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Grumble moan..sorry just having a moan.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry have a moan...just very tried of getting set backs

While looking for couples and single woman, I got for a certain age range. So click on them, and read their profile and than find out they are younger then stated..why do ppl lie about ages.

Also I know people don't smoke but as a smoker I will not smoke around non smokers..or smoke 1 HR before meeting. .we smoker won't spark up as soon as the deed is done...pls non smokers give us smokers a chance.its called respecting you.

Places on peoples profile, finding out that people say they live in a place and than they don't....grrrrrr.

We as a couple we can not accommodate but we can travel, we are a normal sized middle aged couple..not fit..or gym goings...so why are people looking for fit gym going people...there is a lot of judgemental on here..

Sorry whining over..

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

Wow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or.. Preferences...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With regards to smokers, I'm a smoker and if people don't want to meet me because of that then that is their preference, they don't have to give you a chance, it's their right to say no and I won't winge about that.

If you see a profile which doesn't fit your criteria or you don't for theirs just ignore and block them, then they won't show up in future searches you make on the site.

Everyone is entitled to use this site as they wish, as the smoker bit above shows, and we should all respect people's preferences, even if we don't like them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I've never had any of that.

I've obviously been lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Entitlement is never an attractive trait. And judgement works nothing ways.

Some people don't want to meet average smokers who can't accommodate. It's their preference, and ridiculous to suggest they are being judgmental

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Entitlement is never an attractive trait. And judgement works nothing ways.

Some people don't want to meet average smokers who can't accommodate. It's their preference, and ridiculous to suggest they are being judgmental "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a smoker who enjoys to smoke but absolutely detests the smell of it, I understand why non smokers would not meet me. If your a regular smoker the smell is always there, in your hair, teeth, your skin, it doesn't matter how much you shower or brush your teeth, one cigarette and the smell is back!

I wish someone would invent a non smelly cigarette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a smoker who enjoys to smoke but absolutely detests the smell of it, I understand why non smokers would not meet me. If your a regular smoker the smell is always there, in your hair, teeth, your skin, it doesn't matter how much you shower or brush your teeth, one cigarette and the smell is back!

I wish someone would invent a non smelly cigarette "

Plus it can effect the taste of cum

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Prole lie about age and other things as they will say anything to get a fuck!

As for non smokers not respecting you as they choose to not meet smokers .... why don't you respect their choice! You won't meet single guys ... so it's ok for you to have preferences but not others?? You'd not be happy with single guys exspecting you to change your minds!

No it doesn't suit you but plenty of people who will meet smokers ! As for not smoking an hour before meet ... you can STILL tell the persons smokes!! Whining will do you no favours and not a good look .Yes everyone gets fustrated on here but what exactly are you exspecting in a week of being on here? Are your expectations actually realistic? Anything worth while takes time ,effort and patience. At present this seems lacking and is going to put people off .

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Wny would you want someone to change their preferences? I smoke and its the first thing I check when someone messages me whether they meet smokers or not in case they've missed it.

Maybe all the young fitties should change their preference to seeking average 50 year old women.

Concentrate on those whose criteria you do fit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do respect none smokers...

And I can understand why they don't meet none smokers..

I know people have choices n each to there own.

It's a choice and a lifestyle we are all in...I respect choices

But I was just having a moan...

Can't people have a moan now lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sometimes people sign up with a fake age so that they can't be found by people they know, or by accident, or to get round filters.

as for giving people a chance, there are no pity fucks given on this site (that i know of).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You want a charity fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry have a moan...just very tried of getting set backs

While looking for couples and single woman, I got for a certain age range. So click on them, and read their profile and than find out they are younger then stated..why do ppl lie about ages.

Also I know people don't smoke but as a smoker I will not smoke around non smokers..or smoke 1 HR before meeting. .we smoker won't spark up as soon as the deed is done...pls non smokers give us smokers a chance.its called respecting you.

Places on peoples profile, finding out that people say they live in a place and than they don't....grrrrrr.

