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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well as the title suggests meets a slow and few and far between I have beefed up my profile a bit but I am stuck for ideas!!

Any help would be much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use lube

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"Well as the title suggests meets a slow and few and far between I have beefed up my profile a bit but I am stuck for ideas!!

Any help would be much appreciated "

Could it not be the time of year, christmas and new year a lot people doing family stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have been on 4 weeks.. And had 2 meets.... It's been Xmas and new year where most are busy with families.. And you only updated profile yesterday....... Can I ask.. Where you expecting 1 a week?.

X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I did come off for a while due to work commitments but I can see people's points it doesn't help when things are organised and the there are no shows

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"Well I did come off for a while due to work commitments but I can see people's points it doesn't help when things are organised and the there are no shows "

Thats down to way you vet people isn't it. Phone calls, web cam etc prior to a meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Plus I guess I just want to get a good solid profile to get plenty of attention

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I did come off for a while due to work commitments but I can see people's points it doesn't help when things are organised and the there are no shows

Thats down to way you vet people isn't it. Phone calls, web cam etc prior to a meet"

Very true

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Plus I guess I just want to get a good solid profile to get plenty of attention "

Even with a Fantastic profile you need to ensure your expectations are realistic too.If say you exspect a meet every week you could well be disappointed. Plus as they say it's quality not quantity .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Plus I guess I just want to get a good solid profile to get plenty of attention

Even with a Fantastic profile you need to ensure your expectations are realistic too.If say you exspect a meet every week you could well be disappointed. Plus as they say it's quality not quantity .

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I wouldn't expect one every week no more likely a select one or two even ideally a fb to explore this world with

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

My sage advice...

Read the countless threads offering advice in the archives..

Happy reading..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have been on 4 weeks.. And had 2 meets.... It's been Xmas and new year where most are busy with families.. And you only updated profile yesterday....... Can I ask.. Where you expecting 1 a week?.

X"

Lol

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Plus I guess I just want to get a good solid profile to get plenty of attention

Even with a Fantastic profile you need to ensure your expectations are realistic too.If say you exspect a meet every week you could well be disappointed. Plus as they say it's quality not quantity .

I wouldn't expect one every week no more likely a select one or two even ideally a fb to explore this world with "

Well you've had cpl of meets so what's the issue lol.You got what you want

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Plus I guess I just want to get a good solid profile to get plenty of attention

Even with a Fantastic profile you need to ensure your expectations are realistic too.If say you exspect a meet every week you could well be disappointed. Plus as they say it's quality not quantity .

I wouldn't expect one every week no more likely a select one or two even ideally a fb to explore this world with

Well you've had cpl of meets so what's the issue lol.You got what you want"

Always browsing as you never know who might catch your eye

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Not just a select cpl of meets then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well as the title suggests meets a slow and few and far between I have beefed up my profile a bit but I am stuck for ideas!!

Any help would be much appreciated "

We are the same not had any fun for ages, everytime we start to make plans something comes up.

Unfortunately life can get in the way of fun at times.

Once the bleak wet miserable winter darkness has faded, and replaced with the bleak wet slightly lighter spring and summer.

Things will improve.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I did come off for a while due to work commitments but I can see people's points it doesn't help when things are organised and the there are no shows

Thats down to way you vet people isn't it. Phone calls, web cam etc prior to a meet"

Nope it isn't always. We have well vetted well verified people and had them not turn up. Not that we would do web cam. But just wanted to point out that it is not all about the vetting process.

We had a single lady that we spoke to for weeks. And I don't mean just sexually. She was verified and on the day of the meet we chatted till about an hour before and she blocked us and vanished

Op. Time of year as people are skint

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"My sage advice...

Read the countless threads offering advice in the archives..

Happy reading.."

This and the "I don't bite line". It's a cliché, try to be original

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start traveling.... If you can't find any fish in your pond. Go to the ocean

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great points everyone thank you.

And hey good luck to everyone we all deserve a little bit of naughtiness now and again!!

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

it,s the time of the year things pick up at easter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried nivea ?

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