FabSwingers.com forum: Just been winked.....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

By a couple....looking for straight men.

They are localish....but to be fair she just doesn't do it for me. Do I:

(A) wink back

(B) ignore the wink

(D) message to say I saw the wink...but don't want to go further....

Don't need a big discussion. It's just fine to vote A, B, C or D

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B ignore

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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

B or c why on earth would you message someone to say you saw a wink.

Anyone would think people didnt get winks if they cause such a dilema.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D, if you've got time then be polite x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

If you delete it means they can wink again.

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere

as long as you mail box is not melting

D for politeness

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

B ... then block

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"B or c why on earth would you message someone to say you saw a wink.

Anyone would think people didnt get winks if they cause such a dilema.

FAQs say a wink is to express interest. I've messaged in reply to previous winks from others and arranged meets....but don't want to meet this time (even single guys can say no!). Just wondering what others might do...if I should be polite or just ignore etc. would a couple be offended if I said no as all single guys are desperate aren't we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B so they cant wink again

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

B. They've expressed interest but they're not that interested or they'd have messaged. They tested the waters, you're not interested. No reciprocation or official turn down required.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"B. They've expressed interest but they're not that interested or they'd have messaged. They tested the waters, you're not interested. No reciprocation or official turn down required."

Think this makes more sense.....cheers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we used to always reply - but would ignore now

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Or do you want them to keep winking ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D..... I would anyway, just in case you get a follow up message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B & C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never even considered negatively replying to winks.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never even considered negatively replying to winks.

-Courtney "
neither have I its just a quick way of saying they are interested xx

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Never mind this.....go check your pockets for your lottery ticket

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've never even considered negatively replying to winks.

-Courtney "
I've never thought about replying to a wink full stop.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"D, if you've got time then be polite x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By a couple....looking for straight men.

They are localish....but to be fair she just doesn't do it for me. Do I:

(A) wink back

(B) ignore the wink

(D) message to say I saw the wink...but don't want to go further....

Don't need a big discussion. It's just fine to vote A, B, C or D "
I would create another profile and disappear into the sunset

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By a couple....looking for straight men.

They are localish....but to be fair she just doesn't do it for me. Do I:

(A) wink back

(B) ignore the wink

(D) message to say I saw the wink...but don't want to go further....

Don't need a big discussion. It's just fine to vote A, B, C or D "

Your a grown man surly u can decide for yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"B or c why on earth would you message someone to say you saw a wink.

Anyone would think people didnt get winks if they cause such a dilema.

I always reply to a wink.

Yeah,yeah.....I know,I don't get hundreds of messages /winks everyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

E. You have to fuck her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

You know what to do. ..

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By *dventureslayerMan
over a year ago

London

Being courteous never killed anybody.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I had a wink today ..from a guy.. I just deleted it..

I don't get that many so from a lady or a couple I message back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D no harm in saying thanks but no thanks after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polite rely....no need to block unless they pester....being polite goes a long way....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need to reply.

Currently not looked at 115 winks myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"B or c why on earth would you message someone to say you saw a wink.

Anyone would think people didnt get winks if they cause such a dilema.

I always reply to a wink.

Yeah,yeah.....I know,I don't get hundreds of messages /winks everyday

Test wink sent. Stopwatch started to see how long it takes you to get to mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Holy moley.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"B or c why on earth would you message someone to say you saw a wink.

Anyone would think people didnt get winks if they cause such a dilema.

I always reply to a wink.

Yeah,yeah.....I know,I don't get hundreds of messages /winks everyday

Test wink sent. Stopwatch started to see how long it takes you to get to mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goodness only knows why anyone would reply to a wink with a no thank you .

Everyone knows if a wink is ignored the recipient doesn't want to know .

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

"By a couple....looking for straight men.

They are localish....but to be fair she just doesn't do it for me. Do I:

(A) wink back

(B) ignore the wink

(D) message to say I saw the wink...but don't want to go further....

Don't need a big discussion. It's just fine to vote A, B, C or D "

Someone has to much time on their hands!

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By *requent_FerryersCouple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth

D - Manners cost nothing

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Send fancy a fuck message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you enter into any kind of communication with someone you're not interested in?

Just delete and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B.... Also stands for block.. To save any awkward unwanted communication

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

B - that's a subtle way of saying - you're not for me.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

"I had a wink today ..from a guy.. I just deleted it..

I don't get that many so from a lady or a couple I message back.

What regardless of what they offer??

sounds a bit discrimatory to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"D - Manners cost nothing"

Not sure how many winks you get , but we get over 100 a day , so manners do cost something - a heck of a lot of time !

Totally understand people replying to well written messages if they aren't interested . But a wink ?

Not in a million years .....

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage

I dont even look at winks, so will never have your dilemmaOP

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage

"D - Manners cost nothing

Not sure how many winks you get , but we get over 100 a day , so manners do cost something - a heck of a lot of time !

Totally understand people replying to well written messages if they aren't interested . But a wink ?

Not in a million years ....."

i dont check winks but wouldnt message anyone that did wink, my opinion if they are interested they would message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By a couple....looking for straight men.

They are localish....but to be fair she just doesn't do it for me. Do I:

(A) wink back

(B) ignore the wink

(D) message to say I saw the wink...but don't want to go further....

Don't need a big discussion. It's just fine to vote A, B, C or D "

I presume your dyslexic and meant wank - makes more sence now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They probably winked after seeing your status ..they were surprising you and I think worked

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