FabSwingers.com forum: Attraction

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I ( Mrs ) find it very rare that I am attracted to the male half of couples. I'm attracted to the females halves of all shapes, sizes and ages but never so with the men which means we have very few meets or if we do I don't want to play with the male.

Anyone else have this issue?

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

Maybe you are just happy with your hubby and are selective about the guys you choose to play with x

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Provided the male half knows ahead of time you only want to play with the female and is happy with it, I don't see a problem. You obviously found your man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to meet with my ex and we met a couple they were nice enough he was obviously attracted to the female but i wasnt attracted to the guy he kept trying to pull me to him and to kiss me i kept trying to make excuses and once kissed him just to keep him happy but ended up in tears in the bathroom so we left my ex was very apologetic and felt bad for not leaving sooner to be fair we were only new to the scene but it kind of put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it you are bi as you prefer women more.

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By *iscellaneousCouple
over a year ago

Idle

I find females inherently more attractive and am definitely far fussier about men. I see the female in a couple and want to play and then change my mind when it comes to the male. I wouldn't play with a couple if that were the case though because I want to join in with everyone

MiscF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to find it difficult to find attraction with the guy in a couple, but after having a a bit of a break and figuring out what I actually liked and what i wanted (because i had no clue what actually turned me on other than my man) it's been much easier. I'd say don't meet with a couple you don't like both and fish for the one you do, or just meet the girl. Don't push yourself if you don't like the guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction between couples can be a hard thing to find. It is notoriously hard. Just don't play with anyone you don't want to play with, simple.

However, make sure that whoever you're playing with knows and agrees to whatever the plans are. It would make us pretty pissed if we set up a meet with a couple and at the meet they told us they didn't want to play with Marc.

We were able to find a few couples that we both are attracted to and get along with and we meet them when we can. Its easier then finding new people all the time.

-Courtney

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