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Struggling to make my profile appeal to couples

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I believe my profile isn't bad, but when I read it I think it sounds very "wanting to meet a single woman" and not "couples too". Any ideas how I could get this across?

Aware as single guy my chances are still low, but I like the idea of helping a couple achieve things they can't alone, so want the profile to reflect that at least!

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Come on dude, haven't you heard?!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

To make it appeal to male/female couples?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You need to use the C word

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

You have to be top flexible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to be what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would pass your profile by. This is due to the hardLy any pics. Put a few good ones up and you have instantly improved your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tip - in the "looking for" section, include mf couples...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tip - in the "looking for" section, include mf couples..."

I had never noticed this one before talking about rookie mistake...

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

I see what you mean. It's hard to put a finger on why it seems a little female centred though. The only part I can find is the part about a female giving their body over to you, which might sound like it excludes the male. Maybe something about helping couples realise the fantasy of the female being with another man? Best I can come up with on the fly.

That and more pics.

B

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples that may want a dominant male would be put off I think by the way you put "dom thing" and not all couples want that... The ones that do would read your profile as your a dim dom I am afraid.

More photos as said and maybe a little humour...

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where does the male part of a couple figure in your plans? It doesn't sound as though he does at all...

also, rightly or wrongly, I don't associate the rough sex you say you like with sensuality...seems like rather a contradiction...if we met single men, you wouldn't appeal to us...

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I believe my profile isn't bad, but when I read it I think it sounds very "wanting to meet a single woman" and not "couples too". Any ideas how I could get this across?

Aware as single guy my chances are still low, but I like the idea of helping a couple achieve things they can't alone, so want the profile to reflect that at least!"

It is very female centred and the comment on your op implies that the male in the couple needs you to provide something he cant. We would pass a straight man by ...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Tip - in the "looking for" section, include mf couples...

I had never noticed this one before talking about rookie mistake..."

You're pic's upside down too, a lot of people get that wrong at first too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes get your pic the right way up...it looks like you aint boverred..or dont care...or your having a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile comes across as someone who wants to be a Dom for a sub female.

It in no way indicates any desire to play with a couple....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe my profile isn't bad, but when I read it I think it sounds very "wanting to meet a single woman" and not "couples too". Any ideas how I could get this across?

Aware as single guy my chances are still low, but I like the idea of helping a couple achieve things they can't alone, so want the profile to reflect that at least!"

Delete and start again.

Over a year with no meets = never going to turn up.

Ditch the bit about your past relationships its unnecessary.

Your whole profile jumps roght into dom/sub but completely ignores anything about you

How is a woman or couple going to trust you when they dont know you?

Also you dont even mention you want to meet couples

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