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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave. Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! Why not just meet one of the guys you've met before and add in a third? I think this is the way I'd go if I was single..." I agree with this, is there someone you know already and trust you could meet with and add a 3rd , sounds a bit more secure to me. | |||
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave. Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! " Why dont you take your partner to meet one man, then your more likely to be safe | |||
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave. Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! " . It may depend on how much information you have on them from their profiles on fab . If they have been members for a while and have detailed profiles , the risk that you are taking is probably minimal. It might be safer to meet in a hotel as everyone will be recorded on security cameras as they enter the hotel.. | |||
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave. Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! " But you're part of a couple so surely you just need to a single guy to come meet you and your partner?? | |||
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave. Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! . It may depend on how much information you have on them from their profiles on fab . If they have been members for a while and have detailed profiles , the risk that you are taking is probably minimal. It might be safer to meet in a hotel as everyone will be recorded on security cameras as they enter the hotel.." You are aware that anyone can write anything in a profile aren't you ? No matter how detailed a profile may be , it certainly doesn't make the risk minimal ! | |||
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"Am chatting to two blokes on here. They are mates. They seem fun. Never met either of them " No. I wouldn't. And I've done some crazy things . I would need to know one of them and I'd probably take someone I know even if they just dropped me off and picked me up. The scenario is hot though. | |||
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"Am chatting to two blokes on here. They are mates. They seem fun. Never met either of them " Would you feel safer if you met in your own home? | |||
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave. Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! " When I first started this I did. They were housemates. Now I don't think I would do that again. I'm more cautious. Tend to do club meets and still enjoy mmf threesomes. | |||
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"We play separate at times. This is a time where I want to meet two guys by myself " Ok so why don't you just try making it so you at least know one of the guys beforehand? or maybe arrange it with two guys that you have meet before? | |||
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave. Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! . It may depend on how much information you have on them from their profiles on fab . If they have been members for a while and have detailed profiles , the risk that you are taking is probably minimal. It might be safer to meet in a hotel as everyone will be recorded on security cameras as they enter the hotel.. You are aware that anyone can write anything in a profile aren't you ? No matter how detailed a profile may be , it certainly doesn't make the risk minimal ! " . Based on the content of the profile there are a number of checks which can be done .In addition common sense and a sixth sense can go a long way. | |||
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"When women r horny can meet with 10 boys " Don't risk meeting two strangers, play safe and go for 10 | |||
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"When women r horny can meet with 10 boys Don't risk meeting two strangers, play safe and go for 10 " | |||
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"Women ,s don't care when pussie is on high drive xx" : | |||
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"No, not if you have never met them before. They could be anybody. We sometimes talk to people here and find out they are not who they say they are. Be careful! " Ever seen Catfish? | |||
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"No, not if you have never met them before. They could be anybody. We sometimes talk to people here and find out they are not who they say they are. Be careful! Ever seen Catfish?" No, is that a film? | |||
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"Women ,s don't care when pussie is on high drive xx" Do you just come out at nighttime? | |||
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"Women ,s don't care when pussie is on high drive xx " What does that even mean?! | |||
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"Women ,s don't care when pussie is on high drive xx What does that even mean?!" High on methadone | |||
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"Women ,s don't care when pussie is on high drive xx What does that even mean?! High on methadone " | |||
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"No, not if you have never met them before. They could be anybody. We sometimes talk to people here and find out they are not who they say they are. Be careful! Ever seen Catfish? No, is that a film?" I think it was originally a film but there is a series now as well. People contact them when they are suspicious of someone they are speaking to online and they investigate. Nearly all the time it turns out to be someone completely different with their own agenda. Quite scary really | |||
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave. Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! " Sounds dodgy as, I'd guess most women if not all wouldn't. If it turned nasty, the lady is basically fucked.. In more ways than one. | |||
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"Hey you sound like you take risks anyhow and what's the worst that can happen ,they have their wicked way with you ,which is what you want in first place but a social in a public place is surely the first option " Are you for real ?! " What's the worst that can happen " ! Where do you want to start ??! Like anything in life there's the good the bad & the ugly ! I'd rope in a trusted male or go down the club route. Experiment but stay safe, people aren't always as they first seem. Too many fake profiles & verifications kicking around , I wouldn't rely on either too much to get a good measure of some one. | |||
