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By *fricanMann2077 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent

How do i know if a couple wants to meet me again

And like should i leave fab cuz i had a bad meet (where i performed wayyyy below my standard)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do i know if a couple wants to meet me again

And like should i leave fab cuz i had a bad meet (where i performed wayyyy below my standard)"

No don't leave fab - everyone has a 'blip'. If they want to meet you again they will suggest it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You will know if they ask you or if you contact them and ask.

And absolutely no, you shouldn't leave fab because of your perceived bad performance. You think every guy on here gets it right first time or even seventh or eighth?

Learn and move forward .

Next time will be better.

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By *fricanMann2077 OP   Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent

Yea but i was feeling very disappointed like i was a new to sex. i have had 3 blips in 20 meets.

I am having mixed mind about them. The lady was like 'i would like us to continue again some other day' the guy was like 'erm not sure we will meet' do u think they sound like someone who would meet again.

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon


"Yea but i was feeling very disappointed like i was a new to sex. i have had 3 blips in 20 meets.

I am having mixed mind about them. The lady was like 'i would like us to continue again some other day' the guy was like 'erm not sure we will meet' do u think they sound like someone who would meet again. "

Don't worry about it, if they want to meet you again they'll contact you and if not then you just have to move on to someone else. Everyone has bad, or unsatisfying meets, it's not unusual. It's not how many times you fall down that counts, it's how many times you pick yourself back up!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yea but i was feeling very disappointed like i was a new to sex. i have had 3 blips in 20 meets.

I am having mixed mind about them. The lady was like 'i would like us to continue again some other day' the guy was like 'erm not sure we will meet' do u think they sound like someone who would meet again. "

You need to stop talking about them in public. Discussing in general is fine but they could recognise themselves from this.

You need to ask them anyway, we can't possibly tell you what they will do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't leave fab because of a bad meet.

i've had guys who i've given a 2nd chance to (no 3rd chance though), and also had guys who were great then had a blip another time but i'd be happy to meet them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea but i was feeling very disappointed like i was a new to sex. i have had 3 blips in 20 meets.

I am having mixed mind about them. The lady was like 'i would like us to continue again some other day' the guy was like 'erm not sure we will meet' do u think they sound like someone who would meet again. "

To me it sounds like they don't want to meet again, or at least he doesn't.

But why worry about what you can;t influence?

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