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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm sure this must have been a topic before and i get that ladies pictures are possibly more looked at than guys but....

If your a couples profile with pictures and only play as a couple, I personally would expect at least one picture to be of the guy!?! or am I wrong.

Whats the point of just having pictures of the lady??

Does it put you off not to see some sort of picture of each party??.

Curvy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Mr works in a very public job and is easy to recognise from pictures so we keep most of them of him in our private folder. They're not completely hidden and if a couple is interested in us they can look at them but it's just so every joe blog who wants to can't look at them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My Mr works in a very public job and is easy to recognise from pictures so we keep most of them of him in our private folder. They're not completely hidden and if a couple is interested in us they can look at them but it's just so every joe blog who wants to can't look at them"

Thanks for reply. I agree my partner is in public eye as well so needs to be careful. At least you've shared some pictures of both which I think is right. Curvy x

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

It puts us off yes. Whether it's a social or play meet, we still want to see both people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they think more people will be interested if they only show the lady?

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

There are only pics of me because I play as a single female but have a couples profile as we attend clubs together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they know pussie sells. So they hide hubby in the private gallery lol.

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By *anda and CatCouple
over a year ago

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We have a couple of me but most are of the Mrs as let's face it, she sells us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol this comes up sooo many times, there was a thread just this morning. Do a search.

As for why they so it, because that's how they want their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha we would put everyone off if we posted pics of me (the Mr!) but to be honest we like to meet men mainly so I guess for us the Female pics are more relevant

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have a couple of me but most are of the Mrs as let's face it, she sells us!"

I get that

But you have pictures of both of you so all can make a clear decision if to meet or not. Curvy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have both of us on ours and face pics in friends only

But completely agree OP. We will not bother messaging if we can't see at least one of the guy, preferably not just a cock shot

A x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol I suspect not. x

Yes I understand then for the F only pics and probably you say in your profile your just looking for men and are specific. Curvy X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure this must have been a topic before and i get that ladies pictures are possibly more looked at than guys but....

If your a couples profile with pictures and only play as a couple, I personally would expect at least one picture to be of the guy!?! or am I wrong.

Whats the point of just having pictures of the lady??

Does it put you off not to see some sort of picture of each party??.

Curvy "

I won't start a conversation if there are only pics of one of the couple

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London


"Ha we would put everyone off if we posted pics of me (the Mr!) but to be honest we like to meet men mainly so I guess for us the Female pics are more relevant"

This makes sense, but for a single female I like to see both. I don't expect to play or talk with a couple and not see the guy. Would be a waste of time down the line for both parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have pics of both of us on especially his sexy butt mmm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is all very well if the lady is the one that does most of the correspondence but its usually the man, so his pics should be available to look at too, IMO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are convinced, just uploaded a pic of both, hope it doesn't put anyone off their Sunday lunch

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have both of us on ours and face pics in friends only

But completely agree OP. We will not bother messaging if we can't see at least one of the guy, preferably not just a cock shot

A x"

Totally agree and nice too see both your pictures... forsome reason I have banana in my mind now grrr lol Curvy xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are convinced, just uploaded a pic of both, hope it doesn't put anyone off their Sunday lunch "

Phwoar.... excellent pics..... cold shower please....x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"this is all very well if the lady is the one that does most of the correspondence but its usually the man, so his pics should be available to look at too, IMO "

Totally agree mrs Fox xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahaha why thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have photos of my partner available on request. I always send a photo of us both with the both of us. I don't care who knows what we do. X but he is that little bit paranoid that his family may find out a little secret that is hidden on our profile x

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London


"I have photos of my partner available on request. I always send a photo of us both with the both of us. I don't care who knows what we do. X but he is that little bit paranoid that his family may find out a little secret that is hidden on our profile x "

But don't his family know what you look like though?

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By *orders2forUCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

We find it very frustrating that both are not on view and it always makes us wonder what is being hidden.

Almost worse is a bunch of fem pics and a cock shot...

L2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have photos of my partner available on request. I always send a photo of us both with the both of us. I don't care who knows what we do. X but he is that little bit paranoid that his family may find out a little secret that is hidden on our profile x

But don't his family know what you look like though? "

Yes but the photos of my partner reveal a totally different side to him x

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London


"I have photos of my partner available on request. I always send a photo of us both with the both of us. I don't care who knows what we do. X but he is that little bit paranoid that his family may find out a little secret that is hidden on our profile x

But don't his family know what you look like though?

