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"For me.. As long as it isn't.. Hi, how are you, wana fuck.or anything including babe, love or hun. They have read profile and attached face pic.... Then I will go read profile before deciding to open message..... If no clear body pics of each person is there then I won't reply... Opening message doesn't really matter to me.. But everyone is different and you can't please everyone x" I think that's the issue, the subject line is a tricky one too boring won't get looked at and neither will hi how are you? As for the body of text I'd never put fancy a fuck but still not sure how or what to say, but as you say all people are different. | |||
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"If you are looking for bi-fem meets why not get your lovely Oh to write the messages rather than yourself? One reason I really don't message with couples is because I didn't like it when it was just the male messaging, I preferred the female to do so." Actually you have a very good point. I was thinking that. And I'd go as far as to say that with the amount of single guys pretending to be a couple it doesn't help. Thanks for your frank advice it's very much appreciated ps don't fancy popping to london do you??   | |||
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"Ok so we've been on here a little while but mainly to keep up to date with couples we have met at clubs. Recently we have decided to start a family so don't want to meet men which automatically means we have stopped meeting couples. So during a steamy session the OH suggested another woman join us because she misses exploring her bi side. I've tried to message a few ladies but I am so bad at writing messages I don't think it helps trying to meet. Can people give some advice as to what makes a good opening message?" hello darlin fancy comin over and givin my old lady one  | |||
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"Ok so we've been on here a little while but mainly to keep up to date with couples we have met at clubs. Recently we have decided to start a family so don't want to meet men which automatically means we have stopped meeting couples. So during a steamy session the OH suggested another woman join us because she misses exploring her bi side. I've tried to message a few ladies but I am so bad at writing messages I don't think it helps trying to meet. Can people give some advice as to what makes a good opening message? hello darlin fancy comin over and givin my old lady one "Don't work.  | |||
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"For me.. As long as it isn't.. Hi, how are you, wana fuck.or anything including babe, love or hun. They have read profile and attached face pic.... Then I will go read profile before deciding to open message..... If no clear body pics of each person is there then I won't reply... Opening message doesn't really matter to me.. But everyone is different and you can't please everyone x" And even then, if you spend time writing a brilliant message, you can still get deleted! haha! | |||
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" And even then, if you spend time writing a brilliant message, you can still get deleted! haha!"Very true "Yes.. And if they have read profile it explains why "Not always, I have a rule to read all profile to see if it's even worth it. Even then they get deleted and ignored. And even if we use the magic/passwords. As often said not we're not everyone's type. (Sometimes this is why I prefer clubs) | |||
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"Same advice no matter what demographic you're seeking.. Be creative 've Make it unique Make it personal.. There's countless threads in the archives all offering generic advice.. happy reading "Yes this is true, but my initial point is I'm crap at writing them and not knowing what to say, as you say all the previous threads have generic advice I.e. Don't ask hi how are you? But how to start a message? How to make it personal? I mean both me and oh love larger ladies but I'm hardly gonna say "hi love your big arse! Fancy licking my gf pussy while I do you doggystyle?" | |||
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"Same advice no matter what demographic you're seeking.. Be creative 've Make it unique Make it personal.. There's countless threads in the archives all offering generic advice.. happy reading
Yes this is true, but my initial point is I'm crap at writing them and not knowing what to say, as you say all the previous threads have generic advice I.e. Don't ask hi how are you? But how to start a message? How to make it personal? I mean both me and oh love larger ladies but I'm hardly gonna say "hi love your big arse! Fancy licking my gf pussy while I do you doggystyle?"
"It can only be generic advice.. I don't know you or your oh and / or the ladies.. If I could tell you it wouldn't be unique or personal.. O-) If your messages aren't working change something. | |||
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" And even then, if you spend time writing a brilliant message, you can still get deleted! haha!
Very true
Yes.. And if they have read profile it explains why
Not always, I have a rule to read all profile to see if it's even worth it. Even then they get deleted and ignored. And even if we use the magic/passwords.
As often said not we're not everyone's type. (Sometimes this is why I prefer clubs)"Mine does.. X | |||
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"Same advice no matter what demographic you're seeking.. Be creative 've Make it unique Make it personal.. There's countless threads in the archives all offering generic advice.. happy reading
Yes this is true, but my initial point is I'm crap at writing them and not knowing what to say, as you say all the previous threads have generic advice I.e. Don't ask hi how are you? But how to start a message? How to make it personal? I mean both me and oh love larger ladies but I'm hardly gonna say "hi love your big arse! Fancy licking my gf pussy while I do you doggystyle?"
