FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have to be honest I struggle on here meeting anyone. On dating sites or the real world, I do seem to have better success, but these ladies are looking for relationships. I am lucky though to have two lovely ladies I see. My question is, why is this so. Why do most people ignore singe guys, is this because their fake, op just shy

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I don't think it's that single guys are ignored, I think there are just so many of you that you need to make a special effort to stand out from the crowd.

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By *est Wales WifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Carmarthen

You'll find plenty of threads on this but a user name with the word 'bogus' in it, a three sentence profile and no photo is not helping you stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On most dating sites people have pictures of themselves to see if there is an attraction to message. That is no different on here either, even though it's to do with nsa sex and not relationships. Although many pictures happen to be different or bodies etc rather than face pics lol.

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By *ale Tuesday pg3 stunnerWoman
over a year ago

Chippenham

"I have to be honest I struggle on here meeting anyone. On dating sites or the real world, I do seem to have better success, but these ladies are looking for relationships. I am lucky though to have two lovely ladies I see. My question is, why is this so. Why do most people ignore singe guys, is this because their fake, op just shy"

Usually because many guys send dumfuck messages on here thinking they don't have to put any effort in to get your interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they aren't looking for single guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

well this has got some response including a nice email from a lady, who was very forthright with her comments. I have tried Hi, or fancy a shag lol, right up to war and peace, well almost. If I have a lady in tow, it all changes surprisingly, but there you go. For those who may be interested Iam single, and still have own hair and teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well this has got some response including a nice email from a lady, who was very forthright with her comments. I have tried Hi, or fancy a shag lol, right up to war and peace, well almost. If I have a lady in tow, it all changes surprisingly, but there you go. For those who may be interested Iam single, and still have own hair and teeth"

Men on here are as common place as smith is in the phone directory, you need to have something for people to like, as others have said your username doesn't sound great and the lack of any sort of photo doesn't help much either. That being said my partner and I have very little luck as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a girl I can pick and choose so unless a guy really stands out as special I doubt I'll notice him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many don't have the same time that single guys have either. They may sound confident in the forums but in reality many lack the confidence too for various reasons.....Seems to be alot of 'standing up ' if forums are to go by but then there's only about 1% that use the forums...the others are too busy or wise so maybe not as frequently as suggested.

They have a bigger choice, have to sift through all the fakes who are not single and have to read 500 messages a day. So....be patient....know what you want...explain it clearly in ur profile and drop the line in, occasionally checking if the bait needs changed. Sometime you need to move to another place where they're biting.

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