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By *aughty hubby on own now OP Man
over a year ago

wirral

I'm fat and at min playing alone apart from when wife is ok to play like tmrw but why all you folks not look us big guys

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By *aystay66Man
over a year ago

Manchester

"I'm fat and at min playing alone apart from when wife is ok to play like tmrw but why all you folks not look us big guys "
loose some wait mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a pie and calm down.

Everyone has their own tastes, likes and dislikes, their is no point in asking why..genuinely no one really knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm fat and at min playing alone apart from when wife is ok to play like tmrw but why all you folks not look us big guys "

You don't have any pics to look at

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Fat is not something I find sexual ly attractive. I know it takes a whole lot more than someone's size,but that's what I see first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It may have nothing to do with your size.... You are on a couples profile that states wife not playing anymore .. But have a status up asking for a meet with wife... Confusing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 15/01/16 00:53:16]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" loose some wait mate

Four words in that sentence and you managed to spell two incorrectly.

Most people couldn't try to be that stupid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 15/01/16 00:53:16]"

What happened here then?

Noticed a typo perhaps?

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 15/01/16 00:53:16]

What happened here then?

Noticed a typo perhaps?

Lol"

Noticed a typo, yup. I'm a hypocrite but I'm nae daft

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"[Removed by poster at 15/01/16 00:53:16]

What happened here then?

Noticed a typo perhaps?

Lol"

It took him a second attempt to get it right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 15/01/16 00:53:16]

What happened here then?

Noticed a typo perhaps?

Lol

It took him a second attempt to get it right

No I just sent too early. The gf tells me that's not unusual

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

And I bet if a woman posted this the guys would be white knighting her.

Put some full length pictures on op. And as others have said it maybe absolutly nothing to do with your weight

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

"It may have nothing to do with your size.... You are on a couples profile that states wife not playing anymore .. But have a status up asking for a meet with wife... Confusing "

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

You have the townhouse club in birkenhead in your area with a variety of events and the opportunity to meet many people take the Mrs with you aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I bet if a woman posted this the guys would be white knighting her.

Absolutely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope your wife gets better soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It may have nothing to do with your size.... You are on a couples profile that states wife not playing anymore .. But have a status up asking for a meet with wife... Confusing "

It is...

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By *unCoupleTXCouple
over a year ago

Longview

" loose some wait mate

Four words in that sentence and you managed to spell two incorrectly.

Most people couldn't try to be that stupid. "

Hahaha!! As an English teacher, that made me laugh out loud and blow you a Kiss.

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By *ihimbiherCouple
over a year ago

lightwater

We're fat and we don't seem to have any trouble!!!!!

Each to their own

Xxxxx

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I don't think it is weight necessarily, though there are comparatively fewer ladies who prefer big guys and no scene for us (unlike the BBW scene).

I think it's down more to confidence and selling yourself, what have you got to offer a lady?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To to me size is irrelvant.......its the person within!

So many fantastic looking people in this world but so often when they engage brain you want to run and run fast.....and never look back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" loose some wait mate

Four words in that sentence and you managed to spell two incorrectly.

Most people couldn't try to be that stupid.

Hahaha!! As an English teacher, that made me laugh out loud and blow you a Kiss.

Why, thank you!

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Where's the love for Big Beautiful Blokes?!

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

"I'm fat and at min playing alone apart from when wife is ok to play like tmrw but why all you folks not look us big guys loose some wait mate

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weight you mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Can't see any pics so can't comment.

2. I know you didn't ask but your profile isn't brilliant.

Hope your wife gets well soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant comment on the 'fat' bit, but the profile isn't up to much, no pics, and you also cant accommodate or travel so this will limit your meets.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Your gross status probably isn't helping.

Some people won't like that you are a smoker. Some people will think you are cheating on your wife. Some people don't bother with people who don't have photos.

There are lots of potential reasons.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

"Where's the love for Big Beautiful Blokes?! "

there is no scene, unlike for BBWs. Only the gay "bear" scene.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

OP you are not helping yourself with your status or your profile. Try to be positive. What are you offering the ladies? How about a tasteful pic or two? And better grammar. If you are dyslexic, perhaps mention this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tbh op you have no public pics

your status is a bit desperate in my opinion sorry

so many people are quick to blame there size for not getting any interest where i doubt that is the case

a lot of women myself included like a guy with meat on his bones

though he has to have something else going for him aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm fat and at min playing alone apart from when wife is ok to play like tmrw but why all you folks not look us big guys "

Everyone has their own likes and dislikes.

You can't have a pop at people just because you perceive they won't shag you because of your weight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where's the love for Big Beautiful Blokes?!

there is no scene, unlike for BBWs. Only the gay "bear" scene."

Lol made me laugh but it's bloody true.

Op if you're unhappy with your weight then lose it. I was 21st a few years back and has you can see from my pic I'm no longer 21st.

The positive effect it's had on my life has been worth it.

Get noticed far more now by women then I ever did and the compliments on looks and my body have been high. Got more energy and zest for life. Loving life right now everything's going great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm fat and at min playing alone apart from when wife is ok to play like tmrw but why all you folks not look us big guys loose some wait mate

If you are going to insult him at least spell it correctly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well from your profile I couldn't tell if you were fat or not.

There was nothing on your profile to entice me to look further.

And no I wouldn't play with fat guy anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always wonder at guys who post status's like "whos gonna suck me dry" or " need to empty my balls" Surely thats never in the history of fab actually been successful with a woman??

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Bleurgh....that status....totally off putting! Why oh why do guys put stuff like that? Just awful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have a pie and calm down.