It can only be generic advice.. I don't know you or your oh and / or the ladies..
If I could tell you it wouldn't be unique or personal.. O-)
If your messages aren't working change something. "To be fair I've just started trying… I just know I'm useless at it without getting no results. Thanks for the advice though. | |||
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"Same advice no matter what demographic you're seeking.. Be creative 've Make it unique Make it personal.. There's countless threads in the archives all offering generic advice.. happy reading
Yes this is true, but my initial point is I'm crap at writing them and not knowing what to say, as you say all the previous threads have generic advice I.e. Don't ask hi how are you? But how to start a message? How to make it personal? I mean both me and oh love larger ladies but I'm hardly gonna say "hi love your big arse! Fancy licking my gf pussy while I do you doggystyle?"
It can only be generic advice.. I don't know you or your oh and / or the ladies..
If I could tell you it wouldn't be unique or personal.. O-)
If your messages aren't working change something.
To be fair I've just started trying… I just know I'm useless at it without getting no results. Thanks for the advice though. "I sent a message to a lady ... Her profile name was Roxanne.. at the time on the radio they were playing a police song... So I started with that.. and this would have been a great story ...but it was every breath you take... Be creative, Be unique, Be personal... Other than r that just hope every lady you message changes their name to Roxanne.. Keep trying
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"Same advice no matter what demographic you're seeking.. Be creative 've Make it unique Make it personal.. There's countless threads in the archives all offering generic advice.. happy reading
Yes this is true, but my initial point is I'm crap at writing them and not knowing what to say, as you say all the previous threads have generic advice I.e. Don't ask hi how are you? But how to start a message? How to make it personal? I mean both me and oh love larger ladies but I'm hardly gonna say "hi love your big arse! Fancy licking my gf pussy while I do you doggystyle?"
It can only be generic advice.. I don't know you or your oh and / or the ladies..
If I could tell you it wouldn't be unique or personal.. O-)
If your messages aren't working change something.
To be fair I've just started trying… I just know I'm useless at it without getting no results. Thanks for the advice though.
I sent a message to a lady ... Her profile name was Roxanne.. at the time on the radio they were playing a police song... So I started with that.. and this would have been a great story ...but it was every breath you take...
Be creative, Be unique, Be personal... Other than r that just hope every lady you message changes their name to Roxanne..
Keep trying
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"Same advice no matter what demographic you're seeking.. Be creative 've Make it unique Make it personal.. There's countless threads in the archives all offering generic advice.. happy reading
Yes this is true, but my initial point is I'm crap at writing them and not knowing what to say, as you say all the previous threads have generic advice I.e. Don't ask hi how are you? But how to start a message? How to make it personal? I mean both me and oh love larger ladies but I'm hardly gonna say "hi love your big arse! Fancy licking my gf pussy while I do you doggystyle?"
It can only be generic advice.. I don't know you or your oh and / or the ladies..
If I could tell you it wouldn't be unique or personal.. O-)
If your messages aren't working change something.
To be fair I've just started trying… I just know I'm useless at it without getting no results. Thanks for the advice though.
I sent a message to a lady ... Her profile name was Roxanne.. at the time on the radio they were playing a police song... So I started with that.. and this would have been a great story ...but it was every breath you take...
Be creative, Be unique, Be personal... Other than r that just hope every lady you message changes their name to Roxanne..
Keep trying
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"Same advice no matter what demographic you're seeking.. Be creative 've Make it unique Make it personal.. There's countless threads in the archives all offering generic advice.. happy reading
Yes this is true, but my initial point is I'm crap at writing them and not knowing what to say, as you say all the previous threads have generic advice I.e. Don't ask hi how are you? But how to start a message? How to make it personal? I mean both me and oh love larger ladies but I'm hardly gonna say "hi love your big arse! Fancy licking my gf pussy while I do you doggystyle?"
It can only be generic advice.. I don't know you or your oh and / or the ladies..
If I could tell you it wouldn't be unique or personal.. O-)
If your messages aren't working change something.
To be fair I've just started trying… I just know I'm useless at it without getting no results. Thanks for the advice though.
I sent a message to a lady ... Her profile name was Roxanne.. at the time on the radio they were playing a police song... So I started with that.. and this would have been a great story ...but it was every breath you take...
Be creative, Be unique, Be personal... Other than r that just hope every lady you message changes their name to Roxanne..
Keep trying
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