FabSwingers.com forum: Gangbang meet but it will cost you

By *obert Richards OP Man
over a year ago

Surrey

So many profiles say the want gangbangs but then try to charge for you to attend. Basically they are selling sex and shouldn't be on a swingers site.

Anybody else find that they get invited to gangbangs and then asked to cough up £50 ?

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

I think a charge to cover the hotel room and some food or drinks is fair enough to be honest. As long as it is reasonable.

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By *olfcartweaselCouple
over a year ago

Melrose

"I think a charge to cover the hotel room and some food or drinks is fair enough to be honest. As long as it is reasonable. "

There's a reasonable level of transparency to expect when being charged a cover fee for a private event.

I mean, a hotel room can easily be well under a hundred quid for a plenty big enough room near a major commuter link. 12 bottles of water is a few quid. If it's an honest cover charge to cover genuine expenses, then the detailed breakdown should be made available. If profit is being made, I agree with the original poster.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

I've not message anyone regarding attending GBs but I think it would depend on what the cash was for. Some couples and women (doing one to fulfil a fantasy) may ask for a contribution to cover the cost of a rented apartment or hotel room. I can't see many wanting to host something like this on their own home and maybe Is a bit too personal to do at a club.

Obviously there are people on this site who do gangbangs as a money making exercise (usually with paid "hosts"). Although debate able whether this should be allowed on a swingers site it is solely up to the individual (Ie the OP) as to whether they are willing to attend. Free country, free choices.

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would rather pay entry to a club. Than pay entry to a gangbang

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

"I think a charge to cover the hotel room and some food or drinks is fair enough to be honest. As long as it is reasonable.

There's a reasonable level of transparency to expect when being charged a cover fee for a private event.

Yes quite right.

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By *olfcartweaselCouple
over a year ago

Melrose

I mean, fifty quid a head is a LOT.

There's a fully equipped dungeon in High Wycombe which you can rent for 4 hours for 100 quid. You can order enough delivered pizza to feed an army for another fifty quid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There does seem to be a lot of this happening. Its been covered several times in the forums, so check out other posts.

Some people are for it, others against it.

Personally if a charge is made I choose to avoid. You can do the same. Or go.

I have been to a few gb's and no charge was asked for.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

"I mean, fifty quid a head is a LOT.

There's a fully equipped dungeon in High Wycombe which you can rent for 4 hours for 100 quid. You can order enough delivered pizza to feed an army for another fifty quid."

Just had a look....looks like a great overnight stay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many profiles say the want gangbangs but then try to charge for you to attend. Basically they are selling sex and shouldn't be on a swingers site.

Anybody else find that they get invited to gangbangs and then asked to cough up £50 ?

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Asking for money for sex is prostitution pure and simple or indeed pimping (if they know there will be more paid in that just hotel expenses) admin should keep and eye on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to know of a club that done gb's they did charge £30 per guy, at the time I suppose it sounded a good deal but I can see a sordid level of it too.

I think if it's at a club with paid hosts and it's not exactly advertised directly then fine if it's someone on here charging £50+ than that's prostitution.

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By *ylonSlutTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

don't agree with charging to make money. I did one 30 guys invited 5 turned up. It's difficult to set a price to cover the hotel room. We did charge the men but it certainly didn't cover the cost of the hotel room.

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By *ohn8210tCouple
over a year ago

Warwick

We went to a Hotel meet last night. We always split the cost of the room. Last night only 5 people went,so it was £10.00 each. Another time it was only £ 5.00 due to cheaper room and 8 people .

We think this is perfectly ok.

We would always offer a contribution.

Just our thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many profiles say the want gangbangs but then try to charge for you to attend. Basically they are selling sex and shouldn't be on a swingers site.

Anybody else find that they get invited to gangbangs and then asked to cough up £50 ?

