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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondering as I (Mr) get absolutely no interest from ladies at all on our profile so Mrs has allowed me to set my own one up.

Now I was thinking of making it clear in the profile from the start that I'm the male half of our joint profile, and also stating on our profile that I have a single one too, basically to ease any minds that im not cheating on her.

The thing is she thinks it would be better if i just had a short sweet profile that doesnt mention it, but instead state that im in an open relationship instead. That doesnt seem like a good thing to me. Also, if I don't link to our profile, I have no way of showing any verifications.

Any advice on this would be most appreciated Please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have this profile for my girly side away from our couples profile where I'm simply a boring bi guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both have single accounts although neither of us use them much as we have little interest in meeting alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be honest. Mention the couples profile.. as otherwise people will just assume your cheating x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I would mention it on both profiles! That way it is open and honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was thinking mentioning it was the best thing to do. Thanks.

Do ladies not really look at couples profiles like the guys do then, or is it just me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both have single profiles and but we only meet as a couple now. We still have friends who we chat to on our single profiles which is the main reason we still have them x

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"I was thinking mentioning it was the best thing to do. Thanks.

Do ladies not really look at couples profiles like the guys do then, or is it just me? "

I look at couples profiles but discount most because of the lack of male pics.

I would definitely mention the couples profile too. Ive spoken to many single men that suddenly mention they have a fb/gf if i want to meet her. I for one don't like being duped so for a proper couple i'd find it worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes I have a single profile, only so I can chat message and cam with mildred when were apart

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was thinking mentioning it was the best thing to do. Thanks.

Do ladies not really look at couples profiles like the guys do then, or is it just me?

I look at couples profiles but discount most because of the lack of male pics.

I would definitely mention the couples profile too. Ive spoken to many single men that suddenly mention they have a fb/gf if i want to meet her. I for one don't like being duped so for a proper couple i'd find it worse."

Thats interesting. Didn't actually think about that. We only really post pics of Mrs as I just assumed ladies aren't really that interested in the guys pics. The severe lack of fabs my pics get, and the fact it's mostly guys that Fab them, just got me in the frame of mind of 'whats the point of me posting pics on here?'.

I think I will make it clear at the start of the profile then. Thanks for all the advice people

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"I was thinking mentioning it was the best thing to do. Thanks.

Do ladies not really look at couples profiles like the guys do then, or is it just me?

I look at couples profiles but discount most because of the lack of male pics.

I would definitely mention the couples profile too. Ive spoken to many single men that suddenly mention they have a fb/gf if i want to meet her. I for one don't like being duped so for a proper couple i'd find it worse.

Thats interesting. Didn't actually think about that. We only really post pics of Mrs as I just assumed ladies aren't really that interested in the guys pics. The severe lack of fabs my pics get, and the fact it's mostly guys that Fab them, just got me in the frame of mind of 'whats the point of me posting pics on here?'.

I think I will make it clear at the start of the profile then. Thanks for all the advice people "

You have a fair few male pics which are good. Quite a few have literally one or two at most!

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

We have a 2 couples and 2 singles profiles, tbh though he gets more response from women when he messages from the couples one.

I think you should mention you have a couples profile, if you just say you're in a open relationship z lot of women will think you're cheating. Plus mentioning each profile on the other is good cross selling....we saw you looked at this product, perhaps you'd like this one too....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we both do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was thinking mentioning it was the best thing to do. Thanks.

Do ladies not really look at couples profiles like the guys do then, or is it just me?

I look at couples profiles but discount most because of the lack of male pics.

I would definitely mention the couples profile too. Ive spoken to many single men that suddenly mention they have a fb/gf if i want to meet her. I for one don't like being duped so for a proper couple i'd find it worse.

Thats interesting. Didn't actually think about that. We only really post pics of Mrs as I just assumed ladies aren't really that interested in the guys pics. The severe lack of fabs my pics get, and the fact it's mostly guys that Fab them, just got me in the frame of mind of 'whats the point of me posting pics on here?'.

I think I will make it clear at the start of the profile then. Thanks for all the advice people

You have a fair few male pics which are good. Quite a few have literally one or two at most!"