Yes but the photos of my partner reveal a totally different side to him x"

That he's bisexual?

Well whatever the reason, if it works for you then all more power to you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a couples profile and there was pics of both of us.. not face pics though they were sent privately, but body shots i hated looking through profiles and it only being the lady or cock shots of the guy and as im not bi and only interested what that guy looked like totally put me off

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We have pictures of both of us on our profile, agree majority of the pictures are of Alexis but that is because Jenson takes better photos and if the fabs are to be believed it is what others on here want to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have photos of my partner available on request. I always send a photo of us both with the both of us. I don't care who knows what we do. X but he is that little bit paranoid that his family may find out a little secret that is hidden on our profile x

But don't his family know what you look like though?

Yes but the photos of my partner reveal a totally different side to him x

That he's bisexual?

Well whatever the reason, if it works for you then all more power to you x"

Not that he doesn't mind that at all x it's something that is still pretty new to us xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being straight, it does my head in. Nothing bores me more than pictures of women so we just pass those profiles by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have photos of my partner available on request. I always send a photo of us both with the both of us. I don't care who knows what we do. X but he is that little bit paranoid that his family may find out a little secret that is hidden on our profile x

But don't his family know what you look like though?

Yes but the photos of my partner reveal a totally different side to him x

That he's bisexual?

Well whatever the reason, if it works for you then all more power to you x

Not that he doesn't mind that at all x it's something that is still pretty new to us xx"

We play in a lot of different ways and always read profiles to make sure that they would be ok with the little secret. Most people are x

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By *at with MikeCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

We don't have any photos of Mike on here...only all the other men involved. He's tasked with taking them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find it a little bit annoying to get winks off couples with only the lady half showing.

Think we have a decent amount of both although still more of mrsdpt.

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By *anda and CatCouple
over a year ago

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We just don't have any imagination!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure this must have been a topic before and i get that ladies pictures are possibly more looked at than guys but....

If your a couples profile with pictures and only play as a couple, I personally would expect at least one picture to be of the guy!?! or am I wrong.

Whats the point of just having pictures of the lady??

Does it put you off not to see some sort of picture of each party??.

Curvy "

Because:

1) Lots of people see women as desireable and men as not desirable.

2) Many people think that it doesn't matter what the man looks like because it doesn't matter to the woman.

3) Because an old fashioned view of swinging is that it\s 'wife swapping' and therefore mostly about the man's pleasure (therefore he does not need to be seen, only see the goods on offer).

This kind of attitude is not just prevalent in swinging and on dating sites, but also in general media and across our lives. This is why, for instance, Spartacus was such a groundbreaking TV programme, because it had a gaze that was intended for women and queer viewers (i.e. it put male bodies sexually on display).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We just don't have any imagination!

"

BEcause it takes so much imagination to stand in the middle of your living room and snap a picture, or snap a picture of your tit?

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By *anda and CatCouple
over a year ago

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"We just don't have any imagination!

BEcause it takes so much imagination to stand in the middle of your living room and snap a picture, or snap a picture of your tit? "

Yeah, and that's about the limit of ours!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure this must have been a topic before and i get that ladies pictures are possibly more looked at than guys but....

If your a couples profile with pictures and only play as a couple, I personally would expect at least one picture to be of the guy!?! or am I wrong.

Whats the point of just having pictures of the lady??

Does it put you off not to see some sort of picture of each party??.

Curvy "

Its obvious really...cos the man is usually a horror show. Usually the woman is the hot one of the two, and even if she isnt, they can still dress her up in some type of gear and throw her in some heels and she will still prob look better than the poor beast of a man next to her

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By *ickeyandmouseCouple
over a year ago

nr Alicante

This is a pet rant of mine too!

A lot of couples often say it is more down to the lady of the couple if it's a yes or no so in fact there should be more pictures of the man not less!

Are the guys ashamed of themselves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure this must have been a topic before and i get that ladies pictures are possibly more looked at than guys but....

If your a couples profile with pictures and only play as a couple, I personally would expect at least one picture to be of the guy!?! or am I wrong.

Whats the point of just having pictures of the lady??

Does it put you off not to see some sort of picture of each party??.

