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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been swinging for a few months - loving it but own sex life (ie between the two of us) seems to have gone by the by. Is this temporary of does my partner just prefer other people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been swinging for a few months - loving it but own sex life (ie between the two of us) seems to have gone by the by. Is this temporary of does my partner just prefer other people? "

I'd be worried as our sex life always comes before others x and we make time for ourselves before or after meets and its so good

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Been swinging for a few months - loving it but own sex life (ie between the two of us) seems to have gone by the by. Is this temporary of does my partner just prefer other people? "

Your question can only be answered by one person, best ask them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at your pictures (Sorry) I am sure it is only temporary!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Posted too early. I meant to say talk as it may just be miscommunication.... X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for the advice so far - how do you ask that without it sounding like a criticism?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I would suggest stooping if it went like that for us ... surely you dont find it hard to talk to your partner. We met here and we rarely meet or play with others now as we are more interested in spending time with each other. If we are out, we are more into socials anyway ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been swinging for a few months - loving it but own sex life (ie between the two of us) seems to have gone by the by. Is this temporary of does my partner just prefer other people?

Your question can only be answered by one person, best ask them "

But i was going to get my crystal ball out

Honestly, if you can't communicate with your partner about this then you are on a very rocky road.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"thanks for the advice so far - how do you ask that without it sounding like a criticism?"

Sit down at a time when there are unlikely to be interruptions and say something like "I'm worried that things have changed between us since we started swinging" and take it from there. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

feels more like the edge of a cliff but thanks for the good advice - its what I would have told someone in my position - just nice to have it said by others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have found it to be totally the opposite,

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Sit down at a time when there are unlikely to be interruptions and say something like "I'm worried that things have changed between us since we started swinging" and take it from there. Good luck."

That sounds great advice to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

don't apologise for looking the pics - nice to know its nots me (hopefully)

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

When you have meets who plays with who? Do you play with other men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes we have got to carried away and I have just said... I want some us time today... And let's go in a room.

It's easy to get so wrapped up with new experiences... X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your communication most likely went by the by first

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By *estinysswingersCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

Our sex life has gone up. We get what's called the post-swinging horn.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

we both play with others and love it - both on a high afterwards - but thanks for all the messages

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

It really should be the opposite!!!

Swinging shouldn't be a replacement but and addition to your sex life. If swinging is for you as a couple, then really it should enhance your already amazing sex life and I have found that most people say that they have sex more since they have been swinging.

If swinging is getting in the way of your own sex, then you should stop otherwise you are on a slippery slope

Good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"don't apologise for looking the pics - nice to know its nots me (hopefully)"

It is you. Just as much as your partner. You know what to do.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"we both play with others and love it - both on a high afterwards - but thanks for all the messages"

Have you considered that he might think you don't fancy him any more?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no think it;s a huge mistake

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

We'll it's his loss if he has a nice partner like u to go out n explore . IDE grab him n if he does not give into u tel him this all stops untill ur looked after . IDE I had a partner like u IDE make sure u were we'll looked after unless there's something wrong down below

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