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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So it's been a long time since ive actually fancied a guy and longer still since I've met a guy (not ts).

And tbh i dont really have any attraction to men any more.

So do you folks think its a case of if you've been with a guy in the past you should forever be down as bi or can you go back to straight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So it's been a long time since ive actually fancied a guy and longer still since I've met a guy (not ts).

And tbh i dont really have any attraction to men any more.

So do you folks think its a case of if you've been with a guy in the past you should forever be down as bi or can you go back to straight?"

You can be what you want to be as long as you don't hurt anyone! Maybe you will want a change in the future. Hate labels! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should describe yourself as whatever you feel you are at that point. I call myself straight because I've never been attracted to a man, but if the right man came along I'm open to the idea. If it happens, I'll change to bi-curious or bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you've been with a guy and have the "potential" to go with a guy if you do fancy him then you are bi; but what does it matter dont label yourself

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Still not made up your mind, OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only you can know how you feel comfortable being described.

I will say that if I were with a guy who said he was straight, but he then told me he had been with men sexually in the past, I would be a bit surprised. Just because it seems incongruous. But it really makes no difference to me, personally. You being bi now, or formerly, wouldn't change my desire to meet or not meet you. I suppose it might make a difference to people who care about that stuff, though.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my eyes my partner is 100% straight he does not fancy guys in the slightest but will happily play with guys because I like to watch it and it turns me on.

he is down as bi on profile due to other peoples views on the TITLE. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once a raving hat rack always a hat rack

You're welcome

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

I too hadnt had a decent meet with a guy in a while till a just over a week ago and it fired my bi side up again xx I dont think i can ever think myself as straight again even if im more for women from a relationship point of view xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just change it to reflect what you're looking for now. Past and future are irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just change it to reflect what you're looking for now. Past and future are irrelevant. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Still not made up your mind, OP?"

No I'm an indecisive cunt tbh

Im possibly the worst person to ever go to a restaurant with as i will change my mind about 50 times.

I keep flipping between wanting a relationship and wanting to be single all the time too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just change it to reflect what you're looking for now. Past and future are irrelevant. "
not sure if I agree with that. Lets look at the hundreds of single guy bashing threads when a tv/ts veri is unearthed. I'm much the same as you OP, not had a meet with a guy in years but I keep it up as I never say never. Does it cost me meets? Probably. Is it who I am? Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just change it to reflect what you're looking for now. Past and future are irrelevant. not sure if I agree with that. Lets look at the hundreds of single guy bashing threads when a tv/ts veri is unearthed. I'm much the same as you OP, not had a meet with a guy in years but I keep it up as I never say never. Does it cost me meets? Probably. Is it who I am? Yes "

Im not too fussed about it costing me meets.

I suppose its just curious to see what other peoples views are on the matter.

Ive never been "confused" about my sexuality never had the "omg am i gay or do i like women" issues. Ive always just gone "oo i like them" and mever really worried or been concerned about it.

But it always seems such a big issue for others that untill fab adds the option for "awesomeosexual"i dont really know what to put there.

And suppose i just want to see what other peoples views on the matter are.

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"So it's been a long time since ive actually fancied a guy and longer still since I've met a guy (not ts).

And tbh i dont really have any attraction to men any more.

So do you folks think its a case of if you've been with a guy in the past you should forever be down as bi or can you go back to straight?"

Be whoever you want to be but yes I think you can. Most people start there life's out straight then announce there bi or gay so why can't you not go back to being straight. Xxxxx

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By *eamanguyMan
over a year ago

Altinkum-Turkey

You should describe yourself as whatever you feel you are at that point. I call myself bi

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Remember: being bisexual isn't just for Christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your sexuality should reflect what you want and how you're currently feeling. My definition of a 100% straight guy is someone who is only attracted to females. If a guy was attracted to Transexuals or anyone that has a penis no matter how feminine they look then I'd consider them bi sexual. But I'm a blunt horrible harsh cunt and my views are way different to your average woman.

I just think your willy has been inside a fantastic feeling fanny and it's made you think differently!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what ever you want, except don't put straight and then message guys saying know it says straight on my profile but I'm actually bi.

Not that I am suggesting you would but it is amazing the number of straight guys who say that to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Labels surely aren't permenant are they you be what you are at the moment . People go from married , separated to deviorced , single to in a relationship is it really that different x be who you want to be now and enjoy xxxxx

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"Just change it to reflect what you're looking for now. Past and future are irrelevant. not sure if I agree with that. Lets look at the hundreds of single guy bashing threads when a tv/ts veri is unearthed. I'm much the same as you OP, not had a meet with a guy in years but I keep it up as I never say never. Does it cost me meets? Probably. Is it who I am? Yes

Im not too fussed about it costing me meets.

