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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just wonder if there is a sign or something that can let other swingers know you are a swinger without saying it out loud. For example, you get chatting to people on holiday, and you want to find out without embarrassing yourself. Is there a secret swinger handshake or something?

A x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In this day and age, it wouldn't stay secret for long.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

You guys have had fifty meets! If you haven't come across the mythical secret sign yet, it's safe to say that there isn't one!

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Maybe a t shirt that say I love to have a FAB time . or born to swing .

Just a idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There used to be a pin badge that another site sold many many years ago. Maybe we should get Fab ones.

Can always say we are Thunderbird fans if we didn't want to explain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There isn't.....

The expressions

"Have a fab weekend"

"Have a fab evening" etc etc seems to do the trick

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You guys have had fifty meets! If you haven't come across the mythical secret sign yet, it's safe to say that there isn't one! "

Very true, but mostly by meeting at clubs, where everyone knows why they are there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There used to be a pin badge that another site sold many many years ago. Maybe we should get Fab ones.

Can always say we are Thunderbird fans if we didn't want to explain "

I like that idea..

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

When we were on holiday in the summer a couple approached us in the pool on their last day. It was clear to us by their approach that they were sounding us out. We don't swing on holiday so played dumb but it's quite easy to tell

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By *ary_JosephCouple
over a year ago

South Shields

We discovered that a lot of swingers wear a black ring on their right hand. It certainly worked for us in Spain last year. We ended up meeting 3 couples that were wearing them.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I might get a Thunderbird 3 badge for my love of mmf 3sums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There used to be a pin badge that another site sold many many years ago. Maybe we should get Fab ones.

Can always say we are Thunderbird fans if we didn't want to explain "
my thoughts too

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"I just wonder if there is a sign or something that can let other swingers know you are a swinger without saying it out loud. For example, you get chatting to people on holiday, and you want to find out without embarrassing yourself. Is there a secret swinger handshake or something?

A x"

A chameleon badge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'd hate to be a woman wearing a recognisable badge/t shirt or whatever...imagine the guys trying it on with you!!!

bad enough on line, it doesn't need to extend to the street.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"i'd hate to be a woman wearing a recognisable badge/t shirt or whatever...imagine the guys trying it on with you!!!

bad enough on line, it doesn't need to extend to the street.

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Yep! It's not something we would ever do also because it wouldn't only be other swingers who knew the sign.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'd hate to be a woman wearing a recognisable badge/t shirt or whatever...imagine the guys trying it on with you!!!

bad enough on line, it doesn't need to extend to the street.

Yep! It's not something we would ever do also because it wouldn't only be other swingers who knew the sign."

it'd soon be known by all and sundry.....i'm pretty open about my life but i don't wanna announce it to the world on my t shirt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you went to parties and clubs and socials you would know the swingers on your area

On holiday just ask as its not like you will see them at parents evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certain people or groups have them, I learnt a new one last night "coffee" as in meeting someone for coffee (meet) I won't look at my boss the same way again when he asks me if I want to go for coffee pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Certain people or groups have them, I learnt a new one last night "coffee" as in meeting someone for coffee (meet) I won't look at my boss the same way again when he asks me if I want to go for coffee pmsl"

can't decide if your being serious or tongue in cheek...

i must be tired

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just wonder if there is a sign or something that can let other swingers know you are a swinger without saying it out loud. For example, you get chatting to people on holiday, and you want to find out without embarrassing yourself. Is there a secret swinger handshake or something?

A x"

Get a garden gnome. Replace the fishing rod with a whip..That should do it..

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Certain people or groups have them, I learnt a new one last night "coffee" as in meeting someone for coffee (meet) I won't look at my boss the same way again when he asks me if I want to go for coffee pmsl"

We tried getting a drink/coffee "meet" Saturday, Epic fail really so not sure we are meant to do really

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

it's never worked (yet!) but as per newcouplecambs we use the word FAB a lot in conversation with people we like and think might be interested. One day we'll get a bite

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

Plant pampas grass in your front garden and wear some in your hat like a mad ostrich feather.

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By *ezjez369Man
over a year ago

london

I had a pair of fab lolly shorts a few summers ago whilst on holiday with a non swinging gf. Was asked twice by the pool by English people if we were swingers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a Pampas grass tattoo!

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon


"I have a Pampas grass tattoo! "

I almost suggested that....but thought it was a step too far!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plant pampas grass in your front garden and wear some in your hat like a mad ostrich feather."

just notoiced a couple of weeks ago my big sister has a fuckload of pampas grass in the front garden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just wonder if there is a sign or something that can let other swingers know you are a swinger without saying it out loud. For example, you get chatting to people on holiday, and you want to find out without embarrassing yourself. Is there a secret swinger handshake or something?

A x"

Hey so now weve got to know each other...you wanna fuck my wife?"

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By *ohn8210tCouple
over a year ago

Warwick

We heard a story about having a secret code of Garden Gnomes in the front garden before the internet etc? Don't know if this is true or not?

Didn't the older man in 'The Full Monty' have them in his garden??

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By *anillanomoreCouple
over a year ago

Chichester

Does the who is nearby function work abroad? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a tattoo that I was told it was a swing sign, well before I swung lol...I got it cos I liked it, not cos I play. I like the FAB sayings tho xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does the who is nearby function work abroad? X"
yrs it does as it works of gps location

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