Lol most of those males aren't me though

Only the latest picture and the penis ones are me. The other guys with her in the pics are ones she's met.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have a 2 couples and 2 singles profiles, tbh though he gets more response from women when he messages from the couples one.

I think you should mention you have a couples profile, if you just say you're in a open relationship z lot of women will think you're cheating. Plus mentioning each profile on the other is good cross selling....we saw you looked at this product, perhaps you'd like this one too.... "

I was actually thinking something along those lines too. Many women are bi and Mrs does enjoy a play so everyone can still have fun that way. I'm not looking for solo specific meets, just trying to generate some interest my way lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was thinking mentioning it was the best thing to do. Thanks.

Do ladies not really look at couples profiles like the guys do then, or is it just me?

I look at couples profiles but discount most because of the lack of male pics.

I would definitely mention the couples profile too. Ive spoken to many single men that suddenly mention they have a fb/gf if i want to meet her. I for one don't like being duped so for a proper couple i'd find it worse.

Thats interesting. Didn't actually think about that. We only really post pics of Mrs as I just assumed ladies aren't really that interested in the guys pics. The severe lack of fabs my pics get, and the fact it's mostly guys that Fab them, just got me in the frame of mind of 'whats the point of me posting pics on here?'.

I think I will make it clear at the start of the profile then. Thanks for all the advice people "

Away from original topic... I wont start a conversation with a couple of there are no pics of both of them.. Full body and or face.. not just cock.. Of course we want to see both if we are meeting both

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Just wondering as I (Mr) get absolutely no interest from ladies at all on our profile so Mrs has allowed me to set my own one up.

Now I was thinking of making it clear in the profile from the start that I'm the male half of our joint profile, and also stating on our profile that I have a single one too, basically to ease any minds that im not cheating on her.

The thing is she thinks it would be better if i just had a short sweet profile that doesnt mention it, but instead state that im in an open relationship instead. That doesnt seem like a good thing to me. Also, if I don't link to our profile, I have no way of showing any verifications.

Any advice on this would be most appreciated Please "

We used to have single profiles and when we made the couple one together, our singles said we had a couple one. We have since deleted our single profiles. I can't see why you would have a problem meeting women. Good luck. F posting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was thinking mentioning it was the best thing to do. Thanks.

Do ladies not really look at couples profiles like the guys do then, or is it just me?

I look at couples profiles but discount most because of the lack of male pics.

I would definitely mention the couples profile too. Ive spoken to many single men that suddenly mention they have a fb/gf if i want to meet her. I for one don't like being duped so for a proper couple i'd find it worse.

Thats interesting. Didn't actually think about that. We only really post pics of Mrs as I just assumed ladies aren't really that interested in the guys pics. The severe lack of fabs my pics get, and the fact it's mostly guys that Fab them, just got me in the frame of mind of 'whats the point of me posting pics on here?'.

I think I will make it clear at the start of the profile then. Thanks for all the advice people

Away from original topic... I wont start a conversation with a couple of there are no pics of both of them.. Full body and or face.. not just cock.. Of course we want to see both if we are meeting both "

We send pics of our faces etc to anyone who wants to see straight away. We just don't have them on our public profile for work and family reasons. Wouldn't expect someone to meet us not knowing what we look like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"yes I have a single profile, only so I can chat message and cam with mildred when were apart

"

That is a really good idea, hadn't thought of using Fab this way! Maybe we'll set Beth up with a single account and I'll keep the couple one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was thinking mentioning it was the best thing to do. Thanks.

Do ladies not really look at couples profiles like the guys do then, or is it just me?

I look at couples profiles but discount most because of the lack of male pics.

I would definitely mention the couples profile too. Ive spoken to many single men that suddenly mention they have a fb/gf if i want to meet her. I for one don't like being duped so for a proper couple i'd find it worse.

Thats interesting. Didn't actually think about that. We only really post pics of Mrs as I just assumed ladies aren't really that interested in the guys pics. The severe lack of fabs my pics get, and the fact it's mostly guys that Fab them, just got me in the frame of mind of 'whats the point of me posting pics on here?'.

