FabSwingers.com forum: Confidence

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do I get the confidence to make the first message? I wink if I like someone but they're useless. I am here for friends as well as anything else, perfectly capable of conversation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just go for it...

most people on here have been in the same situation at one time or another, and we all came through it

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

If you haven't got the confidence to send a message then how are you going to meet?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"How do I get the confidence to make the first message? I wink if I like someone but they're useless. I am here for friends as well as anything else, perfectly capable of conversation! "

Why not join in the forums for a bit? You might find that builds your confidence to message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you haven't got the confidence to send a message then how are you going to meet?"

I was just about to say the exact same thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you haven't got the confidence to send a message then how are you going to meet?"

My thoughts.

I understand you have confidence issues OP but typing a message is much in the comfort of your own home is much easier than getting ready for and then attending a meet with strangers. As per the above perhaps get involved on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv sent loads only got 1 reply an that was a smiley face lol. Just go for it bud SEND THAT first message an have fun.

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

Hasn't got the confidence to message yet is verified by meet, from someone he met when he was here before.........something smells a bit fishy here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just to note once I have been speaking to people I am confident enough to meet its just the nerves of that first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just to note once I have been speaking to people I am confident enough to meet its just the nerves of that first message"

You can meet people for sex but are nervous to send a typed message from behind the safety of your computer? How odd!

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"Just to note once I have been speaking to people I am confident enough to meet its just the nerves of that first message

You can meet people for sex but are nervous to send a typed message from behind the safety of your computer? How odd!"

I think reading between the lines the OP would like people to contact him.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

I think it looks like op wants others to make the first move

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"How do I get the confidence to make the first message? I wink if I like someone but they're useless. I am here for friends as well as anything else, perfectly capable of conversation! "

Just send a message - a well thought out one that's personalised and interesting night get a reply.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

"Just to note once I have been speaking to people I am confident enough to meet its just the nerves of that first message

You can meet people for sex but are nervous to send a typed message from behind the safety of your computer? How odd!

I think reading between the lines the OP would like people to contact him.

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

I did this once on single profile. Delete no reply and they say women are rude. Didn't help with the confidence thing

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