FabSwingers.com forum: People who look at profile but dont meet single guys

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Interested to hear views on this.

I have a few people who don't meet men but view my profile often. For example one couple have done so every day for a while.

If it was you? Do you assume there is an interest and approach or just ignore it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if most people are not looking for single guys they usually have filters on to stop messaging anyways.

But even if they dont no, I wouldn't approach them, I would wait to see if they approach you, but that's my personal approach to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interested to hear views on this.

I have a few people who don't meet men but view my profile often. For example one couple have done so every day for a while.

If it was you? Do you assume there is an interest and approach or just ignore it?

I'm here for the single guys as are plenty of other women. I just need them to live alone and live nearby

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Interested to hear views on this.

I have a few people who don't meet men but view my profile often. For example one couple have done so every day for a while.

If it was you? Do you assume there is an interest and approach or just ignore it?

I'm here for the single guys as are plenty of other women. I just need them to live alone and live nearby

Oh I acknowledge there is plenty of choice

but was just curious if they were actually keen to meet. Constantly viewing the profiles would suggest so, would it not?

I always have the utmost respect for peoples choices. With that said, I've learnt this week that people don't always mean what they write on their profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interested to hear views on this.

I have a few people who don't meet men but view my profile often. For example one couple have done so every day for a while.

If it was you? Do you assume there is an interest and approach or just ignore it?

I'm here for the single guys as are plenty of other women. I just need them to live alone and live nearby

Oh I acknowledge there is plenty of choice

but was just curious if they were actually keen to meet. Constantly viewing the profiles would suggest so, would it not?

I always have the utmost respect for peoples choices. With that said, I've learnt this week that people don't always mean what they write on their profiles "

If they were interested then surely they'd message you? I wouldn't worry about it.

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Maybe they are looking in response to forum posts? If they were interested surely they'd message you when they'd looked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This happens to me too, and it's just someone looking. I can't remember everyone I look at, so probably look at the same people on a regular basis.

If you think there is something in their profile that sounds like a match, I always send a wink and leave it at that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interested to hear views on this.

I have a few people who don't meet men but view my profile often. For example one couple have done so every day for a while.

If it was you? Do you assume there is an interest and approach or just ignore it?

If single men aren't blocked, send them a nice message and you'll soon learn if they're interested or not. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This happens to me too, and it's just someone looking. I can't remember everyone I look at, so probably look at the same people on a regular basis.

If you think there is something in their profile that sounds like a match, I always send a wink and leave it at that. "

Good suggestion thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This happens to me too, and it's just someone looking. I can't remember everyone I look at, so probably look at the same people on a regular basis.

If you think there is something in their profile that sounds like a match, I always send a wink and leave it at that.

Good suggestion thanks. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree will all the above responses. I would like to add that this is a classic reason why there shouldn't be just a block on single men...There needs to be a block for each of the groups. It does cause frustrations....surely it would be good to have that option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Agree will all the above responses. I would like to add that this is a classic reason why there shouldn't be just a block on single men...There needs to be a block for each of the groups. It does cause frustrations....surely it would be good to have that option. "

There is a block for each group of users.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet single guys sometimes although it says we don't for the simple reason we don't want to get 100s of single guys messagein everyday who don't bother reading profile. If we want a single guy we will fund 1 or turn filter of amd put it in our status x

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

Maybe its just the guy looking and wants you to suck his dick

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe its just the guy looking and wants you to suck his dick "

Wouldn't be the first time!

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Interested to hear views on this.

I have a few people who don't meet men but view my profile often. For example one couple have done so every day for a while.

If it was you? Do you assume there is an interest and approach or just ignore it?

I concentrate on my inbox .

. .all of the looked at me and other boxes combined aren't as important as that one...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We meet single guys sometimes although it says we don't for the simple reason we don't want to get 100s of single guys messagein everyday who don't bother reading profile. If we want a single guy we will fund 1 or turn filter of amd put it in our status x

Interesting thanks. In the past few weeks I have engaged in conversations with a female who said she is not looking meet anyone new, but purely has to put that due to the 'one line gang' and a couple who state the female is not meeting when she actually is, just to avoid idiots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I like to be nosey and perv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they wanted to meet you, they'd approach or message you...why wouldn't you respect what they've got in their profile?

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By *entkevMan
over a year ago

Dover

I'm still confused.

