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By *he and He xx OP   Couple
over a year ago

Medway

Ive been with my partner for nearly 11 years but no matter how hard we try I can't give him anul. I love trying and makes me cum in seconds.

We've tried small to larger plugs, lots of lube, relaxing, dildos everything.

He gets half way and then I just can't get it in any further.

Please help me. Any advise would be great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bottomed out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not anul it's anel ( in joke).

All I can suggest is keep at it. Lube up and use fingers to relax his anal sphincter.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Ive been with my partner for nearly 11 years but no matter how hard we try I can't give him anul. I love trying and makes me cum in seconds.

We've tried small to larger plugs, lots of lube, relaxing, dildos everything.

He gets half way and then I just can't get it in any further.

Please help me. Any advise would be great. "

You need patience!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been with my partner for nearly 11 years but no matter how hard we try I can't give him anul. I love trying and makes me cum in seconds.

We've tried small to larger plugs, lots of lube, relaxing, dildos everything.

He gets half way and then I just can't get it in any further.

Please help me. Any advise would be great.

You need patience! "

No you need plenty of lube..and to be relaxed about it all....above all you need to be spotlessly clean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is spelt anal, but yeah you need to practise everyday, fingering is a good start to stretch the hole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He needs to push against the plug or whatever, like he is trying to poop. sounds odd, but it definitely helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poppers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Poppers!"

I wouldn't recommend these if you haven't had them before. He'd be better off having a couple of glasses of wine or a beer to relax his muscles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He needs to push against the plug or whatever, like he is trying to poop. sounds odd, but it definitely helps."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He needs to push against the plug or whatever, like he is trying to poop. sounds odd, but it definitely helps."

Not sure if it's him trying to get into her?....OP???

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By *xpanding our horizonsCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia


"He needs to push against the plug or whatever, like he is trying to poop. sounds odd, but it definitely helps.

Not sure if it's him trying to get into her?....OP???"

Same principle though right? Although my bf insists its more natural for a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He needs to push against the plug or whatever, like he is trying to poop. sounds odd, but it definitely helps.

Not sure if it's him trying to get into her?....OP???"

Yep, I misread the OP, but whomever is receiving has to push like they are trying to poop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohh I read it wrong too

Get him to lick your hole and finger it with lube. Practice gripping his fingers and relaxing. Couple of glasses of wine will relax you too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try and experienced anal giver to join u both and demonstrate x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's because it's designed for pooing out of. Like i cant hear very well with my mouth..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's because it's designed for pooing out of. Like i cant hear very well with my mouth.."

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By *he and He xx OP   Couple
over a year ago

Medway

Sorry for the typing error and thanks to those that felt the need to private message me to correct it

I'm the girl of the couple and have tried all of the above. It's so frustrating. I love j using his fingers and when he's half in. But would love it all the way.

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees


"It's because it's designed for pooing out of. Like i cant hear very well with my mouth.."

Over the years I have listened to quite a number of people who appear to be able to poo out of their mouth...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's because it's designed for pooing out of. Like i cant hear very well with my mouth..

Over the years I have listened to quite a number of people who appear to be able to poo out of their mouth..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am the same. Tried for years and can't get right in. The pain his horrendous and even if I take the pain it just won't go in. I want it so bad, I feel relaxed and horny, I'll have toys up and be licked and lubed but more than half way and it won't go any further

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By *uthTVDerbysTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

That guy Anul - what an arse of a bloke. Having said that we can analyse about the subject forever more. And even then 50% of Analysis is Anal anyway. Sorted.

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By *he and He xx OP   Couple
over a year ago

Medway


"I am the same. Tried for years and can't get right in. The pain his horrendous and even if I take the pain it just won't go in. I want it so bad, I feel relaxed and horny, I'll have toys up and be licked and lubed but more than half way and it won't go any further "

It's so frustrating isn't it!! I've tried all of these suggestions but nothing

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By *xpanding our horizonsCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

I couldn't do it with my ex. Always tried doggy and it was too painful.

My bf now did it in the missionary position rather than doggy the first time and it was easy. He's bigger than my ex. Now I can take it however and as long as I'm warmed up it doesn't hurt anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am the same. Tried for years and can't get right in. The pain his horrendous and even if I take the pain it just won't go in. I want it so bad, I feel relaxed and horny, I'll have toys up and be licked and lubed but more than half way and it won't go any further

It's so frustrating isn't it!! I've tried all of these suggestions but nothing "

I usually end up crying like a total girl, which turns him on to force it up and still won't go in but does hurt him too

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By *he and He xx OP   Couple
over a year ago

Medway

He's really good and really patient. Knows how far he can go. But I just wish I could let him in for pleasure for him.

Missionary??? Tbh if never tried that position. Will give it a go tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe your colon is short and the pain is your partner's cock trying to push through the second sphincter muscle into your large intestine?

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By *he and He xx OP   Couple
over a year ago

Medway


"Maybe your colon is short and the pain is your partner's cock trying to push through the second sphincter muscle into your large intestine?"

I can get a skinnier long dildo all the way in??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe your colon is short and the pain is your partner's cock trying to push through the second sphincter muscle into your large intestine?

I can get a skinnier long dildo all the way in??"

Maybe it passes through the second sphincter muscle ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps your anatomy is trying to tell you something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's because it's designed for pooing out of. Like i cant hear very well with my mouth.."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

poppers will solve this problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"poppers will solve this problem"
in suppository form?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that might burn but would make for arousing farts

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By *uthTVDerbysTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"He's really good and really patient. Knows how far he can go. But I just wish I could let him in for pleasure for him.

Missionary??? Tbh if never tried that position. Will give it a go tonight"

I love it!

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By *ushandkittyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Have you tried tapping the plug in with a wooden mallet?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"poppers will solve this problem"

....poopers?

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By *he and He xx OP   Couple
over a year ago

Medway

I appriciate the genuine people that have actually tried to help.

But my god why am I getting abbusive inbox messages! I thought this forum was for support and advise??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I appriciate the genuine people that have actually tried to help.

But my god why am I getting abbusive inbox messages! I thought this forum was for support and advise??"

Report and block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a straight passage it has bends and kinks.

Take your time, try moving the toy back out a little and adjust the angle.

Lots and lots of lube and patience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"poppers will solve this problem

....poopers?"

Plenty of fibre if taking that route

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By *xpanding our horizonsCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia


"He's really good and really patient. Knows how far he can go. But I just wish I could let him in for pleasure for him.

Missionary??? Tbh if never tried that position. Will give it a go tonight"

Please report back x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

try poppers

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"Poppers!"

Here here!

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

Increased size and length. You said a skinny long dildo goes in - try the next girth up. Keep going past the size your partner actually is, then sex is easier.

Someone else mentioned pushing - I tried that for the first time this month, sounds counter-productive but it loosens your sphincter and contracts the passage, much easier.

I find a little bit of anal douching relaxes and rinses out too - sometimes it hurts because you have poo in you, if you get rid of it it hurts less.

Be in control of yourself too, get to know your own butt, work toys in yourself - anal can be really intimidating, but if you're completely in control, you can stop and start at your own pace then introduce him.

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