Asking for money for sex is prostitution pure and simple or indeed pimping (if they know there will be more paid in that just hotel expenses) admin should keep and eye on it"

Report them. If it's against site rules admin will sort it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money for sex = hookers

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By *hloeTheTVCumSlutTV/TS
over a year ago

essex/london

You have to factor in cost of location, do they provide alcohol and refreshments, condos, security, venue costs etc and costs of cleaners. I guess if you don't like it you don't go lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many profiles say the want gangbangs but then try to charge for you to attend. Basically they are selling sex and shouldn't be on a swingers site.

Anybody else find that they get invited to gangbangs and then asked to cough up £50 ?

So do swinges clubs

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"So many profiles say the want gangbangs but then try to charge for you to attend. Basically they are selling sex and shouldn't be on a swingers site.

Anybody else find that they get invited to gangbangs and then asked to cough up £50 ?

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It would not bother me as no one is compelled to pay the fee. I prefer to concentrate on my own profile and not worry about how others use the site ..

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By *andm288Couple
over a year ago

oxford

If the cost is purely to cover expenses room drinks etc then seems fair to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've not message anyone regarding attending GBs but I think it would depend on what the cash was for. Some couples and women (doing one to fulfil a fantasy) may ask for a contribution to cover the cost of a rented apartment or hotel room. I can't see many wanting to host something like this on their own home and maybe Is a bit too personal to do at a club.

And feel free to report if it offends you....it is against site rules!

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By *othcpluk1Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Would rather pay entry to a club. Than pay entry to a gangbang

so if we invited you to one you would not help cover the cost of hotel room ??

that's you off our list

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By *obert Richards OP Man
over a year ago

Surrey

I've decided not to go. Would love to and don't mind splitting costs but some profiles on here are prostitutes and not swingers xx

Thank you all for the advice xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a huge difference between helping cover the costs and charging, eg how much is the hotel? How much food and drink are you going to supply? 200 condoms on Amazon are quite cheap. If 10 guys turned up paying £50 each that would more than cover that cost.

Agreed that 10 guys might not happen it could be a lot less, but I know from my own experience that the charge of £50 put me off of attending. Is it possible that by reducing the contribution might make more men turn up.

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By *ale Tuesday pg3 stunnerWoman
over a year ago

Chippenham

Anyone paying that sort of money wants their bumps felt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone paying that sort of money wants their bumps felt. "

that's the idea hahahaha

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Let's face it men often get shafted on fab...not literally though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think they'd have to pay me to turn up let alone anything else

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By *cd and scruffCouple
over a year ago

Rochester

We had a gangbang organised for us and found out half way through that the guys were being charged to attend. We left quick but don't don't always blame the couples involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy money. Men will pay to go thinking they get a guaranteed fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not charge to cover expenses? We women have been charging for sex in one form or another forever lol.

Whether it's a wedding ring, an expensive dress etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really people charge? I'm doing this wrong then..

but seriously I love gangbangs and it wouldn't enter my head to ask anyone for money. We do play at home though..

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By *iss-PinkWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

I've done this and charged guys £10 towards room costs, drinks and condoms - I thought that was perfectly acceptable, tbh. Was up front about it, so they had the choice beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few invites to these type of events, I went to one gang bang and found out from a guy there that he had paid to attend so I asked about and all the guys had paid which I felt was a bit of a check and left

Now if I'm invited to such events I always ask before hand if they charge the guys a fee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean, fifty quid a head is a LOT.

There's a fully equipped dungeon in High Wycombe which you can rent for 4 hours for 100 quid. You can order enough delivered pizza to feed an army for another fifty quid."

That sounds like fun?!

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

"There's a huge difference between helping cover the costs and charging, eg how much is the hotel? How much food and drink are you going to supply? 200 condoms on Amazon are quite cheap. If 10 guys turned up paying £50 each that would more than cover that cost.

You would think so logically, but then you hear all the stories of people trying to organise one for free in their own home and still no guys turn up

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By *olfcartweaselCouple
over a year ago

Melrose

"I mean, fifty quid a head is a LOT.

There's a fully equipped dungeon in High Wycombe which you can rent for 4 hours for 100 quid. You can order enough delivered pizza to feed an army for another fifty quid.

That sounds like fun?! "

Wanna split the cost?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it men pay but women get in free in them gangbangs? lol.

