FabSwingers.com forum: Another profile critique

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all, yet another profile critique please, can I get some constructive feedback, where am I going wrong???

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

What do you think? So some critical thinking and be objective - what do you think is good and bad about your own profile?

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"Hi all, yet another profile critique please, can I get some constructive feedback, where am I going wrong???"

Yawn! Yet another guy who thinks that cock pic overload is the way to go! Be more imaginative! Action shots are not the most popular either...we don't particularly need to see where you have been!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is your target a woman if so wanking and getting two guys to verify and wanting to meet them won't get you any plus points with many women not all,the cock on display puts a lot off to but mainly its the ratios and how you send your messages, send messages based on target profile with a bit of humour and include a smiling face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Willies aren't the pussy magnets you think they are.

On their own they look pretty silly. While it's probably very exciting taking pictures of your errection and posting them on the net , it doesn't make us swoon and come running.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Points taken pics going

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

There are literally thousands of well written informative male profiles on here. You're truly deluded if you think with the amount of profiles to choose from anyone is going to pull teeth asking you questions about yourself.

You need to sell you!

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

If you can't be bothered to flesh out your profile, then you may well display the same lack of effort and energy in a meet....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"What do you think? So some critical thinking and be objective - what do you think is good and bad about your own profile? "

Nothing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the Freudian slip in the new profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So on your profile you are asking people to 'bare with me' I'm confused to what your asking?! You want people to undress with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile pic probably, I wouldn't even click on your profile with your current photo. Sorry to be brutally honest but its off putting.

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By *requent_FerryersCouple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth

Just looked at your "revamped" profile.

It is so boring even you have fallen asleep whilst writing it!

Sorry, but you are a long way off the mark if you want to attract someone, especially a woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How tedious..this question comes up so often. When will males realise that on this site, most of the profiles just arent real and there really are very very few real females /couples who will meet them. Its all an illusion. Once you get that into your skull life will be a lot easier..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's not a revamped profile it's a "holding profile" but if it makes you happier it's hidden instead now

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So on your profile you are asking people to 'bare with me' I'm confused to what your asking?! You want people to undress with you? "

Very funny, it's either bare or bear the latter just looks wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not a revamped profile it's a "holding profile" but if it makes you happier it's hidden instead now

WTF is a holding profile?? With the way I run my profile, I find very few profiles that are interesting and well written enough for me to message but that's fine with me. These profiles stand out so much with all hundreds of basic one line profiles you'd think more would make an effort. Fab should block men from being able to message for a month to see if some actually make an effort to get messages!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What do you think? So some critical thinking and be objective - what do you think is good and bad about your own profile?

Nothing? "

With all due respect how is this constructive feedback!! I sought the opinion of others for third party opinions, not to just have my own thoughts reflected back at me.

I obviously didn't think my profile was cutting the mustard hence the request for feedback

Right off to work...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 02/02/16 08:55:41]

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's not a revamped profile it's a "holding profile" but if it makes you happier it's hidden instead now

I cleared it down this morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So on your profile you are asking people to 'bare with me' I'm confused to what your asking?! You want people to undress with you?

Very funny, it's either bare or bear the latter just looks wrong"

Perhaps an avid viewer of we bare Bears? Ice Bear says no..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So on your profile you are asking people to 'bare with me' I'm confused to what your asking?! You want people to undress with you?

Very funny, it's either bare or bear the latter just looks wrong"

The latter is correct

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By *requent_FerryersCouple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth

It looks so much better now that it is hidden.

Is that "constructive" enough?

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

As previously suggested, if it's women you're attempting to attract suggest you change the avatar

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"What do you think? So some critical thinking and be objective - what do you think is good and bad about your own profile?

Nothing?

With all due respect how is this constructive feedback!! I sought the opinion of others for third party opinions, not to just have my own thoughts reflected back at me.

I obviously didn't think my profile was cutting the mustard hence the request for feedback

Right off to work..."

My comment has made you think about your profile so in that respect it was constructive. It's up to you. It's not me asking for advice. If I were, I'd gratefully accept any offered even if I didn't like it and then peruse all the answers and pick the bits out which I might not have thought of.

Self analysis and self awareness of ones strengths and weaknesses can go a long way to improving your fab experience. You're the one who knows you the best, not us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and another tip forum women have been their done that got the porn awards ceremony trophy and are very cynical cross them if you dare ,especially if they're on their period

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I was going to have a sneaky peak but he's hidden it. Work in progress?

Just from the avatar alone though.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and another tip forum women have been their done that got the porn awards ceremony trophy and are very cynical cross them if you dare ,especially if they're on their period

I don't have periods.

Another advantage over genetic females

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

Missie Lou

I think I see the problem with yr profile. It says stoke on Trent

Seriously though. It looks fine to me. Plenty of do's and donts to act as filters.

If you want more messages, reduce your requirements, but get ready with your deleting finger.

If it's just that the "right" people aren't being attracted? Then may be there aren't any or they're just choosing to go elsewhere.

Could be worse. If you were a guy, you would never receive an unsolicited message that you'd want to act upon.