If a single lady or couple list 'No Single Men'... why view my profile...

You are just teasing me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still confused.

If a single lady or couple list 'No Single Men'... why view my profile...

You are just teasing me.

You probably have a verification from someone they're interested in and they're having a look to see who they've met...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get the same thing occasionally, if they are only looking, then leave it alone, let them make the first move. I had one couple who weren't looking for single men send me a wink, so I sent a message, just to say hi and thanks for the wink. Never did get a reply, so I assume the wink was an accident or they changed their mind. Move on, life is too short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if I notice that a particular person has checked out my profile for a few days on the bounce and they are not what I'm looking for, and they haven't messaged I just block them

simples

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I have the same from time to time....a couple or single lady will check out my profile multiple times despite saying they won't meet single men.

my assumption is that they do not often meet single men and wish to discourage guys from messaging them. So I assume that if I am what they are looking for that they will write to me or possibly wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Window shopping.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if I notice that a particular person has checked out my profile for a few days on the bounce and they are not what I'm looking for, and they haven't messaged I just block them

simples"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still confused.

If a single lady or couple list 'No Single Men'... why view my profile...

You are just teasing me.

'No single men' means they have men blocked from mailing. It stops the endless wanking dross.

It may mean they go looking themselves.

Just because people don't have men listed on their looking for list it doesn't mean anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of couples play with single guys at clubs, but block them on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If they wanted to meet you, they'd approach or message you...why wouldn't you respect what they've got in their profile?"

Where is the lack of respect? I haven't messaged them or harassed them. I was just keen to ask peoples views.

As per the above, it is not always the case that what people write on their profiles is what they actually mean. Whilst I accept that makes no sense, it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though were not actively looking for guys sometimes if nice to put a face/body to a forum posters message Which is why we quite often look at their profile.

Can't hurt saying hello if they've not set filters up, you never know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes I like to be nosey and perv "

Mrs: Same here, I just enjoy perving on the fellas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they wanted to meet you, they'd approach or message you...why wouldn't you respect what they've got in their profile?

Where is the lack of respect? I haven't messaged them or harassed them. I was just keen to ask peoples views.

As per the above, it is not always the case that what people write on their profiles is what they actually mean. Whilst I accept that makes no sense, it happens."

You seem to be looking for permission to ignore people's stated preferences...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even though were not actively looking for guys sometimes if nice to put a face/body to a forum posters message Which is why we quite often look at their profile.

Can't hurt saying hello if they've not set filters up, you never know!

It's the quickest way to our block list...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If they wanted to meet you, they'd approach or message you...why wouldn't you respect what they've got in their profile?

Where is the lack of respect? I haven't messaged them or harassed them. I was just keen to ask peoples views.

As per the above, it is not always the case that what people write on their profiles is what they actually mean. Whilst I accept that makes no sense, it happens.

You seem to be looking for permission to ignore people's stated preferences..."

With due respect to you, if they continue to look at my profile it is not unreasonable to assume they are interested in some fashion. Also, to clarify, this is not a profile which has 'NO SINGLE MEN'

plastered across it but rather it stays neutral on the subject. In their looking for list it just doesn't state 'male'. I think you can distinguish between the two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes I like to be nosey and perv

Mrs: Same here, I just enjoy perving on the fellas

Nothing wrong with a perv lol

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Interested to hear views on this.

I have a few people who don't meet men but view my profile often. For example one couple have done so every day for a while.

If it was you? Do you assume there is an interest and approach or just ignore it?

The clue to this one may be in the fact they're a couple. Maybe one of them likes the look of you and the other doesn't. Or they are still considering how they will play as a couple and single males aren't currently on the agenda. Or maybe you've met someone they're interested in. Or they're not meeting at the moment and don't want to waste your time by starting a conversation that will go nowhere for potentially ages. It's hard to know but I would assume if they were interested or available to meet they would have made contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

@OP . . well . . those pix do show a nice knob and even nicer buns?

Which is why so many of these issues are, in truth, caused or exasperated by "photo collectors".

Keep your best for private, just ensure that what you put into public gives enough of an indication of who is you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"@OP . . well . . those pix do show a nice knob and even nicer buns?

Which is why so many of these issues are, in truth, caused or exasperated by "photo collectors".

Keep your best for private, just ensure that what you put into public gives enough of an indication of who is you."