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

Sorry - just so wrong in my book.

If I have a couple round, I don't ask them to pay towards the mortgage. I'm sorry, if you want a gb why is that different to wanting any other kind of meet?

When I have vanilla friends over, I provide the food, the drink...hell if I really like them I'll even put the heating on. As son as you charge or pay, a line has been crossed. You've become a commercial operation and that my dears is opening up a legal can of worms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys always get asked to pay. Whether for gangbang, or the hotel on a 1on1 or 3sum meet. Everyone expects the single guys to pay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sharing costs is one thing. But paying for all or more is another.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd maybe contribute some but not a huge amount to share hotel costs for example.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Guys always get asked to pay. Whether for gangbang, or the hotel on a 1on1 or 3sum meet. Everyone expects the single guys to pay."

No, everyone does NOT expect single men to pay. Some yes, but certainly not all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets be honest and open about this, there are a number of prostitutes who operate via this site and regularly run what they call gangbangs. You can find them any day of the week in the meetings section by filtering for your area and females only. Inevitably there will be a female gang banger on there who uses her own venue or "only meets in clubs"..i.e she has a business arrangement with the club so they both earn from it.

Its blatantly obvious prostitution because the very same females are there almost day in,day out,week i ,week out..are we really to believe that a female enjoys being gangbanged 5 days a week and has nothing better to do like work/family?

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By *ookworm258Man
over a year ago

Wythenshawe

Been to a few gb's and was not asked to pay but was requested to bring a bottle for the lady. Her preferred wine cost a fiver. I thought that was more than fair

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I am hoping to have a gangbang at home, no charge but bring some water you will need it....lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys always get asked to pay. Whether for gangbang, or the hotel on a 1on1 or 3sum meet. Everyone expects the single guys to pay."

Really everyone??

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Fucking double faced answers all round (save a mere handful). Guys giving diplomatic answers for fear of invitations drying up.

Answers ranging from "if you dont like ut dont go" to "i help to cover costs,etc"

Do you find £50 too much for a gangbang? Yes / No sounds like an answer, then you can add your spin.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

Swinging clubs and parties regularly rip guys off with over the top fee's compared to what couples pay and it exactly the same in this instance.

It seems everyone is charging guys a high price so why are these parties any different...

Clubs say its their overheads that create high fees for single guys even though couples get a better deal, if there is a cut off limit of what guys should pay for swinging clubs/swinging parties/bukkakes etc then Fab should state it and not allow ads over that amount.

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Let them charge all they want. Even £120 sounds good to me.

The sensible and great swingers will attend because they know what the lifestyle is about.

The mugs will stay away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fucking double faced answers all round (save a mere handful). Guys giving diplomatic answers for fear of invitations drying up.

Answers ranging from "if you dont like ut dont go" to "i help to cover costs,etc"

Do you find £50 too much for a gangbang? Yes / No sounds like an answer, then you can add your spin.

If I wanted lots of men to fuck me they wouldn't have to pay £50. I want them,why should they pay so much?

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By *ukkakecoupleukCouple
over a year ago

horsham

"So many profiles say the want gangbangs but then try to charge for you to attend. Basically they are selling sex and shouldn't be on a swingers site.

Anybody else find that they get invited to gangbangs and then asked to cough up £50 ?

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are you crazy ? we pay £200 for a five star room and ask for a contribution towards it ? that's not selling sex at all

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By *ukkakecoupleukCouple
over a year ago

horsham

"Would rather pay entry to a club. Than pay entry to a gangbang

so if we invited you to one you would not help cover the cost of hotel room ??

that's you off our list

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yes hes off our list too . bloody skinflint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many profiles say the want gangbangs but then try to charge for you to attend. Basically they are selling sex and shouldn't be on a swingers site.

Anybody else find that they get invited to gangbangs and then asked to cough up £50 ?

are you crazy ? we pay £200 for a five star room and ask for a contribution towards it ? that's not selling sex at all "

Have you ever made a profit at the end of the night?

