FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swinging Support and Advice

Female feedback on messages

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'd like some feedback on my (private) face pic and on what first-contact messages work best. If I can get 3-4 very kind female volunteers to send them 1-2 messages, that would be great. (Yes, I know that different things will work for different people, but I think feedback can always teach you something)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your face picture isn't private - it's your avatar.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No my face pic is private! My avatar is a sunglasses pic

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself, be honest and don't be pushy - in short, treat the female like you would like to be treated. Women like men who are funny, confident but not arrogant or pushy, who dress well and smell nice.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"No my face pic is private! My avatar is a sunglasses pic "

We can still see your face

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No my face pic is private! My avatar is a sunglasses pic

We can still see your face "

But you wouldn't recognise me on the street...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No my face pic is private! My avatar is a sunglasses pic

We can still see your face

But you wouldn't recognise me on the street..."

Of course you could

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just be yourself, be honest and don't be pushy - in short, treat the female like you would like to be treated. Women like men who are funny, confident but not arrogant or pushy, who dress well and smell nice. "

Fair enough, but in real life it comes natural, no clue on what works here. What do you write to people with blank profiles who state only "looking for lots of fun"? I live in the countryside and most are like that.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 31/01/16 23:06:57]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"No my face pic is private! My avatar is a sunglasses pic

We can still see your face

But you wouldn't recognise me on the street...

Of course you could"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

OP send me message and I will give you my opinion tomorrow. Happy to give you some feedback.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks Lizzy, I'll put "Feedback" on title

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lizzy, maybe message me first so as to bypass the age filters? Thanks

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

I'm happy to do this and known to be very honest in my feedback

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rs Mia WallaceWoman
over a year ago

Bathwyche

Your profile seems fine, feel free to pm me a pic.

I change my profile quite alot as i evolve through experiences on here and the more honest I am, abiut who I am and what I am looking/not looking for, the more attractive those are who message me.... i say attractive not just in the physical sense!

So id say, just be yourself.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No my face pic is private! My avatar is a sunglasses pic

We can still see your face

But you wouldn't recognise me on the street...

Of course you could"

But only if he had his sunglasses on. I think he might work for MI5

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Lizzy, maybe message me first so as to bypass the age filters? Thanks"

I messaged you, but you have not sent me a message. Can't offer you feedback until you do

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 01/02/16 17:52:06]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile seems fine, feel free to pm me a pic. "

Thanks, I've already received some advice but might message you later

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top