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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am not really sure if it's me or not but the attention I receive is nil. I have sent msgs,winks and fab'd photos but all leads to being ignored. Was quite excited about the idea of fabswingers when heard of it but am starting to feel it's more bravado than anything else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What exactly had you heard about fabswingers and what were your expectations of the site? Just interested what new folk hear about us.

Regarding your profile: you have a good variety of pics, good looking and a great body. As long as you don't balls up sending messages you should do well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have only been here a few weeks, it's not going to land in your lap, you need to be patient (sorry for stealing your line shag)

Are you reading the profiles and only messaging the ones whose criteria you match? Are your messages interesting or are you just sending 'hi, how are you?' Etc?

Personally I don't look to see who fabs my pics or winks.

Men outnumber women massively so for every message you are sending, there are probably another 4 she gets too.

Give it time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 weeks. 1 meet. You're doing well. Check out the other whingy threads about "I can't get anything on this site" give it time. It's fab swingers not insta-shag.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Four weeks is nothing in the weird and wonderful world of fab!

Make sure your messages are polite, well constructed and not obvious copy and paste jobs!

Please don't think that 'how r u' or 'wot u up 2' count as messages, as most ladies will ignore them totally.

Also, steer well clear of sending a graphic description of what you would like to do to them....they just make me laugh (but not in a good way!)

Your profile and pics are good, you are a nice looking guy, be patient and be polite - good things come to those who wait!

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Personally I'm totally turned off by the 'pornocchio' thing. Mega cringe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am not really sure if it's me or not but the attention I receive is nil. I have sent msgs,winks and fab'd photos but all leads to being ignored. Was quite excited about the idea of fabswingers when heard of it but am starting to feel it's more bravado than anything else? "

Your fit. Try messaging people who have meet requests in or around your area. Often women and couples get let down. When trying to meet someone. It's all a matter of timing usually.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Personally I'm totally turned off by the 'pornocchio' thing. Mega cringe. "

I though that was funny but I'm a guy.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

You did very well getting a meet virtually as soon as you joined and with someone the other side of the country to you too.

So why don't you work that same magic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same problem here, plenty of polite messages sent and still no interest.

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