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"Would rather pay entry to a club. Than pay entry to a gangbang

so if we invited you to one you would not help cover the cost of hotel room ??

that's you off our list

yes hes off our list too . bloody skinflint"

A purrfect illustration of my post a few posts up the thread.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

I shoot bukkakes gang bang parties myself so understand the costs e.g. hotel/venue,food,drink,model fees, extra camera man etc so charging the same as well known clubs dont seem unreasonable.

I do agree this is swinging site though and not the place to advertise such parties so i use Twitter/AW instead.

I like to keep my swinging and my film shoots seperate as one is my day job and the other my chill out.

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By *ukkakecoupleukCouple
over a year ago

horsham

"So many profiles say the want gangbangs but then try to charge for you to attend. Basically they are selling sex and shouldn't be on a swingers site.

Anybody else find that they get invited to gangbangs and then asked to cough up £50 ?

are you crazy ? we pay £200 for a five star room and ask for a contribution towards it ? that's not selling sex at all

Have you ever made a profit at the end of the night? "
last meet at xmas we were down £130

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

What is AW? I have seen it so much these days

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By *ukkakecoupleukCouple
over a year ago

horsham

also clubs are advertised on here . how dare they charge an entrance fee . they are making money selling sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many profiles say the want gangbangs but then try to charge for you to attend. Basically they are selling sex and shouldn't be on a swingers site.

Anybody else find that they get invited to gangbangs and then asked to cough up £50 ?

are you crazy ? we pay £200 for a five star room and ask for a contribution towards it ? that's not selling sex at all

Have you ever made a profit at the end of the night? last meet at xmas we were down £130"

Is that what usually happens? Do you invite friends or strangers?

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Is that Kim in your pictures? I can't wait to lay my hands on her.

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By *ukkakecoupleukCouple
over a year ago

horsham

"So many profiles say the want gangbangs but then try to charge for you to attend. Basically they are selling sex and shouldn't be on a swingers site.

Anybody else find that they get invited to gangbangs and then asked to cough up £50 ?

are you crazy ? we pay £200 for a five star room and ask for a contribution towards it ? that's not selling sex at all

Have you ever made a profit at the end of the night? last meet at xmas we were down £130

Is that what usually happens? Do you invite friends or strangers? "
only strangers . I think friends would die a fit lol

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I've just reported one now, two GB's a few hours apart on the same day, 8 guys for each, £60 "contribution towards an apartment", not a bad days work at £960!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many profiles say the want gangbangs but then try to charge for you to attend. Basically they are selling sex and shouldn't be on a swingers site.

Anybody else find that they get invited to gangbangs and then asked to cough up £50 ?

are you crazy ? we pay £200 for a five star room and ask for a contribution towards it ? that's not selling sex at all

Have you ever made a profit at the end of the night? last meet at xmas we were down £130

Is that what usually happens? Do you invite friends or strangers? only strangers . I think friends would die a fit lol"

Lol I didn't mean actual friends. I meant men you'd met before. Must be hit and miss asking strangers. I'd be gutted if no one turned up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is that Kim in your pictures? I can't wait to lay my hands on her.

No it's a man

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"Is that Kim in your pictures? I can't wait to lay my hands on her.

No it's a man

That man surely has huge boobs

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"So many profiles say the want gangbangs but then try to charge for you to attend. Basically they are selling sex and shouldn't be on a swingers site.

Anybody else find that they get invited to gangbangs and then asked to cough up £50 ?

Quite simple

You hire a suite and invite the woman and a few guys and don't charge them a penny. Problem solved

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"I've just reported one now, two GB's a few hours apart on the same day, 8 guys for each, £60 "contribution towards an apartment", not a bad days work at £960!!!

In the past the strategy was different. Advert would be put on fab. No mention of money or entry fee. Leave your number if interested. Then you get the address and gate fee sent to your phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is that Kim in your pictures? I can't wait to lay my hands on her.

