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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I've got a meet lined up this evening and she's told me she wants to be restrained with this under bed restraints.

Never really had much experience with them and therefore looking to the fab community for suggestions on what to do to her once restrained?

I assume lots of gentle caressing, perhaps some ice play, but anything I'm missing?

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tease her until she begs for your cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pub

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

I like to be flogged but for a first meet that might be a step to far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you should really have an in-depth talk as to what she wants to happen and have a safe word so you know to stop what ever you are doing

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"you should really have an in-depth talk as to what she wants to happen and have a safe word so you know to stop what ever you are doing "

Yes I agree with this, get ideas from us but talk to her first.

Have you got a fur glove, some textured items (we have a kind of rubber ball with spikes), leather with studs etc for contrasting textures? Vibrators a wand that you can use? Have a chat with her about those things.

Hope you both enjoy.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

You never watched basic instinct?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

A feather to caress her with, blindfold, ice, candle wax, something sharp, nipple clamps, pegs on labia, kissing, stroking....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Struggle

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

Make sure you gag her, then crack a six pack and watch match of the day in peace

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Stuff her knickers in her mouth

She can't use the safe word then

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"you should really have an in-depth talk as to what she wants to happen and have a safe word so you know to stop what ever you are doing "

This, plus if she sees this she'll know you had to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I've got a meet lined up this evening and she's told me she wants to be restrained with this under bed restraints.

Never really had much experience with them and therefore looking to the fab community for suggestions on what to do to her once restrained?

I assume lots of gentle caressing, perhaps some ice play, but anything I'm missing?

Thank you"

Your 39yrs old

Use your imagination

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By *lutmeup500Woman
over a year ago

London

first meet I wouldn't do that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Your 39yrs old

Use your imagination "

Not sure what the point of that post was.

To everyone else, thanks for the suggestions, it's not a first meet and someone I've known for a while and played with a number of times.

All good and helpful stuff, much appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stuff her knickers in her mouth

She can't use the safe word then "

She could choke on them though so if she stops moving do be sure to check for a pulse first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Your 39yrs old

Use your imagination

Not sure what the point of that post was.

To everyone else, thanks for the suggestions, it's not a first meet and someone I've known for a while and played with a number of times.

All good and helpful stuff, much appreciated. "

You're welcome. I'm sure she'll love my suggestion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you should really have an in-depth talk as to what she wants to happen and have a safe word so you know to stop what ever you are doing

Yes I agree with this, get ideas from us but talk to her first.

Have you got a fur glove, some textured items (we have a kind of rubber ball with spikes), leather with studs etc for contrasting textures? Vibrators a wand that you can use? Have a chat with her about those things.

Hope you both enjoy."
i agree with all the above but both enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Your 39yrs old

Use your imagination

Not sure what the point of that post was.

To everyone else, thanks for the suggestions, it's not a first meet and someone I've known for a while and played with a number of times.

All good and helpful stuff, much appreciated. "

Sigh

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Anything you want...It's not like she can stop you lol.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"So I've got a meet lined up this evening and she's told me she wants to be restrained with this under bed restraints.

Never really had much experience with them and therefore looking to the fab community for suggestions on what to do to her once restrained?

I assume lots of gentle caressing, perhaps some ice play, but anything I'm missing?

Thank you"

Tie her to the bed. Blindfold her. Put earphones in her ears and music on to cut out that sense too.

Then use items of different textures to tease her with. Occasional use of the crop or paddle to spice things up a bit.

If you think she is up for it sometime - invite a third person to join in - that'll blow her mind...

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Little consequence play tends to be interesting, especially the more aroused she becomes.

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Go for a Chinese

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go for a Chinese "
nooooo that's wrong if you don't struggle and whimper not much point to it

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Go for a Chinese nooooo that's wrong if you don't struggle and whimper not much point to it "

Trust me I'd be struggling and whimpering if I got tied to a bed while they go for food....... actually I wouldn't. I'd find my super duper _ab fem strength and break the shackles that bind me. Nobody stops me from eating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go for a Chinese nooooo that's wrong if you don't struggle and whimper not much point to it

Trust me I'd be struggling and whimpering if I got tied to a bed while they go for food....... actually I wouldn't. I'd find my super duper _ab fem strength and break the shackles that bind me. Nobody stops me from eating "
hehe hey you're not in the after Xmas diet group then

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"Go for a Chinese nooooo that's wrong if you don't struggle and whimper not much point to it

Trust me I'd be struggling and whimpering if I got tied to a bed while they go for food....... actually I wouldn't. I'd find my super duper _ab fem strength and break the shackles that bind me. Nobody stops me from eating hehe hey you're not in the after Xmas diet group then "

Err! No. I love my grub too much for diets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go for a Chinese nooooo that's wrong if you don't struggle and whimper not much point to it

Trust me I'd be struggling and whimpering if I got tied to a bed while they go for food....... actually I wouldn't. I'd find my super duper _ab fem strength and break the shackles that bind me. Nobody stops me from eating hehe hey you're not in the after Xmas diet group then

Err! No. I love my grub too much for diets "
I don't do diets just eat well all the time

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By *orks funMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

go for a piss and leave the seat up

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