Thank you for your kind words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because it's says 'no single guys' on the profile it doesn't always mean they don't play with them.

They're trying to avoid getting flooded with messages and may be looking for guys themselves.

If they keep looking then perhaps they'll message you eventually.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"@OP . . well . . those pix do show a nice knob and even nicer buns?

Which is why so many of these issues are, in truth, caused or exasperated by "photo collectors".

Keep your best for private, just ensure that what you put into public gives enough of an indication of who is you."

My very same thoughts

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By *R and BlondieCouple
over a year ago

Bebington, wirral

We don't meet or play with single guys on here or in clubs. But I, Blondie still like to browse

Also as I always lurk in the forums do look at a wide range of random people and as I have a terrible memory probably look at them more than once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still confused.

If a single lady or couple list 'No Single Men'... why view my profile...

You are just teasing me.

we have don't meet guys on our profile simply to escape male attention which does help cut dowm messages

1 we do occasionally look at guys profiles as a matter of interest for a meet,if we do want to meet you we would make contact

2 you have commented on the forum so occasionally others will look at your profile purely for reference to a comment

3 we don't block guys as we don't mind contact if they have genuine reason to message us about our posts and comments

nobody is teasing you that's just the way you are looking at it

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By *entkevMan
over a year ago

Dover

"I'm still confused.

If a single lady or couple list 'No Single Men'... why view my profile...

You are just teasing me.

we have don't meet guys on our profile simply to escape male attention which does help cut dowm messages

1 we do occasionally look at guys profiles as a matter of interest for a meet,if we do want to meet you we would make contact

2 you have commented on the forum so occasionally others will look at your profile purely for reference to a comment

3 we don't block guys as we don't mind contact if they have genuine reason to message us about our posts and comments

nobody is teasing you that's just the way you are looking at it"

I think you'll find I was attempting to add a little humour.

I really couldn't give a dam who views me.

VIEW AWAY PEOPLE. lol

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"Maybe its just the guy looking and wants you to suck his dick

Wouldn't be the first time!"

If they're interested they'll contact you.

They're window shopping, not buying.

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage

"Interested to hear views on this.

I have a few people who don't meet men but view my profile often. For example one couple have done so every day for a while.

If it was you? Do you assume there is an interest and approach or just ignore it?

I'm here for the single guys as are plenty of other women. I just need them to live alone and live nearby

Oh I acknowledge there is plenty of choice

but was just curious if they were actually keen to meet. Constantly viewing the profiles would suggest so, would it not?

I always have the utmost respect for peoples choices. With that said, I've learnt this week that people don't always mean what they write on their profiles "

Are you sure its a real couple, could just be the male having a wank over you

Jokes aside, only one way to find out, send a message

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Interested to hear views on this.

I have a few people who don't meet men but view my profile often. For example one couple have done so every day for a while.

If it was you? Do you assume there is an interest and approach or just ignore it?

It'll be the female of the couple looking. She wants you but her other half won't allow her to play alone

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

There is a block for each group of users."

Sure is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We look at single guys profiles, find ones we like and hotlist them for when we are looking to meet them and then get in contact later.

Doll x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get so many couples were the man is straight but comes into me. Lots of secretly bi men hiding in couples

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"I get so many couples were the man is straight but comes into me. Lots of secretly bi men hiding in couples"

Get them to wear a condom, then they won't come into you.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We look to see whose looked at us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interested to hear views on this.

I have a few people who don't meet men but view my profile often. For example one couple have done so every day for a while.

If it was you? Do you assume there is an interest and approach or just ignore it?

I get this a lot to and I've never understand it or their profile says black guys only WTF?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe its just the guy looking and wants you to suck his dick "

haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't take much notice of who looks at my profile. They might be keeping an eye on you for some reason or like your pics. You can block them if you don't want their attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's possible they are looking as they have been part of a forum discussion you've been in also. I've had a lovely woman check me out during my time in a forum with her. There will have been plenty who have viewed but they've chosen not to show on the viewed list. Nothing to worry about, in my opinion.

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

"Interested to hear views on this.

I have a few people who don't meet men but view my profile often. For example one couple have done so every day for a while.

If it was you? Do you assume there is an interest and approach or just ignore it?

Don't assume anything at all. Just because someone has looked at your profile does NOT mean that they are interested in meeting you

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over a year ago

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