Everyone has their own tastes, likes and dislikes, their is no point in asking why..genuinely no one really knows."

Bit harsh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres plenty of ladies who like us fatties. Its just a case of finding them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the op was a women hes inbox would be flooded with offers and compliments now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Theres plenty of ladies who like us fatties. Its just a case of finding them

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Blatent attempt to get flattery!

haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the eyes of many, extra or excessive fat added to the female body makes them even more female, or real, or beautiful, or whatever.

In the eyes of many extra or excessive fat added to the male body isn't considered attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Theres plenty of ladies who like us fatties. Its just a case of finding them

Blatent attempt to get flattery!

haha x"

Nope I dont have boobs. Women dont flatter on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets face it some women have higher standards , not that all men would just sleep with anybody but we are wired different . Women get to pick and choose and well us guys should just be grateful is what i have been told in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly

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By *raceytvcdTV/TS
over a year ago

mansfield

"If the op was a women hes inbox would be flooded with offers and compliments now lol"

Or if his wife was well and able to play with him xt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's face it men's body's are ugly . I Speak as a fat dude myself .

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

"Bleurgh....that status....totally off putting! Why oh why do guys put stuff like that? Just awful!

because they have not the slightest understanding of women. If a lady posted "need a load in my mouth" the guys would be queuing.

But guys generally do not understand that most ladies find such language a huge turn off. As are the aggressive, angry statuses that I see.

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By *arry_UkMan
over a year ago

birmingham

That made me laugh so much.... When abusing someone least get the spelling correct.

" loose some wait mate

Four words in that sentence and you managed to spell two incorrectly.

Most people couldn't try to be that stupid. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spelling here in brutal by some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let's face it men's body's are ugly . I Speak as a fat dude myself . "

Except the guy off the Southern Comfort add it, he wears it well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" loose some wait mate

Four words in that sentence and you managed to spell two incorrectly.

Most people couldn't try to be that stupid. "

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let's face it men's body's are ugly . I Speak as a fat dude myself .

Except the guy off the Southern Comfort add it, he wears it well"
I'm off skiing in two weeks so fat men can ski lol . According to my dr it makes you ski faster if your bigger .

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

"According to my dr it makes you ski faster if your bigger . "

You'll gather greater momentum if it's downhill skiing. So potentially could go faster.

We fat people can do anything we want. I swim and ride a bicycle. It hasn't magically made me slim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" loose some wait mate

Four words in that sentence and you managed to spell two incorrectly.

Most people couldn't try to be that stupid.

Hahaha!! As an English teacher, that made me laugh out loud and blow you a Kiss.

As an English teacher I would have expected some empathy with someone who struggles with spelling. Maybe not now I think about it.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

If the OP is dyslexic or has another learning difficulty it might help to mention this. Because people do make allowances for such situations...whereas at present his profile and his posts to this thread merely come across as nigh on incoherent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it really does bother you that much,lose weight. It's something you have control over and can do. I don't know exactly how fat you are but,once over a certain amount of excess weight,people tend to be less mobile and not so active in bed. I speak from experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest ...It isn't the fat that would put me off ..It's the wife being "seriously ill" each to their and everything and probably going to be shot down ...but if my partner was seriously ill last thing on my mind would be getting my end away !! So fat or thin your profile makes me feel very uneasy!!

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Where's the love for Big Beautiful Blokes?!

there is no scene, unlike for BBWs. Only the gay "bear" scene."

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

There are hundreds of medical, psychological and genetic reasons why some people cannot lose weight. I wouldn't be so fast to judge the OP or any other big person on here.

While there is a recognised BBW scene with BBW sex parties and vanilla BBW night clubs, there is no such scene for big guys (except for the gay bear scene). But that said, it's far from impossible for us bigger men to find fun - I feel it's down to attitude as much as anything.

As for gaining more energy if I lost weight, I doubt the world would cope...I'm full of beans as it is with a higher than average sex drive and am very active in bed. Generalising really doesn't help. As anyone on the BBW scene knows, the big ladies are among some of the most active swingers on the scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learn to spell mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It may have nothing to do with your size.... You are on a couples profile that states wife not playing anymore .. But have a status up asking for a meet with wife... Confusing "

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

A lot about the OP's communication is very confusing which may be part of the reason why he's having difficulty here.

I have to say that if my wife were ill, the last thing I'd be thinking of is sex elsewhere (even with my regular girlfriend). But to each their own, if his wife is OK with it that's fine. But I am not convinced it's his weight that is the biggest problem. Clear communication would help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot about the OP's communication is very confusing which may be part of the reason why he's having difficulty here.

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"According to my dr it makes you ski faster if your bigger .

You'll gather greater momentum if it's downhill skiing. So potentially could go faster.

We fat people can do anything we want. I swim and ride a bicycle. It hasn't magically made me slim. "
after falling arse over tit at the chill factor I take it back about us fatys can ski lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lets face it some women have higher standards , not that all men would just sleep with anybody but we are wired different . Women get to pick and choose and well us guys should just be grateful is what i have been told in the past"

Be grateful you have a choice and don't have to meet such people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone had different tastes. Maybe spring clean your profile?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"I'm fat and at min playing alone apart from when wife is ok to play like tmrw but why all you folks not look us big guys "

Maybe because you are not fat enough yet. Have you tried putting on more weight?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm fat and at min playing alone apart from when wife is ok to play like tmrw but why all you folks not look us big guys

Maybe because you are not fat enough yet. Have you tried putting on more weight?"

Bad bad girl!!!!

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