No it's a man

That man surely has huge boobs

That's my boobs

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Gangbangs would not b for me much rather one on one meets r 3 sums . I think 50 it's a bit dear I think . But if meeting in a hotel I don't mind sharing costs but I think someone is making money there . I've heard of party hosts making lots of dough from parties .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just reported one now, two GB's a few hours apart on the same day, 8 guys for each, £60 "contribution towards an apartment", not a bad days work at £960!!!

In the past the strategy was different. Advert would be put on fab. No mention of money or entry fee. Leave your number if interested. Then you get the address and gate fee sent to your phone.

That's fine for men who want to pay. Unless it's in someone's home the venue has to be paid for. Any profit goes to charity of course

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By *ukkakecoupleukCouple
over a year ago

horsham

"So many profiles say the want gangbangs but then try to charge for you to attend. Basically they are selling sex and shouldn't be on a swingers site.

Anybody else find that they get invited to gangbangs and then asked to cough up £50 ?

are you crazy ? we pay £200 for a five star room and ask for a contribution towards it ? that's not selling sex at all

Have you ever made a profit at the end of the night? last meet at xmas we were down £130

Is that what usually happens? Do you invite friends or strangers? only strangers . I think friends would die a fit lol

Lol I didn't mean actual friends. I meant men you'd met before. Must be hit and miss asking strangers. I'd be gutted if no one turned up. "
most guys all talk . last year we hired a 5 bed villa with private pool for a week for me and 5 guys . they all promised the earth they were coming to Tenerife . it cost my boyfriend £2500 for the week .we asked £300 per guy for 7 days accom and fun that's £1500 we pay the other £1000 . nobody turned up so we blocked every arsehole

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I've only come across one prostitute on here but one r two looking for a sugar daddies alright . No thank u . I've met some very nice people on here but met some messers on here as we'll .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never needed to pay for sex and never would. Simple.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Ur joking that would have been we'll worth a nice weeks holiday n lots of fun too . Messers far to many on here .

I had ladies now sum were guys I found out afterwards but had one lady really messed me about n never had any intention of meeting me .

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"So many profiles say the want gangbangs but then try to charge for you to attend. Basically they are selling sex and shouldn't be on a swingers site.

Anybody else find that they get invited to gangbangs and then asked to cough up £50 ?

are you crazy ? we pay £200 for a five star room and ask for a contribution towards it ? that's not selling sex at all

Have you ever made a profit at the end of the night? last meet at xmas we were down £130

Is that what usually happens? Do you invite friends or strangers? only strangers . I think friends would die a fit lol

Lol I didn't mean actual friends. I meant men you'd met before. Must be hit and miss asking strangers. I'd be gutted if no one turned up. most guys all talk . last year we hired a 5 bed villa with private pool for a week for me and 5 guys . they all promised the earth they were coming to Tenerife . it cost my boyfriend £2500 for the week .we asked £300 per guy for 7 days accom and fun that's £1500 we pay the other £1000 . nobody turned up so we blocked every arsehole"

You blocked every arsehole?!! That a job and a half. I shudder to think of the consequences.

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By *ukkakecoupleukCouple
over a year ago

horsham

"So many profiles say the want gangbangs but then try to charge for you to attend. Basically they are selling sex and shouldn't be on a swingers site.

Anybody else find that they get invited to gangbangs and then asked to cough up £50 ?

are you crazy ? we pay £200 for a five star room and ask for a contribution towards it ? that's not selling sex at all

Have you ever made a profit at the end of the night? last meet at xmas we were down £130

Is that what usually happens? Do you invite friends or strangers? only strangers . I think friends would die a fit lol

You blocked every arsehole?!! That a job and a half. I shudder to think of the consequences.

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ok take me literally lol . ok we blocked the 5 guys .. had 4 redo a new profile then ask to meet with us .. the nerve

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

It's a bit of a bummer, promising to shoulder part of such a huge outlay and then chickening out.

I would personally not go to that extent unless I planned to make a holiday/ staycation of it. Wow! a normal holiday plus a near enough guarantee of pussy on top. I can only wish.

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By *nddyoneMan
over a year ago

bicester

i only ask the guys to share cost of room when i arrange them

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By *cd and scruffCouple
over a year ago

Rochester

We have tried many many times to organise gangbangs. We book and pay for the hotel, all the guys have to bring is condoms.