I suppose its just curious to see what other peoples views are on the matter.

Ive never been "confused" about my sexuality never had the "omg am i gay or do i like women" issues. Ive always just gone "oo i like them" and mever really worried or been concerned about it.

But it always seems such a big issue for others that untill fab adds the option for "awesomeosexual"i dont really know what to put there.

And suppose i just want to see what other peoples views on the matter are.

"

Paging Wasp_Hunter! She's usually good with sort of stuff but yeah, labels are the devil.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are what you are....when you are! Just go for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still not made up your mind, OP?

No I'm an indecisive cunt tbh

Im possibly the worst person to ever go to a restaurant with as i will change my mind about 50 times.

I keep flipping between wanting a relationship and wanting to be single all the time too."

in the words of parents - its a phase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got bi on my profile because a couple I mailed off here told me that I couldn't be straight because my cock had been sucked by a guy in a dark room at a club without me realising it was a guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Bi for life?'

Nah just for Xmas!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Go back to being straight. Why worry? Another guy on here was bi and then went straight. I've thought of it myself at times but I always give in to temptation.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I've got bi on my profile because a couple I mailed off here told me that I couldn't be straight because my cock had been sucked by a guy in a dark room at a club without me realising it was a guy"

You should have told the it was their nan with a moustache.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being bi is pretty trendy these days and this is a swinging site !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got bi on my profile because a couple I mailed off here told me that I couldn't be straight because my cock had been sucked by a guy in a dark room at a club without me realising it was a guy

You should have told the it was their nan with a moustache. "

Never thought of that mate

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By *olfcartweaselCouple
over a year ago

Melrose

The point of the settings on your profile is so you match with the right people.

Do you want to meet people who are interested in your bi-ness?

If not, put straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*to be read in a cockney accent..

I know this...i ain't no fakin bi, but i sure as shit ain't no farkin straight neither!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I've got bi on my profile because a couple I mailed off here told me that I couldn't be straight because my cock had been sucked by a guy in a dark room at a club without me realising it was a guy"

You changed your sexuality on your profile because a couple of total strangers told you to?!

They don't know you! How can they decide your sexuality better than you can?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"So it's been a long time since ive actually fancied a guy and longer still since I've met a guy (not ts).

And tbh i dont really have any attraction to men any more.

So do you folks think its a case of if you've been with a guy in the past you should forever be down as bi or can you go back to straight?"

If you can decide you're bi, you can decide you're straight.

Sexuality is fluid and evolving.

Describe yourself however feels right at the time.

I'm considering changing my profile to straight because I've not been interested in playing with a woman for ages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got bi on my profile because a couple I mailed off here told me that I couldn't be straight because my cock had been sucked by a guy in a dark room at a club without me realising it was a guy

You changed your sexuality on your profile because a couple of total strangers told you to?!

They don't know you! How can they decide your sexuality better than you can?

"

To be honest I'm more orally bi now but I've no interest in having sex with a guy but enjoy having my cock sucked either by a male or female but this being fab you get tared with the bi tag so you cant be straight

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I've got bi on my profile because a couple I mailed off here told me that I couldn't be straight because my cock had been sucked by a guy in a dark room at a club without me realising it was a guy

You changed your sexuality on your profile because a couple of total strangers told you to?!

They don't know you! How can they decide your sexuality better than you can?

To be honest I'm more orally bi now but I've no interest in having sex with a guy but enjoy having my cock sucked either by a male or female but this being fab you get tared with the bi tag so you cant be straight "

If you consider yourself mostly straight but orally bi, say straight if that's what you want to do, and explain, or don't, the orally bi bit in your profile.

It's not up to anybody else to tell you your sexuality.

Stuff 'em. Your profile, up to you.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Bloody cheek anyone telling someone else what their profile should say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bloody cheek anyone telling someone else what their profile should say."

haha was that an in head thought that came out via the keyboard xxx

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Bloody cheek anyone telling someone else what their profile should say.

haha was that an in head thought that came out via the keyboard xxx"

I tend to say what I'm thinking

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By *eamanguyMan
over a year ago

Altinkum-Turkey


"Bloody cheek anyone telling someone else what their profile should say.

haha was that an in head thought that came out via the keyboard xxx

I tend to say what I'm thinking "

A real fantasy of mine is to have fun with a bi couple. 3 bodies sharing each other in every way possible.

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne


"So it's been a long time since ive actually fancied a guy and longer still since I've met a guy (not ts).

And tbh i dont really have any attraction to men any more.

So do you folks think its a case of if you've been with a guy in the past you should forever be down as bi or can you go back to straight?"

Can't say about guys but I've listed my self as bisexual. I fuck men close to 99% of the times. But every now and then I love having a girl in my bed for sex.

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