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

No one wants to see where you've been. It's a big turn-off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Missie Lou

I think I see the problem with yr profile. It says stoke on Trent

Seriously though. It looks fine to me. Plenty of do's and donts to act as filters.

If you want more messages, reduce your requirements, but get ready with your deleting finger.

If it's just that the "right" people aren't being attracted? Then may be there aren't any or they're just choosing to go elsewhere.

Could be worse. If you were a guy, you would never receive an unsolicited message that you'd want to act upon.

Am I missing something, she didn't ask for profile advice??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ouch!

Tough crowd

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I've not looked at your

previous profile,

your holding profile

your finished profile,

I will say there are countless threads offering generic profile advice in the archives, they all contain the same tips and suggestions, happy reading..

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

Apologies, my mistake :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

"Missie Lou

I think I see the problem with yr profile. It says stoke on Trent

Seriously though. It looks fine to me. Plenty of do's and donts to act as filters.

If you want more messages, reduce your requirements, but get ready with your deleting finger.

If it's just that the "right" people aren't being attracted? Then may be there aren't any or they're just choosing to go elsewhere.

Could be worse. If you were a guy, you would never receive an unsolicited message that you'd want to act upon.

Am I missing something, she didn't ask for profile advice??"

Errrr....no I neither asked for or needed advice!!!

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"How tedious..this question comes up so often. When will males realise that on this site, most of the profiles just arent real and there really are very very few real females /couples who will meet them. Its all an illusion. Once you get that into your skull life will be a lot easier.."

You sound rather bitter.

All of the couples and ladies I've met on here have been quite genuine with real profiles.

You have to learn the signs of a fake in order to avoid bitter outcomes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So on your profile you are asking people to 'bare with me' I'm confused to what your asking?! You want people to undress with you?

Very funny, it's either bare or bear the latter just looks wrong

The latter is correct "

I stand corrected!! You're quite right.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"So on your profile you are asking people to 'bare with me' I'm confused to what your asking?! You want people to undress with you?

Very funny, it's either bare or bear the latter just looks wrong

The latter is correct

I stand corrected!! You're quite right."

I'm so glad we got that sorted.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok. So, what Steve from Brighton said is all good. If you look through the forums, he is a pretty grounded and reasonable guy, so good to listen to.

I didn't see your old profile, but I can offer my general opinion - you will know more what you want though eg; it doesn't matter what I like. You need a profile that works for you!

Personally, I don't like profiles with tons of cock pics, crappy pics or photos that are out of date. A couple of cock pics is good but too many gets dull. Men are turned on by pussies (well straight ones are - lol) but girls don't have the same reaction to cocks.

Be honest. Don't brag - it just makes us laugh because we all know that 'Mr Supercock, 12" lover lover man' is, in reality, an IT engineer called Barry from Leighton Buzzard with a one inch wonder, enhanced shoes so he can reach door handles and as much idea in the bedroom as a 13 year old boy.

Do not say you are single if u r either married, or as good as. People get hurt.

Be polite, charming, funny, have a smiley photo and an intelligent write up, which sets out what u r up for without being sexist, racist, sizeist or ageist - they all make you look ignorant. Chemistry has no borders.

My profile is quite directive, mainly because I know what I like, who I want to attract, and that there are so many timewasters and fantasists on here, so if people look and don't like, then fine. I'm only interested in the ones I would fancy and gel with.

Hope that helps xx

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Ok. So, what Steve from Brighton said is all good. If you look through the forums, he is a pretty grounded and reasonable guy, so good to listen to.

I didn't see your old profile, but I can offer my general opinion - you will know more what you want though eg; it doesn't matter what I like. You need a profile that works for you!

Do not say you are single if u r either married, or as good as. People get hurt.

Hope that helps xx"

Very sound and clear advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you can't be bothered to flesh out your profile, then you may well display the same lack of effort and energy in a meet...."

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By *ebedee2009Man
over a year ago

South Croydon

The best advice I was given quite a while back-and which I now pass on to the terminally ungrateful- is, that if you can make them laugh and feel wanted, the you're halfway there...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The best advice I was given quite a while back-and which I now pass on to the terminally ungrateful- is, that if you can make them laugh and feel wanted, the you're halfway there..."

thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So nice to see a face pic instead of a cock pic,hate cum pictures, apologies but just a preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just popped in to see the new profile, I'll pop back later then!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just popped in to see the new profile, I'll pop back later then!"

updated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A much better profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, yet another profile critique please, can I get some constructive feedback, where am I going wrong???"

I don't like it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hi all, yet another profile critique please, can I get some constructive feedback, where am I going wrong???

I don't like it "

I know I'm not going to appeal to everyone, but may I ask if it's something in particular you dislike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, yet another profile critique please, can I get some constructive feedback, where am I going wrong???

I don't like it

I know I'm not going to appeal to everyone, but may I ask if it's something in particular you dislike"

I got a professional photographer for my pics, the pics (colour) have had a positive impact, as for the profile text, I didn't read it as there's too much there.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Being constructive here, there was too much waffle at the start therefore I didn't bother reading past the 1st paragraph.

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