Curvy

Because:

1) Lots of people see women as desireable and men as not desirable.

2) Many people think that it doesn't matter what the man looks like because it doesn't matter to the woman.

3) Because an old fashioned view of swinging is that it\s 'wife swapping' and therefore mostly about the man's pleasure (therefore he does not need to be seen, only see the goods on offer).

This kind of attitude is not just prevalent in swinging and on dating sites, but also in general media and across our lives. This is why, for instance, Spartacus was such a groundbreaking TV programme, because it had a gaze that was intended for women and queer viewers (i.e. it put male bodies sexually on display)."

Lol, groundbreaking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure this must have been a topic before and i get that ladies pictures are possibly more looked at than guys but....

If your a couples profile with pictures and only play as a couple, I personally would expect at least one picture to be of the guy!?! or am I wrong.

Whats the point of just having pictures of the lady??

Does it put you off not to see some sort of picture of each party??.

Curvy

Because:

1) Lots of people see women as desireable and men as not desirable.

2) Many people think that it doesn't matter what the man looks like because it doesn't matter to the woman.

3) Because an old fashioned view of swinging is that it\s 'wife swapping' and therefore mostly about the man's pleasure (therefore he does not need to be seen, only see the goods on offer).

This kind of attitude is not just prevalent in swinging and on dating sites, but also in general media and across our lives. This is why, for instance, Spartacus was such a groundbreaking TV programme, because it had a gaze that was intended for women and queer viewers (i.e. it put male bodies sexually on display).

Lol, groundbreaking"

Haha i know yeah...groundbreaking. fuck me haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure this must have been a topic before and i get that ladies pictures are possibly more looked at than guys but....

If your a couples profile with pictures and only play as a couple, I personally would expect at least one picture to be of the guy!?! or am I wrong.

Whats the point of just having pictures of the lady??

Does it put you off not to see some sort of picture of each party??.

Curvy

Because:

1) Lots of people see women as desireable and men as not desirable.

2) Many people think that it doesn't matter what the man looks like because it doesn't matter to the woman.

3) Because an old fashioned view of swinging is that it\s 'wife swapping' and therefore mostly about the man's pleasure (therefore he does not need to be seen, only see the goods on offer).

This kind of attitude is not just prevalent in swinging and on dating sites, but also in general media and across our lives. This is why, for instance, Spartacus was such a groundbreaking TV programme, because it had a gaze that was intended for women and queer viewers (i.e. it put male bodies sexually on display).

Lol, groundbreaking"

Name me another TV show before that which was consciously filmed with a queer and female gaze rather than a male gaze? There aren't very many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure this must have been a topic before and i get that ladies pictures are possibly more looked at than guys but....

If your a couples profile with pictures and only play as a couple, I personally would expect at least one picture to be of the guy!?! or am I wrong.

Whats the point of just having pictures of the lady??

Does it put you off not to see some sort of picture of each party??.

Curvy

Because:

1) Lots of people see women as desireable and men as not desirable.

2) Many people think that it doesn't matter what the man looks like because it doesn't matter to the woman.

3) Because an old fashioned view of swinging is that it\s 'wife swapping' and therefore mostly about the man's pleasure (therefore he does not need to be seen, only see the goods on offer).

This kind of attitude is not just prevalent in swinging and on dating sites, but also in general media and across our lives. This is why, for instance, Spartacus was such a groundbreaking TV programme, because it had a gaze that was intended for women and queer viewers (i.e. it put male bodies sexually on display).

Lol, groundbreaking

Name me another TV show before that which was consciously filmed with a queer and female gaze rather than a male gaze? There aren't very many."

Hardly constitutes the term 'groundbreaking' does it. Some second rate tv show thats usually only found on at about 11pm on a random tuesday or wedneaday...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure this must have been a topic before and i get that ladies pictures are possibly more looked at than guys but....

If your a couples profile with pictures and only play as a couple, I personally would expect at least one picture to be of the guy!?! or am I wrong.

Whats the point of just having pictures of the lady??

Does it put you off not to see some sort of picture of each party??.

Curvy

Because:

1) Lots of people see women as desireable and men as not desirable.

2) Many people think that it doesn't matter what the man looks like because it doesn't matter to the woman.

