck. How can I improve either my profile or what is the best opening message to send?

There is no perfect profile. All you can hope for is that it projects your personality. Yours does not. You have also received many negative reactions about your pubes yet have failed to do anything about it. If you accept the advice given (and you are a person with the ability to reject or accept advice), then stop moaning and do something positive about it. Sorry to be brutal but you are the master of your own fate.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"Hi,

Been trying for ages to find a tgirl or tv but I'm not having much luck. How can I improve either my profile or what is the best opening message to send? "

I would suggest going to a club. We have met a few, and Mr more on his own, but the best way I think is to get to know people for the people they are and get to know what they are looking for. Just because someone has a label, doesn't mean they are who you think they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it would be helpfull to add things to your profile and not start threads looking for convincing tv, you need to realise theres a different mixture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi,

Been trying for ages to find a tgirl or tv but I'm not having much luck. How can I improve either my profile or what is the best opening message to send?

Sorry but I don't think your poo splattered butt cheeks and dido will do you any favours either.

. I'd delete that pic for starters.

Agree....

Also I know a few tvs amd they like smooth not a wire rug x"

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By *jj46Man
over a year ago

rhyl

I'm straight had a few tvs message but il chat anyway being curious and have a bit of banter one wanted to come and see me but kept her as a mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also helps if you think of tgurls as women as that is how mist see themselves.

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover

"Also helps if you think of tgurls as women as that is how mist see themselves. "

Completely so.

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