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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi there, so i'm relatively new here (had an account for roughly 2 months) and I can see that my profile is getting regular views but I never get any messages and any messages I do send get read but then never replied to. Obviously I understand that people can do whatever they want, no one is obliged to answer anyone but I was wondering if there's any way I could spruce up my profile a bit to maybe attract a reply? Any messages I have sent have been perfectly polite and I make a point of not being at all pushy or anything but alas no joy. Granted my profile is pretty short, and I know I only have 1 picture on it but honestly i'm not comfortable posting my face and i'm slightly unwilling to plaster my profile with nudes since i've been told the majority of women don't actually dig that? Anyway any advice would be lovely. Cheers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've made more of an effort on this thread than your profile! You need to add more hun.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

This forum post is more informative than your profile. Maybe try there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the prompt replies, obviously my profile is lacking quite badly then. Is there anything in particular that I should talk about on it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for the prompt replies, obviously my profile is lacking quite badly then. Is there anything in particular that I should talk about on it?"

Yes, you! What you're here for, what you like, what you can offer and try to get your personality and humour across.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Add to your profile and block single men from contacting you...then you can remove that bit from the text and replace it with something about yourself and what you would like.

A few shots of your torso won't do you any harm

Good luck.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Do you want comments from a man?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback folks, going to rewrite the whole lot in a mo. ^ Steve go for it, I don't mean to come across as if I hate blokes just I tend to get ever increasing amounts of messages from guys badgering me.

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By *hoenixmanMan
over a year ago

Where men are men, and sheep are nervous...!

OP - post a new thread in this section (Support and Advice) specifically asking for a Profile Critique, then we can all help you. It's forum rules - if you don't ask, we can't do it....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thanks for the feedback folks, going to rewrite the whole lot in a mo. ^ Steve go for it, I don't mean to come across as if I hate blokes just I tend to get ever increasing amounts of messages from guys badgering me."

Block men from messaging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame you are too young for me, bu very kissable lips

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"OP - post a new thread in this section (Support and Advice) specifically asking for a Profile Critique, then we can all help you. It's forum rules - if you don't ask, we can't do it.... "

He has asked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for all the comments people and sorry if this post wasn't in the right place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you for all the comments people and sorry if this post wasn't in the right place."

No its fine hun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would anyone mind checking my profile now for me to see if that's any improvement? Thanks again everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just read it for the first time, and you've obviously put some thought and effort in. I thought it was good, just one small spelling mistake (here should be hear). Nice!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Aha thank you, don't know I missed that, i'm obsessive about my grammar.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Would anyone mind checking my profile now for me to see if that's any improvement? Thanks again everyone."

First time I've read it and it seems fine. Tiny point is that the profile says how old and how tall you are so no need to include that.

All you need now are some nice torso shots

Feel free to send me your style of first message and I'll give you feedback on that if you like?

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Aha thank you, don't know I missed that, i'm obsessive about my grammar."

Then you'll be mortified that you missed the word 'how' out of that sentence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aha thank you, don't know I missed that, i'm obsessive about my grammar.

Then you'll be mortified that you missed the word 'how' out of that sentence "

Missed a capital I too. Nee naw nee naw, the grammar police are coming

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am mortified with myself... Haha.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The text is fine. Really good, in fact. So...more pics

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Actually, what does your laugh sound like? See? Even I'm interested now!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

High pitched, and not becoming of a male haha.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Actually, what does your laugh sound like? See? Even I'm interested now! "

Me too

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"High pitched, and not becoming of a male haha."

So making you laugh would be hysterical in itself?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Bloody hyena man! yahahahahahah-yahahahaha-yahah

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Once I really get going yes haha. Some would say hysterical, others would say irritating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think u should put your third pic as your avatar your lips do look lush. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you, that was the original one, maybe I should change it back.

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By *orders2forUCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

How about some smart clothed pics? Sharp suit? Tux? And a longer profile text, not as long s ours though...LOL

L2

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Really good.

Waiting for that elusive tricep pic now..

x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha, sadly I haven't been to the gym in about a year so you'll have to wait for the triceps.

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