We do it for our pleasure so why should they pay?

But every time only a fraction of the guys who say they are coming turn up. We have even had one guy ring on the day to say he couldn't do oral coz he had a rash. Then get the hump coz i told him to forget it. We have had guys turn up with no condoms, ring to tell me they were bringing some mates all sorts.

But at the end of the day if you want to pay then pay, if not then don't. Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and don't see any problem in paying for a GB, if it is to share expenses, obviously is not the same a suite at Balmoral Hotel Edinburgh than a room at travelodge, if it is commented upfront no problem, I can choose if it is worthy or not, but make profit,... no way I'm paying £50 to be in a cheap hotel room with a bunch of guys and they going home with a few hundreds in the pocket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys always get asked to pay. Whether for gangbang, or the hotel on a 1on1 or 3sum meet. Everyone expects the single guys to pay.

Really everyone??

Yeah please don't label us all the same

I have had many meets and paid for the hotel

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Anybody else find that they get invited to gangbangs"

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"Guys always get asked to pay. Whether for gangbang, or the hotel on a 1on1 or 3sum meet. Everyone expects the single guys to pay.

Really everyone??

Yeah please don't label us all the same

I have had many meets and paid for the hotel "

Honest to God, you are indeed a welcome exception . The closest I have seen a woman come to paying was when she asked, " do you want me to give you half?".

Just pay it and stop being awkward. Makes life easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many profiles say the want gangbangs but then try to charge for you to attend. Basically they are selling sex and shouldn't be on a swingers site.

Anybody else find that they get invited to gangbangs and then asked to cough up £50 ?

Asking for money for sex is prostitution pure and simple or indeed pimping (if they know there will be more paid in that just hotel expenses) admin should keep and eye on it"

I thought paying for the act of sex was prostitution, not asking for money on the supposition that sex will happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys always get asked to pay. Whether for gangbang, or the hotel on a 1on1 or 3sum meet. Everyone expects the single guys to pay.

Really everyone??

Yeah please don't label us all the same

I have had many meets and paid for the hotel

Honest to God, you are indeed a welcome exception . The closest I have seen a woman come to paying was when she asked, " do you want me to give you half?".

Just pay it and stop being awkward. Makes life easier."

I used to meet a guy who was unemployed and always paid the hotel or club entry fee as he couldn't afford it

I have no problem paying for hotels it just means I can't meet as regular if I have to pay as although I'm willing to pay my way I'm not prepared to meet several times a month and pay for it all

Don't see why you have a problem with a women offering you half though??

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"Guys always get asked to pay. Whether for gangbang, or the hotel on a 1on1 or 3sum meet. Everyone expects the single guys to pay.

Really everyone??

Yeah please don't label us all the same

I have had many meets and paid for the hotel

Honest to God, you are indeed a welcome exception . The closest I have seen a woman come to paying was when she asked, " do you want me to give you half?".

Just pay it and stop being awkward. Makes life easier.

I used to meet a guy who was unemployed and always paid the hotel or club entry fee as he couldn't afford it

I have no problem paying for hotels it just means I can't meet as regular if I have to pay as although I'm willing to pay my way I'm not prepared to meet several times a month and pay for it all

Don't see why you have a problem with a women offering you half though?? "

God, you're good. Me have a problem with that! Funny.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

"Is that Kim in your pictures? I can't wait to lay my hands on her.

Yes my better half lol, AW is short for Adult Work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not about not wanting to cough up, its about wanting to know whether the person you are shagging is doing it because they're turned on by you or just working.

I guess if the girls are stunning and any man with a pulse is welcome, even without pics... then you would have to wonder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many profiles say the want gangbangs but then try to charge for you to attend. Basically they are selling sex and shouldn't be on a swingers site.