3) Because an old fashioned view of swinging is that it\s 'wife swapping' and therefore mostly about the man's pleasure (therefore he does not need to be seen, only see the goods on offer).

This kind of attitude is not just prevalent in swinging and on dating sites, but also in general media and across our lives. This is why, for instance, Spartacus was such a groundbreaking TV programme, because it had a gaze that was intended for women and queer viewers (i.e. it put male bodies sexually on display).

Lol, groundbreaking

Name me another TV show before that which was consciously filmed with a queer and female gaze rather than a male gaze? There aren't very many.

Hardly constitutes the term 'groundbreaking' does it. Some second rate tv show thats usually only found on at about 11pm on a random tuesday or wedneaday..."

Er, sure. Ok. I guess you didn't like it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats Fair enough .... Curvy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We find it very frustrating that both are not on view and it always makes us wonder what is being hidden.

Almost worse is a bunch of fem pics and a cock shot...

L2"

Absolutely I totally agree and hence my post .. Curvy

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By *andEberryCouple
over a year ago

Bury St Edmunds

We only try to meet single straight guys for J so they don't want to see me. The guys never turn up when they say they will anyway so it probably makes no difference.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm sure this must have been a topic before and i get that ladies pictures are possibly more looked at than guys but....

If your a couples profile with pictures and only play as a couple, I personally would expect at least one picture to be of the guy!?! or am I wrong.

Whats the point of just having pictures of the lady??

Does it put you off not to see some sort of picture of each party??.

Curvy

Because:

1) Lots of people see women as desireable and men as not desirable.

2) Many people think that it doesn't matter what the man looks like because it doesn't matter to the woman.

3) Because an old fashioned view of swinging is that it\s 'wife swapping' and therefore mostly about the man's pleasure (therefore he does not need to be seen, only see the goods on offer).

This kind of attitude is not just prevalent in swinging and on dating sites, but also in general media and across our lives. This is why, for instance, Spartacus was such a groundbreaking TV programme, because it had a gaze that was intended for women and queer viewers (i.e. it put male bodies sexually on display)."

Time for a HUGE change then..... Curvy X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is a pet rant of mine too!

A lot of couples often say it is more down to the lady of the couple if it's a yes or no so in fact there should be more pictures of the man not less!

Are the guys ashamed of themselves?

"

My partner lets me look after our profile but even I recognise that when my pics on we get more hits than his ... despite him being hot as hell. xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We only try to meet single straight guys for J so they don't want to see me. The guys never turn up when they say they will anyway so it probably makes no difference. "

So is yours a cuckold situation?

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Seems like a lot of very important people on here who think they will be outed cos people will r

ecognise their legs,bums,chest etc....

Come on..

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

I'm the forum poster but I do tell him what I've done as he is not on as much as me. I also checked with him if it was ok to put new pics public before I did it. As to messaging, haven't really messaged anyone yet other than friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems like a lot of very important people on here who think they will be outed cos people will r

ecognise their legs,bums,chest etc....

Come on.."

We couldn't care less if they were planning to run for PM, if we don't see pictures we won't be meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably because the site is awash with men so probably appt that's there's more female pics on profiles,but that said we do have pics of both of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure this must have been a topic before and i get that ladies pictures are possibly more looked at than guys but....

If your a couples profile with pictures and only play as a couple, I personally would expect at least one picture to be of the guy!?! or am I wrong.

Whats the point of just having pictures of the lady??

Does it put you off not to see some sort of picture of each party??.

Curvy "
do they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are photos of us both on here, he's way fitter than me physically and carries not excess weight and looks after himself very well so I'd never hide him away - we meet as a couple, I'd never meet anyone alone so they've got to approve of us both if anyone wants to meet us. We have more pics in private and send face pics to people we click with both of us alone and of us doing stuff together which I think are better proof of a genuine couple than just two head shots that could be of complete strangers. We wouldn't talk to people who had no pics as it's rather off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure this must have been a topic before and i get that ladies pictures are possibly more looked at than guys but....

If your a couples profile with pictures and only play as a couple, I personally would expect at least one picture to be of the guy!?! or am I wrong.

Whats the point of just having pictures of the lady??

Does it put you off not to see some sort of picture of each party??.

Curvy

Because:

1) Lots of people see women as desireable and men as not desirable.

2) Many people think that it doesn't matter what the man looks like because it doesn't matter to the woman.

