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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello all

I am thinking of going to abfabs tonight this will be my first time at a club

My problem is this, I was in a car crash last year and I have a couple of big scars on my legs (all the important bits still work mind haha)

I just want to know if I am going to be ignored/pushed away being as it's a naturist night and all.

Please let me know what you think

C

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Hello all

I am thinking of going to abfabs tonight this will be my first time at a club

My problem is this, I was in a car crash last year and I have a couple of big scars on my legs (all the important bits still work mind haha)

I just want to know if I am going to be ignored/pushed away being as it's a naturist night and all.

Please let me know what you think

C"

well we not club goers but from our other swinging experience we would say if any are so shallow to be put off by your scars then you probably better not getting to know them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I suppose that's true there are a lot of shallow people out there though.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Scars really wouldn't bother me at all in fact they would be quite interesting. I wouldn't worry just go along and have a good time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect some people will be put off. Many others won't. Focus on the latter

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No idea but I really like scars and I think they look good. They show life experience, a story and just look good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have scars on my arms.

Some notice and mention them.

Others don't.

OP, you're a good looking guy (in my opinion) I would definitely say hello if I saw you at AbFabs.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Hello all

I am thinking of going to abfabs tonight this will be my first time at a club

My problem is this, I was in a car crash last year and I have a couple of big scars on my legs (all the important bits still work mind haha)

I just want to know if I am going to be ignored/pushed away being as it's a naturist night and all.

Please let me know what you think

C"

Could be a conversation starter, you brave, brave man!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the replys. I think I will go if anyone else is there tonight say hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't put me off but I guess it would some. If it's a naturist night then at least it will be visible and anyone put off will either not approach you or decline you if you approach them.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might also get people asking what happened so just act natural in your conversation with them. Others may look and you could say that you got them in a car accident, either they carry on chatting or they don't

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage

It wouldnt be any different to showing your scars on a personal meet.

Those that dont like scars dont fret about

Focus on those that do like

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Women don`t worry about scars, relax and enjoy... we are all lucky to be alive live life to the full. mmmmmmmm shame you are too young for me xxxx

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Youll be fine OP ... do let us know how you got on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just like most other people who have commented, your scars would not stop me from talking with you. However, I don't think that those who are put off by scars or anything else are shallow, though. Just that everyone is different. I hope you have fun at the club. Wish I was so brave to attend too.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

I've always found the crowd and staff at Ab Fab to be pretty friendly, non judgemental and open minded. I'm sure you'll be fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Didn't go in the end my car decided it wasn't to be haha

Looking forward to going now though

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