Anybody else find that they get invited to gangbangs and then asked to cough up £50 ?

are you crazy ? we pay £200 for a five star room and ask for a contribution towards it ? that's not selling sex at all

Have you ever made a profit at the end of the night? last meet at xmas we were down £130

Is that what usually happens? Do you invite friends or strangers? only strangers . I think friends would die a fit lol

I just checked and i can see 5 bed villas with private pool mostly for around £200 per night..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quote from HMRC

If the activities of a prostitute or any other person deriving income from prostitution are organised in such a way as to constitute a trade or profession (see BIM20000 onwards), the profits are liable to Income Tax. This was confirmed by CIR v Aken [1990] 63TC395.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done gang bangs and wouldn't dream of charging. The gang bang is all about me so why should the guys pay ? The only exception was when I did a couple of gang bangs in a club. I was still free

but the club charged £10 entrance to cover their costs which was fair in my view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many profiles say the want gangbangs but then try to charge for you to attend. Basically they are selling sex and shouldn't be on a swingers site.

Anybody else find that they get invited to gangbangs and then asked to cough up £50 ?

Asking for money for sex is prostitution pure and simple or indeed pimping (if they know there will be more paid in that just hotel expenses) admin should keep and eye on it

I thought paying for the act of sex was prostitution, not asking for money on the supposition that sex will happen"

If a woman wants a gang bang she isn't going to turn down the men she invited is she. And,if a man pays to go and doesn't get sex he's hardly likely to make a return visit is he. It's not like a club or event where anyone can go and you aren't guaranteed sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quote from HMRC

there also liable for vat if they go over the vat threshold but they cannot claim any back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many profiles say the want gangbangs but then try to charge for you to attend. Basically they are selling sex and shouldn't be on a swingers site.

Anybody else find that they get invited to gangbangs and then asked to cough up £50 ?

are you crazy ? we pay £200 for a five star room and ask for a contribution towards it ? that's not selling sex at all "

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

"Quote from HMRC

there also liable for vat if they go over the vat threshold but they cannot claim any back "

Same for swinging parties charging above the normal prices, any party swinging or otherwise where people pay for actual or implied sex is classed as prostitution & tax has to be paid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came across one on here that advertises gang bang parties witn women and couples free and single men £50.

its a fantastic idea, wished I thought of it... charge blokes £50, invite couples/fem for free which saves on the cost and hassel of supplying girls and while your all shagging I count the cash. easy money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing in this life is for free I don`t see any wrong by charging a fee to take part in a gb or any other event if you can`t afford to pay choose another lifestyle but the thing is many people have the money but simply don` t want to spend,like my granddad used to say: The miser, poor fool, not only starves his body but also his own soul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently setting one up with my lovely fem friend and I promise you boys....no charging here. It's all free fun

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By *taceylacyCouple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

OURS ARE FREE.

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"Quote from HMRC

there also liable for vat if they go over the vat threshold but they cannot claim any back

Same for swinging parties charging above the normal prices, any party swinging or otherwise where people pay for actual or implied sex is classed as prostitution & tax has to be paid. "

And who says they don't pay tax?

Or don't they?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely think they're a business when i see them, they are not covering costs they are making a profit. Usually featuring porn actors too. As long as they're upfront about it guess it's ok.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

Gang bangs would not b my cup of tea n if I was attending any advent I don't mind helping out but 50 squid seems a bit much to b honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

excellent! ive been looking for an accountant. i was beginning to think i was on the wrong site.

can you help with my tax returns please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe the more interesting question is, how do these girls feel about what they're doing? If i thought i was with a wild woman who fancied me (and everyone else there) i might not resent them getting money out of it. If i thought they were lying back and thinking of england, going through the motions, or worse, being exploited-that wouldn't be something id want to be involved with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically anyone on here is asking for money or advertising parties should ne banned from the site if they are benefiting directly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OURS ARE FREE."

I would,as a woman,be inclined to attend a free one. I don't want anyone earning money from my body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many profiles say the want gangbangs but then try to charge for you to attend. Basically they are selling sex and shouldn't be on a swingers site.

Anybody else find that they get invited to gangbangs and then asked to cough up £50 ?

Would be great if site rules allowed people to take a deposit Against cost incurred for a no show

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