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In your opinion " What is a player "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When people join a website dating/swinging, they want to experience all the website has to offer.

If your first meet was great.

Would you keep talking to people and meeting on the site or shut your account down and focus on the first person you met?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people join a website dating/swinging, they want to experience all the website has to offer.

If your first meet was great.

Would you keep talking to people and meeting on the site or shut your account down and focus on the first person you met?"
well if you did that you wouldn't be a swinger but some are looking for relationships

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"When people join a website dating/swinging, they want to experience all the website has to offer.

If your first meet was great.

Would you keep talking to people and meeting on the site or shut your account down and focus on the first person you met?"

the world is your oyster im single an newly divorced so im just letting my hair down.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When people join a website dating/swinging, they want to experience all the website has to offer.

If your first meet was great.

Would you keep talking to people and meeting on the site or shut your account down and focus on the first person you met?

the world is your oyster im single an newly divorced so im just letting my hair down. "

Have fun you deserve it. Make up for lost times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

keep meeting

i dont often do re meets i would never meet anybody exclusively

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Our first meet was great, much better than I imagined but we didn't join just to meet one person. Does that mean we're players and if so what's the game?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Would you keep talking to people and meeting on the site or shut your account down and focus on the first person you met?"

Keep talking, not good to focus on one person in general, let alone on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in a dating webite, it took several meetings to find the person I wanted to see more of. I am lucky, I found that person, we were both on there and on here which helped, and things are brilliant. But if I had met the right person straight away, of course I would, but you have to be sure and want to be with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was in a dating webite, it took several meetings to find the person I wanted to see more of. I am lucky, I found that person, we were both on there and on here which helped, and things are brilliant. But if I had met the right person straight away, of course I would, but you have to be sure and want to be with them."

Oh but on a swingers website, the title is the name, you are swinging and that to me means friendship and nsa fun not relationship, especially first off. If relationships develop, which they have on here that's absolutely fabulous and go for it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not concentrate on one person. Think it's better to have 3 regular people then you can share your attention or concentration across all 3 of them. I'm like a magnifying glass under the sun, if I concentrate all my attention on one person they will catch fire and die.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was in a dating webite, it took several meetings to find the person I wanted to see more of. I am lucky, I found that person, we were both on there and on here which helped, and things are brilliant. But if I had met the right person straight away, of course I would, but you have to be sure and want to be with them.

Oh but on a swingers website, the title is the name, you are swinging and that to me means friendship and nsa fun not relationship, especially first off. If relationships develop, which they have on here that's absolutely fabulous and go for it x"

I have developed some really good friendships , through swinging , the sort of friends that would come get you at 1 am in the morning , when your car breaks down .

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By *rMrs-Luv-ItCouple
over a year ago

cwmbranish

Was called a pingponger earlier amongst other things would you say that a pingponger could be similar to a player ? Never heard of that one

(Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It may be a swingers site but you may not meet anyone else or anyone you like (both need to like each other) so sometimes you enjoy what you get. I'm fussy I guess and good sex gets better with someone....One offs usually are one offs because it wasn't that good. I've found two others but not off here. Here is not that good as another place. It's becoming more like Facebook in the way many are using it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Was called a pingponger earlier amongst other things would you say that a pingponger could be similar to a player ? Never heard of that one

(Mrs)"

Sorry I'm a Yankee

Player is someone who dates multiple people at the same time...

Some people look down on that kinda thing

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By *rMrs-Luv-ItCouple
over a year ago

cwmbranish

I see

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Why would I only want to meet one person? It's a swingers website like a big merry-go-round

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

I'd say a player is someone that maybe manipulates or misleads rather than openly sees multiple people as swinging should be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say a player is someone that maybe manipulates or misleads rather than openly sees multiple people as swinging should be?"

I've read all previous posts...I'd go with this one...seeing multiple people, but in a manipulative or misleading way so that each thinks you are being more exclusive to them..? Maybe?

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By *orthwest_cplCouple
over a year ago

Stretford

In a swinging context we see a player as someone who actually plays rather than just talks (or types).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people join a website dating/swinging, they want to experience all the website has to offer.

If your first meet was great.

Would you keep talking to people and meeting on the site or shut your account down and focus on the first person you met?"
and another one another one bites the dust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But in answer to the question couples who play are players because they only need the extra person or persons for that moment but single people on a swingers site can't be described as players on a dating site maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say a player is someone that maybe manipulates or misleads rather than openly sees multiple people as swinging should be?

I've read all previous posts...I'd go with this one...seeing multiple people, but in a manipulative or misleading way so that each thinks you are being more exclusive to them..? Maybe?"

Like some 'single' profiles on here who insist that their hubby be present to watch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say a player is someone that maybe manipulates or misleads rather than openly sees multiple people as swinging should be?

I've read all previous posts...I'd go with this one...seeing multiple people, but in a manipulative or misleading way so that each thinks you are being more exclusive to them..? Maybe?

Like some 'single' profiles on here who insist that their hubby be present to watch? "

Not really....but that profile should be a couples profile...as they only meet as a twosome...regardless of who is "playing"... But that is a point for another thread!

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I'd say a player is someone that maybe manipulates or misleads rather than openly sees multiple people as swinging should be?"

I agree with this Female half posting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say a player is someone that maybe manipulates or misleads rather than openly sees multiple people as swinging should be?

I've read all previous posts...I'd go with this one...seeing multiple people, but in a manipulative or misleading way so that each thinks you are being more exclusive to them..? Maybe?

Like some 'single' profiles on here who insist that their hubby be present to watch?

Not really....but that profile should be a couples profile...as they only meet as a twosome...regardless of who is "playing"... But that is a point for another thread!"

In what way not really? They are using that singles profile to act as if they are single. And yes it should be a couples profile. I think even if they have a couples or singles profile it should be stated very clearly in both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When people join a website dating/swinging, they want to experience all the website has to offer.

If your first meet was great.

Would you keep talking to people and meeting on the site or shut your account down and focus on the first person you met?"

I joined but I certainly wouldn't want to experience all that's on offer.

I and Id say many if not most people on here know what they want from it. They may want to explore outside of that in time, but I'd be very surprised that they want to try everything...that's why we have filters and probably why 'filter' topics on here are so common.

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