3) Because an old fashioned view of swinging is that it\s 'wife swapping' and therefore mostly about the man's pleasure (therefore he does not need to be seen, only see the goods on offer).

This kind of attitude is not just prevalent in swinging and on dating sites, but also in general media and across our lives. This is why, for instance, Spartacus was such a groundbreaking TV programme, because it had a gaze that was intended for women and queer viewers (i.e. it put male bodies sexually on display).

Lol, groundbreaking

Name me another TV show before that which was consciously filmed with a queer and female gaze rather than a male gaze? There aren't very many."

Coronation Street

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

If you're a couple looking to play with single women, but only have pictures of the woman. I'm less likely to want to interact further, as there is that notion that someone is hiding something. I tend to ask if they are only seeking girl on girl fun, most of the time they say no. I then ask to see the male half, they either stop talking or they show a picture and I'm not attracted to him.

Usually the case, but not always.

The female half might as well have a single profile jk x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More photos of her but then never been asked by a couple for my photo!!! So goes without saying if couples don't wanna see me (Mr) we hardly likely put too many up of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our pics are more to give an indication of what we're into and as we're looking for ladies for FFM with predominantly girl on girl fun we assume she'd be most interested in the female. We do have more pics of us both in our friends and private albums but don't feel the need to show too much until we've established contact.

You can't please everyone, some like an air of mystery and some like to see what you've eaten for breakfast, we just share what we're comfortable with.

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By *arry On ShaggingCouple
over a year ago

Betley

For us Mr is tattooed & & could quite easily be recognised by them so we have to be choosy with what picture we put in public of him xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure this must have been a topic before and i get that ladies pictures are possibly more looked at than guys but....

If your a couples profile with pictures and only play as a couple, I personally would expect at least one picture to be of the guy!?! or am I wrong.

Whats the point of just having pictures of the lady??

Does it put you off not to see some sort of picture of each party??.

Curvy "

Yes, it definitely puts me off. I won't entertain a couple with no pics of the man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're a couple looking to play with single women, but only have pictures of the woman. I'm less likely to want to interact further, as there is that notion that someone is hiding something. I tend to ask if they are only seeking girl on girl fun, most of the time they say no. I then ask to see the male half, they either stop talking or they show a picture and I'm not attracted to him.

Usually the case, but not always.

The female half might as well have a single profile jk x"

I got blocked by a (well verified local) couple after I asked to see pics of the male half

I think I was too demanding for them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are photos of us both on here, he's way fitter than me physically and carries not excess weight and looks after himself very well so I'd never hide him away - we meet as a couple, I'd never meet anyone alone so they've got to approve of us both if anyone wants to meet us. We have more pics in private and send face pics to people we click with both of us alone and of us doing stuff together which I think are better proof of a genuine couple than just two head shots that could be of complete strangers. We wouldn't talk to people who had no pics as it's rather off putting. "

I agree ... Thanks for commenting x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are photos of us both on here, he's way fitter than me physically and carries not excess weight and looks after himself very well so I'd never hide him away - we meet as a couple, I'd never meet anyone alone so they've got to approve of us both if anyone wants to meet us. We have more pics in private and send face pics to people we click with both of us alone and of us doing stuff together which I think are better proof of a genuine couple than just two head shots that could be of complete strangers. We wouldn't talk to people who had no pics as it's rather off putting. "

Totally agree and you both look super sexy. Thanks for commenting . Curvy x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you're a couple looking to play with single women, but only have pictures of the woman. I'm less likely to want to interact further, as there is that notion that someone is hiding something. I tend to ask if they are only seeking girl on girl fun, most of the time they say no. I then ask to see the male half, they either stop talking or they show a picture and I'm not attracted to him.

Usually the case, but not always.

The female half might as well have a single profile jk x"

Absoloutely! I so agree. Curvy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only meet single men so not really appropriate for us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"More photos of her but then never been asked by a couple for my photo!!! So goes without saying if couples don't wanna see me (Mr) we hardly likely put too many up of me"

But you have added and its much appreciated. Curvy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're always apprehensive of getting into any kind of communication with couples that don't have pictures of the male. We also dislike it when the pictures that are available are taken at such angles and in positions where you can't really see much of their figure at all.

