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By *peration fun OP   Man
over a year ago

brighton

ive got a hot meet arranged for friday morning..... ive not met before, she has not been sub before, and loves the idea of being out of control. we hae been speaking now for a week, so there is a lot of lust built up

so can people gie me some ideas of things to do to her, and things that have been done to them.

thanks in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear. Have you told her you're an experienced Dom?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The things you have talked about would be a start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear. Have you told her you're an experienced Dom? "

This doesn't bode well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had someone ask us for this, us to dominate them. We explained it was new to us, but we were open to the idea. This led to lots of talk and we have built up a very good friendship with this person as a result.

We still haven't met but we have a good idea how to go about it. I would think the best person to talk to would be the sub you are arranging to mee. If you have suggested that you were experienced in this, well look out! Honesty always works best in the long term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive got a hot meet arranged for friday morning..... ive not met before, she has not been sub before, and loves the idea of being out of control. we hae been speaking now for a week, so there is a lot of lust built up

so can people gie me some ideas of things to do to her, and things that have been done to them.

thanks in advance "

This could be tricky for you. It isn't about what you do to them. It is about reading them and responding to their reactions. In our experience a new sub needs an experienced Dom whereas an experienced sub is fine with a Dom who is just starting out. A new sub and a new Dom is a very tricky combination.

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