I think I will make it clear at the start of the profile then. Thanks for all the advice people

Away from original topic... I wont start a conversation with a couple of there are no pics of both of them.. Full body and or face.. not just cock.. Of course we want to see both if we are meeting both

We send pics of our faces etc to anyone who wants to see straight away. We just don't have them on our public profile for work and family reasons. Wouldn't expect someone to meet us not knowing what we look like "

I have filters on so no couple could message me... So I'd need to see pics of both on profile... Or I wouldn't message... You're saying your couples profile draws no attention you... Neither will a singles one if you aren't prepared to show more than a cock...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was thinking mentioning it was the best thing to do. Thanks.

Do ladies not really look at couples profiles like the guys do then, or is it just me?

I look at couples profiles but discount most because of the lack of male pics.

I would definitely mention the couples profile too. Ive spoken to many single men that suddenly mention they have a fb/gf if i want to meet her. I for one don't like being duped so for a proper couple i'd find it worse.

Thats interesting. Didn't actually think about that. We only really post pics of Mrs as I just assumed ladies aren't really that interested in the guys pics. The severe lack of fabs my pics get, and the fact it's mostly guys that Fab them, just got me in the frame of mind of 'whats the point of me posting pics on here?'.

I think I will make it clear at the start of the profile then. Thanks for all the advice people

Away from original topic... I wont start a conversation with a couple of there are no pics of both of them.. Full body and or face.. not just cock.. Of course we want to see both if we are meeting both

We send pics of our faces etc to anyone who wants to see straight away. We just don't have them on our public profile for work and family reasons. Wouldn't expect someone to meet us not knowing what we look like

I have filters on so no couple could message me... So I'd need to see pics of both on profile... Or I wouldn't message... You're saying your couples profile draws no attention you... Neither will a singles one if you aren't prepared to show more than a cock... "
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And I said body and OR face pic.

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By *arkandMaz-GCouple
over a year ago

Gatwick

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By *arkandMaz-GCouple
over a year ago

Gatwick

We each have a couples profile. Simply so we can both use chat rooms at the same time.

Both of them state they are couples and who uses them most,and we have pics of the pair of us on both.

Works for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes."

So whaddya wanna know?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

I would say always be honest however.....you aren't getting female interest on a couples profile so you're setting up a single guy profile???....really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would say always be honest however.....you aren't getting female interest on a couples profile so you're setting up a single guy profile???....really. "

Im not quite sure what you're implying here. It's not because I'm a minger or anything

They just dont look at our profile full stop. If they dont open our profile they cant see me lol.

When we look at 'looked at you' its always just:

man

man

man

man

couple

man

man

couple

man

etc

At least with my own one there has to be some having a look.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Not us we play as a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We cant cope with mail on couples so no point getting more. We are a couple and we can do our own thing on that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We cant cope with mail on couples so no point getting more. We are a couple and we can do our own thing on that ."

you get a lot of response from the post office

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We cant cope with mail on couples so no point getting more. We are a couple and we can do our own thing on that .

you get a lot of response from the post office "
most the post from there is crap . lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I set up my own profile now. Wrote a quick profile but need to refine it properly. Bloody verified photo is taking ages though.

Got a lot of attention from dudes at the moment. Not exactly what I'm looking for but it's a start

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"I would say always be honest however.....you aren't getting female interest on a couples profile so you're setting up a single guy profile???....really.

Im not quite sure what you're implying here. It's not because I'm a minger or anything

They just dont look at our profile full stop. If they dont open our profile they cant see me lol.

When we look at 'looked at you' its always just:

man

man

man

man

couple

man

man

couple

man

etc

At least with my own one there has to be some having a look. "

I'm not implying anything....simply pointing out that the biggest complaint on here from guys with single profiles is that they can't even get anyone to talk to them, let alone meet....doesn't apply to everyone of course but it's a common complaint.

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By *erts_darlings1Couple
over a year ago

watford


"I have this profile for my girly side away from our couples profile where I'm simply a boring bi guy "

Surely never boring

We both have single accounts but on other platforms. These are for chat only, we only ever meet from this account.

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