We understand people want to get their best side, but honestly, if and when they meet face to face, all will be revealed anyway, and could lead to bitter disappointment...

And then when you get face pics where the quality is so bad, or taken from a mile away that you can't really see anything just winds us up.

The amount of couples profiles that we read saying things to the like "we come as a couple and only play as a couple" yet only have pictures of the female makes us laugh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Our pics are more to give an indication of what we're into and as we're looking for ladies for FFM with predominantly girl on girl fun we assume she'd be most interested in the female. We do have more pics of us both in our friends and private albums but don't feel the need to show too much until we've established contact.

You can't please everyone, some like an air of mystery and some like to see what you've eaten for breakfast, we just share what we're comfortable with. "

Totally understandable. Curvy x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We're always apprehensive of getting into any kind of communication with couples that don't have pictures of the male. We also dislike it when the pictures that are available are taken at such angles and in positions where you can't really see much of their figure at all.

We understand people want to get their best side, but honestly, if and when they meet face to face, all will be revealed anyway, and could lead to bitter disappointment...

And then when you get face pics where the quality is so bad, or taken from a mile away that you can't really see anything just winds us up.

The amount of couples profiles that we read saying things to the like "we come as a couple and only play as a couple" yet only have pictures of the female makes us laugh. "

Couldn't say it better and so agree! Curvy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are photos of us both on here, he's way fitter than me physically and carries not excess weight and looks after himself very well so I'd never hide him away - we meet as a couple, I'd never meet anyone alone so they've got to approve of us both if anyone wants to meet us. We have more pics in private and send face pics to people we click with both of us alone and of us doing stuff together which I think are better proof of a genuine couple than just two head shots that could be of complete strangers. We wouldn't talk to people who had no pics as it's rather off putting. "

Totally agree with this and we're exactly the same.

The only bit we don't agree with is "he's way fitter than me physically and carries not excess weight" we think your equally hot!

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"There are photos of us both on here, he's way fitter than me physically and carries not excess weight and looks after himself very well so I'd never hide him away - we meet as a couple, I'd never meet anyone alone so they've got to approve of us both if anyone wants to meet us. We have more pics in private and send face pics to people we click with both of us alone and of us doing stuff together which I think are better proof of a genuine couple than just two head shots that could be of complete strangers. We wouldn't talk to people who had no pics as it's rather off putting. "

Grey would agree with me when I say there is nothing wrong with you. Wish I had a waist and love your red corset

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've succumbed to peer pressure and posted another pic of 'him', he'll be so pleased

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By *ickeyandmouseCouple
over a year ago

nr Alicante

Very nice too!

Yes that's what we want x

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By *ickeyandmouseCouple
over a year ago

nr Alicante


"There are photos of us both on here, he's way fitter than me physically and carries not excess weight and looks after himself very well so I'd never hide him away - we meet as a couple, I'd never meet anyone alone so they've got to approve of us both if anyone wants to meet us. We have more pics in private and send face pics to people we click with both of us alone and of us doing stuff together which I think are better proof of a genuine couple than just two head shots that could be of complete strangers. We wouldn't talk to people who had no pics as it's rather off putting. "

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By *ickeyandmouseCouple
over a year ago

nr Alicante

Two pics only out if many?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very nice too!

Yes that's what we want x"

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure this must have been a topic before and i get that ladies pictures are possibly more looked at than guys but....

If your a couples profile with pictures and only play as a couple, I personally would expect at least one picture to be of the guy!?! or am I wrong.

Whats the point of just having pictures of the lady??

Does it put you off not to see some sort of picture of each party??.

Curvy "
maybe the guys ugly so the selling points the woman and when you meet you will both be blindfolded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a good spread of male/female pics, but you only advertise the best produce. Hence why Mrs S is on the profile pic and not me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a good spread of male/female pics, but you only advertise the best produce. Hence why Mrs S is on the profile pic and not me."
yes Mrs S sells it for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm sure this must have been a topic before and i get that ladies pictures are possibly more looked at than guys but....

If your a couples profile with pictures and only play as a couple, I personally would expect at least one picture to be of the guy!?! or am I wrong.

Whats the point of just having pictures of the lady??

Does it put you off not to see some sort of picture of each party??.

Curvy maybe the guys ugly so the selling points the woman and when you meet you will both be blindfolded "

MMMMMMmm blind folded. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you everyone....

