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By *anccpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow

We are meeting a couple tomorrow at a club. If we don't like them how best to excuse ourselves and decline?

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I would suggest being honest but polite. Simply say that there's no "spark" or chemistry and that you don't feel like playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first rule of swinging is no means no....apply it if required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never feel pressured to play - just say sorry we wont be playing and this is easier at a club we think

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By *anccpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

somewhere over the rainbow

Thanks guys. Wasn't really sure what the etiquette was

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Normally the 'code' for not interested in a club is - we are just gonna have a wander around, enjoy your evening and we might see you about later.

Translation- No thank you.

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

Malvern

Both of you point at them and say... Mingers mingers mingers. Hehe only joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Normally the 'code' for not interested in a club is - we are just gonna have a wander around, enjoy your evening and we might see you about later.

Translation- No thank you."

we have done that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start scratching your genitals and say you think the rash has come back.

Hopefully, that will put them off.

But it will probably put everyone else off too

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By *raceytvcdTV/TS
over a year ago

mansfield


"Normally the 'code' for not interested in a club is - we are just gonna have a wander around, enjoy your evening and we might see you about later.

Translation- No thank you."

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Central

I'd keep it on a friendly, warm basis, if you get along. Meeting others doesn't have to solely be about taking it to a sexual level. They may become great friends and be as happy with that than sex.

At some point it's important to let them know that you don't want any sexual contact: either side could initiate this. Wait for the right time and preferably not at the last moment of the night.

Whatever happens, good luck!

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Tell them the flame has gone out a honest no thank you is perfect

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

A freind of mine recommends a swift knee in the bollocks.

Mind you I think she is referring to different circumstances

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"We are meeting a couple tomorrow at a club. If we don't like them how best to excuse ourselves and decline? "

By just saying lovely meeting you but we dont want to take it any further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would meet in the bar area of club and just say to them 'let's be honest with each other if we don't think there is a spark'. Then you can have a drink, chat & either move on with or without them & vice versa.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Normally the 'code' for not interested in a club is - we are just gonna have a wander around, enjoy your evening and we might see you about later.

Translation- No thank you. "

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Honesty always wins in the end

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"We are meeting a couple tomorrow at a club. If we don't like them how best to excuse ourselves and decline? "

How would you like to be turned down by them? Just use whatever others say when they politely decline

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty always wins in the end "

I agree but be kind and polite

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Honesty always wins in the end "

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

For any who have met me, they will know that I always have a social on the first meet.

If nothing happens, there's no shock as it was a social anyway.

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By *r. and mis.jayCouple
over a year ago

Lancaster


"Start scratching your genitals and say you think the rash has come back.

Hopefully, that will put them off.

But it will probably put everyone else off too "
OMFG it would put any on off lol u made us lmfo to night

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