We as a couple we can not accommodate but we can travel, we are a normal sized middle aged couple..not fit..or gym goings...so why are people looking for fit gym going people...there is a lot of judgemental on here..

Sorry whining over..

"

You simply don't meet their preferences. I don't smoke but don't mind smokers. Is there a filter to stop smokers from contacting non smoking preference?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a smoker who enjoys to smoke but absolutely detests the smell of it, I understand why non smokers would not meet me. If your a regular smoker the smell is always there, in your hair, teeth, your skin, it doesn't matter how much you shower or brush your teeth, one cigarette and the smell is back!

I wish someone would invent a non smelly cigarette "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see this as a thread to let of steam. So no judgements or advice from me apart from have a cuppa x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well people are entitled to their own likes and dislikes. You yourself state no single males! Go on give the single males a chance.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Do you feel better now?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I do respect none smokers...

And I can understand why they don't meet none smokers..

I know people have choices n each to there own.

It's a choice and a lifestyle we are all in...I respect choices

But I was just having a moan...

Can't people have a moan now lol..

"

God yeah course they can,moan away! I wasn't really listening,but we all need a good old moan from time to time...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Still trying to get my head round people daring to look for others they'll find attractive. How very dare they??

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

When we are ready to meet, our preferences are for non smokers. Have other preferences too on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're moaning after a week of being here It won't bode well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'd rather not be intimate with someone that smells like an ashtray.

If someone spends lots of time and effort in the gym why shouldn't they prefer the same.

Get over yourself it's about people's preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it doesn't matter, it is just a fuck at the end of the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it doesn't matter, it is just a fuck at the end of the day "

You need to have patience (sorry couldn't resist)

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it doesn't matter, it is just a fuck at the end of the day

You need to have patience (sorry couldn't resist)

X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You both look great no need to worry about the gym!

Haters and liars will be everywhere just them out and concentrate on all of us normal lovely people xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it doesn't matter, it is just a fuck at the end of the day

You need to have patience (sorry couldn't resist)

X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a smoker who enjoys to smoke but absolutely detests the smell of it, I understand why non smokers would not meet me. If your a regular smoker the smell is always there, in your hair, teeth, your skin, it doesn't matter how much you shower or brush your teeth, one cigarette and the smell is back!

I wish someone would invent a non smelly cigarette "

I thought they had. Isn't it called an E cigarette ?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Sorry have a moan...just very tried of getting set backs

While looking for couples and single woman, I got for a certain age range. So click on them, and read their profile and than find out they are younger then stated..why do ppl lie about ages.

Also I know people don't smoke but as a smoker I will not smoke around non smokers..or smoke 1 HR before meeting. .we smoker won't spark up as soon as the deed is done...pls non smokers give us smokers a chance.its called respecting you.

Places on peoples profile, finding out that people say they live in a place and than they don't....grrrrrr.

We as a couple we can not accommodate but we can travel, we are a normal sized middle aged couple..not fit..or gym goings...so why are people looking for fit gym going people...there is a lot of judgemental on here..

Sorry whining over..

"

Sorry you might think that not smoking for an hour before the meet will help, it won't. You'll still smell of some smoke even if you've brushed you're teeth etc. You probably won't notice it yourself but it's true.

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Sorry have a moan...just very tried of getting set backs

While looking for couples and single woman, I got for a certain age range. So click on them, and read their profile and than find out they are younger then stated..why do ppl lie about ages.

Also I know people don't smoke but as a smoker I will not smoke around non smokers..or smoke 1 HR before meeting. .we smoker won't spark up as soon as the deed is done...pls non smokers give us smokers a chance.its called respecting you.

Places on peoples profile, finding out that people say they live in a place and than they don't....grrrrrr.

We as a couple we can not accommodate but we can travel, we are a normal sized middle aged couple..not fit..or gym goings...so why are people looking for fit gym going people...there is a lot of judgemental on here..

Sorry whining over..