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"Hey you sound like you take risks anyhow and what's the worst that can happen ,they have their wicked way with you ,which is what you want in first place but a social in a public place is surely the first option Are you for real ?! " What's the worst that can happen " ! Where do you want to start ??! Like anything in life there's the good the bad & the ugly ! I'd rope in a trusted male or go down the club route. Experiment but stay safe, people aren't always as they first seem. Too many fake profiles & verifications kicking around , I wouldn't rely on either too much to get a good measure of some one." but sounds like she's already met single guys like this her question is should she meet two mates who sound like a good laugh ,if you noticed I did say have a social in a public place but maybe she gets her kicks from the unknown factor !!! | |||
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"Trademark it was more your comment " what's the worst that can happen "! Twenty years in former work line tells me ' a lot can happen'! The element of unknown can be a big kick but there's always ways of safeguarding yourself at the same time - advisable ! I've met some lovely folk over time but there's plenty out there missing that magic link or have their own darker agenda unfortunately. Fun to experiment but keep ya head screwed on since 'Bob from tw@tsville 'could well be 'Fred from the west' Ya never quite know! " hey I agree with what you're saying my comment what's the worst that can happen was said tongue in cheek ,I air on the safety side to but the OP has already said she doesn't do socials and has obviously had meets using this principle | |||
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"Does this senario come with risk? yes of course it does. Should you do it? only you can answer that. The fact you ask the question shoes that either you know you shouldn't or you get off on knowing you are going to do it and want to share the fact." Shows not shoes lol | |||
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"Women ,s don't care when pussie is on high drive xx" think you got confused with "men dont care when they have hard on!!!!!!!!!" lol | |||
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave. Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! " Why not just have a quick drink with them in the hotel bar? No need to meet up another time because your room is already there waiting if you decide to proceed from that drink. | |||
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave. Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! " Definitely not! | |||
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave. Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! " How do you know if you want to have sex unless you first meet for a chat. You cant go direct to sex, surely? | |||
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"Yes I go direct to sex after chatting and exchanging pics..jas worked great the few times I have done it. Thanks for all the advice. Meeting in a house in private is much more of a turn on and easier to arrange for me but I think I know I need to play safe. .not worth the risk..and meet them in a club. Thanks all! " Very pleased to hear that! | |||
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"Yes I go direct to sex after chatting and exchanging pics..jas worked great the few times I have done it. Thanks for all the advice. Meeting in a house in private is much more of a turn on and easier to arrange for me but I think I know I need to play safe. .not worth the risk..and meet them in a club. Thanks all! " Good to hear. It's not worth the risk x | |||
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave. Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! " If I'd met one previously yes. If not no. Have they got veris, if so are any from a mmf? I would be more inclined to meet in a club if I'm honest | |||
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave. Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! " No I wouldn't x | |||
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave. Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! How do you know if you want to have sex unless you first meet for a chat. You cant go direct to sex, surely? " Yes you can | |||
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave. Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! How do you know if you want to have sex unless you first meet for a chat. You cant go direct to sex, surely? Yes you can " Yes you can! Lol. Soon as the guy walked in , we very clearly really liked the look of each other so that kiss hello, just went wild and next thing I was on my knees then being bent over the bed! Lol. Very obvious hot mutual attraction doesn't happen often but when it does, feels like fireworks for me! Lol. | |||
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"Put safety before fun. If at all you have any concerns, then dont do it. Surely if they are decent guys, they will suggest to meet you for a drink first, simply to break the ice and put you at ease. If you do go ahead without meeting them first, make sure you tell one of your closest friends to call you at a certain time and if you dont answer, then they must come for you. If its fun vs safety, surely saftey should win each time. look after yourself x" | |||
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave. Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! Why not just meet one of the guys you've met before and add in a third? I think this is the way I'd go if I was single..." I've been wanting a good mmf for ages and this is the way I would go about it. I'd need to know one of them more and then add the other. | |||
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"I am not into socials. .no time and just don't really want to do chit chat. I like to meet, play and leave. Would you meet two blokes in a house? I would love a mmf but keep thinking this is risky. Although I have met men in houses on my own several times and had a great time! " As a single MAN, I wouldn't like to meet two random men alone in a house. Not a fucking chance. | |||
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"Women ,s don't care when pussie is on high drive xx" Yes we do | |||
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