I hope other couples read this and see the general consensus is pictures of both sexy partners please Curvy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't speak for anyone else, but in our case it's just because Ali hates having his photo taken so we have a lot more photos of me! Rach xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you everyone....

I hope other couples read this and see the general consensus is pictures of both sexy partners please Curvy xx"

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours aren't just of Mrs but both of us. Wish we could post a magic pic that would out the time wasters though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ours aren't just of Mrs but both of us. Wish we could post a magic pic that would out the time wasters though."

Amen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're always apprehensive of getting into any kind of communication with couples that don't have pictures of the male. We also dislike it when the pictures that are available are taken at such angles and in positions where you can't really see much of their figure at all.

We understand people want to get their best side, but honestly, if and when they meet face to face, all will be revealed anyway, and could lead to bitter disappointment...

And then when you get face pics where the quality is so bad, or taken from a mile away that you can't really see anything just winds us up.

The amount of couples profiles that we read saying things to the like "we come as a couple and only play as a couple" yet only have pictures of the female makes us laugh. "

Wot about we come as couple then we kik or exchange messages, the fem never seems to materialize & male wots to meet on his own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a real pet hate for the Mrs.

As much as we find your Mrs lovely, sexy and attractive..... We are looking at meeting you both. Why not show both.

Yes we understand that people have distinctive marks and features and wish to remain discreet. But INVISIBLE!! Come on fellas let's see you.

Mrs x

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell

My hubby has very obvious ink , so we keep to friends only as we rather remain private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When both are bi and there is only pictures of the lady it can make you pass them by as you assume the guy is either not desirable or not confident .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have pics of both of us but when were just looking fit males Mrs pics r just on show!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With some "supposed couples" is anyone even sure that the Mrs even knows her pix are on Fab?

Beyond that there are lots of reasons, for us it's that I'm always behind the bloody camera! Does cause a slightly biased share to our pix.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a message from a "couple" where the only picture was of a cock

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

No it doesn't/hasnt put us off. We've met and contacted quite a few profiles where only one half has been on public display.

We would message and just ask if we could see a pic privately. It's not really any different to people asking to see our face pics.

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By *lpha-and-FoxtrotCouple
over a year ago

Kettering


"I'm sure this must have been a topic before and i get that ladies pictures are possibly more looked at than guys but....

If your a couples profile with pictures and only play as a couple, I personally would expect at least one picture to be of the guy!?! or am I wrong.

Whats the point of just having pictures of the lady??

Does it put you off not to see some sort of picture of each party??.

Curvy "

We have a mix. We come as a couple and play as a couple. It is annoying when couples have solely female pics or the majority are just female. Though we ask for pics of both if we receive a wink/message anyway so the pics visible on their profile don't seal the deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's my fault ! Him

As she gets so turned on when doing the pictures and I can't keep my hands off her so ?

No pictures of me have pictures on friends only though !!

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By *r an Mrs xMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Women just take to many selfies to compete

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell


"Women just take to many selfies to compete "

This is 100% true

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

This topic is now raised almost weekly.

For us the answer is that I am an exhibitionist. I like being photographed naked, I like people looking and wanking (so I'm told) over my pictures, and I enjoy the fabs and positive comments that I get. My partner on the other hand enjoys taking the photographs.

Our profile has far more pictures of me than of him, or of me and him together, but it works absolutely fine for us. We would never consider changing it for those who would like more photos of him any more than we would start taking and posting pictures of, say, anal sex, because that is what someone might like to see. If our profile doesn't suit them they can easily move on to another profile.

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By *issusAndHubsterCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"More photos of her but then never been asked by a couple for my photo!!! So goes without saying if couples don't wanna see me (Mr) we hardly likely put too many up of me"

Or is it that because you don't have a picture of you, the couples that do want pics of Mr have passed you by and not messaged you?

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By *issusAndHubsterCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"This is a real pet hate for the Mrs.

As much as we find your Mrs lovely, sexy and attractive..... We are looking at meeting you both. Why not show both.

Yes we understand that people have distinctive marks and features and wish to remain discreet. But INVISIBLE!! Come on fellas let's see you.

Mrs x"

We are with you Completely agree. If the Mr isn't very visible, we just pass on by now. We have more of Hubster in the private file and always send face pics if there is a mutual interest.

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