Sorry you might think that not smoking for an hour before the meet will help, it won't. You'll still smell of some smoke even if you've brushed you're teeth etc. You probably won't notice it yourself but it's true. "

We do not meet smokers at all, even if the don,t smoke before the meet the smell lingers on their, hair, clothes breath and generally smell awful, it is people's choice and moaning about it after only been on here for a week isn,t doing you any favours.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Sorry have a moan...just very tried of getting set backs

While looking for couples and single woman, I got for a certain age range. So click on them, and read their profile and than find out they are younger then stated..why do ppl lie about ages.

Also I know people don't smoke but as a smoker I will not smoke around non smokers..or smoke 1 HR before meeting. .we smoker won't spark up as soon as the deed is done...pls non smokers give us smokers a chance.its called respecting you.

Places on peoples profile, finding out that people say they live in a place and than they don't....grrrrrr.

We as a couple we can not accommodate but we can travel, we are a normal sized middle aged couple..not fit..or gym goings...so why are people looking for fit gym going people...there is a lot of judgemental on here..

Sorry whining over..

"

In days of old, when men were bold,

and women weren't invented.

Men drilled holes in telegraph poles,

...and had to be contented!

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

All my dreams just gone up in smoke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hadn't had a cig for almost 24 hrs, went out to put the bins out and i could smell car fumes. Never smelt that for a long time, only tend to smell it in really built up areas where there's a lot of traffic.

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"As a smoker who enjoys to smoke but absolutely detests the smell of it, I understand why non smokers would not meet me. If your a regular smoker the smell is always there, in your hair, teeth, your skin, it doesn't matter how much you shower or brush your teeth, one cigarette and the smell is back!

I wish someone would invent a non smelly cigarette

I thought they had. Isn't it called an E cigarette ?

"

They still smell awful

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By *rs TootyWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Just as you say you go for a certain age that's your choice.

I won't meet smokers as it smells, it clings to your clothes, hair.. Lingers on your fingers.

Just because it's a swingers site doesn't mean you're guaranteed sex. It's about meeting people who you are compatible with.

I wouldn't meet someone purely because I fit their 'criteria'

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's good to have moan sometimes, take a look at the other forums they're full of people complaining .

Hope you feel better for getting that off your chest and get some positive responses. You both look great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a smoker who enjoys to smoke but absolutely detests the smell of it, I understand why non smokers would not meet me. If your a regular smoker the smell is always there, in your hair, teeth, your skin, it doesn't matter how much you shower or brush your teeth, one cigarette and the smell is back!

I wish someone would invent a non smelly cigarette

I thought they had. Isn't it called an E cigarette ?

They still smell awful "

Hubby says mine doesn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry have a moan...just very tried of getting set backs

While looking for couples and single woman, I got for a certain age range. So click on them, and read their profile and than find out they are younger then stated..why do ppl lie about ages.

Also I know people don't smoke but as a smoker I will not smoke around non smokers..or smoke 1 HR before meeting. .we smoker won't spark up as soon as the deed is done...pls non smokers give us smokers a chance.its called respecting you.

Places on peoples profile, finding out that people say they live in a place and than they don't....grrrrrr.

We as a couple we can not accommodate but we can travel, we are a normal sized middle aged couple..not fit..or gym goings...so why are people looking for fit gym going people...there is a lot of judgemental on here..

Sorry whining over..

"

We don't smoke but will meet smokers so long as they smoke outside if meeting at ours. If at their own place they are welcome to smoke but we've found most very respectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There there there.

Is that better.

Sometime we feel like that too but it's probs best not too Cheer up. more than half way through january

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg where to start!!.

Into from your profile, you won't meet single guys, you are not looking for TV CD etc.

I think you should be as generous as you are asking people who don't want to meet smoker to be. So can you please change your profile so that you welcome single guys, TV CD and so on. After all you say it's unfair and people should give others a chance. Because I've seen so many single guys struggling for more than the week you been on here trying to get a meet.

I'll keep my eye on your profile to see when you get all these verifys from the groups of people you have preferences against.

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