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Hard to find ideal couple

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By *ittleKinks OP   Couple
over a year ago

Reading

So we have decided that finding the ideal couple is actually harder than dating as theres a lot more interfaces :P

Still wondering if there and couple out there that are.

-Geeky and a bit nerdy and shy

-Male can perform easily in bedroom and be a bit dominant over female

-not take sex too seriously

-happy to get up to some kinky dirty fun

-reasonably attractive say 5.5-7.5 out of 10

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

*waving hands*

PICK ME! Pick me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We fulfill your critera!! :D

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By *iscellaneousCouple
over a year ago

Idle

I love that you have your M's Myers Briggs on your profile, this makes me happy.

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By *s lovin wleshWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Our preference is couples as we like the dynamics of a couple

But it can be hard work , there's 4 people to please

Although we have over 100 veris only about 4 of those are play meets

We are choosy but netheir of us will take one for the team or just play with someone for the sake of it

We don't look anymore but enjoy the lifestyle so tend to just stick to clubs with the intention of getting horny and dirty with each other

If a play meet happens at the club can make for a really hot meet

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


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get lost, shag, you're single!!! Tsk tsk, these abba folk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" get lost, shag, you're single!!! Tsk tsk, these abba folk! "
lol yes, you never know if someone are looking for an extra you know, yeah mama mia is a good song

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"So we have decided that finding the ideal couple is actually harder than dating as theres a lot more interfaces :P

Still wondering if there and couple out there that are.

-Geeky and a bit nerdy and shy

-Male can perform easily in bedroom and be a bit dominant over female

-not take sex too seriously

-happy to get up to some kinky dirty fun

-reasonably attractive say 5.5-7.5 out of 10 "

When I'm playing as a couple we match all of those. Apart from the fact I (and only I) am too old. Fuck it, I'm getting my knitting out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is hard to meet what all four want, very much so, we'v been lucky, very lucky so far - and we are often a trio not a couple which compounds it further !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep but we're too old (well I am ). It is a nightmare trying to find an ideal match - unless wine is involved. Wine helps.

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By *orders2forUCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

For sure it is not easy and we have played together in Chams due to not finding company there, and we will not play unless we are all happy.

As we say to each other it's like panning for gold you have to move a lot of material to find the nuggets.

L2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there's no shortage of chicken nuggets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We spoke to a couple last year, and decided to meet at a club and go together. What an amazing decision that was. We got on that well socially and otherwise, we were at their house the next weekend (200 miles away!) having an amazing social weekend with a lot of fun thrown in. We speak regularly and we all can't wait to meet again.

To be fair the couple were exactly what we were looking for on fab...hopefully you both find the same! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to think we got that criteria pretty much bang on, shame we are so far away!

X

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By *ittleKinks OP   Couple
over a year ago

Reading

Sounds promising sadly west midlands is a little far x

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By *ittleKinks OP   Couple
over a year ago

Reading

Wonder what yours is

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By *ittleKinks OP   Couple
over a year ago

Reading

The age preference is only for guys but still the distance is a little far x

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By *ittleKinks OP   Couple
over a year ago

Reading

Thanks for all the lovely offers its nice to know there are potentials out there. Now just to find one in a 30 min radius. Really should have added that to the criteria lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well not us - too old and too far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awwww....we consider ourselves a 7.6.

So close

Good luck OP...there are loads of couples that match your criteria (including some we know on this thread) but you might just have to travel a bit to find them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll find the people who are idea for you eventually. It takes some time and flexibility. Good luck, OP.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all the lovely offers its nice to know there are potentials out there. Now just to find one in a 30 min radius. Really should have added that to the criteria lol "

Did you get our message last night? Just to let you know, I (Mr) was interested but if you're only looking for couples I cant help you there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awwww....we consider ourselves a 7.6.

So close "

Same for us except we're a solid 8.1 any day

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

We consider ourselves a 4.9, 5 at best and i have far too many action figures to be considered just a little geeky

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone


"We consider ourselves a 4.9, 5 at best and i have far too many action figures to be considered just a little geeky "

And too old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are no right or wrong ways , you either want it or dont , no body fantasy perfect , all need is respect for your own partner , do or dont , dont force yet dont expect them to tick boxes it fun do or dont it like expectin brad pit and angalina to walk in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we have decided that finding the ideal couple is actually harder than dating as theres a lot more interfaces :P

Still wondering if there and couple out there that are.

-Geeky and a bit nerdy and shy

-Male can perform easily in bedroom and be a bit dominant over female

-not take sex too seriously

-happy to get up to some kinky dirty fun

-reasonably attractive say 5.5-7.5 out of 10 "
I'm half of a couple but I'm 8/10 and not nerdy geeky or shy but I do have the ability to laugh and sex is on my list of to do's

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