FabSwingers.com forum: Squirting

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Tips and advice guys on making my wife squirt!

Anything that should be specifically done to help encourage it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear god. Not again. She's not a performing seal

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Ask her, not us.

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By *neeyedpirateMan
over a year ago

ask!

"Tips and advice guys on making my wife squirt!

Anything that should be specifically done to help encourage it"

Inbox me I have a few things that have helped me. But most of all does she want to squirt??

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By *orders2forUCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

Find her clit and have relaxed ambiance.

J Soaked through two bath towels on Crimbo afternoon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As with anything sexual, i'd expect her to be wanting this and giving full consent to being experimented with! If so, then it really is a matter of her relaxing as much as possible and trying to push past the feeling like she needs to wee and wants you to stop. You should have a safe word so if she really is finding it all too uncomfortable then she can use it. I can only squirt when hubby quickly does a "come hither" motion combined with moving his entire hand back and forth. It's very tricky and not all that comfortable for him but he loves the effect it has on me! Good luck and make sure those finger nails are short and files so there are no sharp snags xxx

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

"Oh dear god. Not again. She's not a performing seal

This

Ask her; does she want to squirt?

Some men seem to think making women squirt is some " badge"

Some women don't squirt, some never will , some do and hate it.

Others do and love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would reply privately but am blocked...I do not give away trade secrets in open forums...so message me directly!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wouldn't be asking if she didn't want to do this, we are a fully consenting couple

Thanks for your tips so far

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By *neeyedpirateMan
over a year ago

ask!

"I wouldn't be asking if she didn't want to do this, we are a fully consenting couple

Thanks for your tips so far"

Shame your so far away could show you in person

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By *akedmassageCouple
over a year ago

Southampton

Can not see what the fuss is all about just because your wife does not squirt does not mean she is not fulfilled.

Its a bit like saying if my wife or partner does not have an orgasm she does not love me.

Maybe you are trying to hard or maybe she is just one of those women that does not squirt.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

As others have said, remember that not every woman squirts. Every woman is an individual and everyone responds differently to sexual stimulation and pleasure. Some literally squirt like a fountain and others never will no matter who tries what. She's not a performing seal, as another poster put it.

That said, communicate with her about what she feels might stimulate her more during foreplay and sex. Assuming she wishes to, consider trying new toys.

My wife squirted for the first time last year when I was fucking her while she used a new bullet toy on her clit. Something we've done countless times over the years but this new toy somehow helped her squirt. She only seems to do it with that toy and with me fucking her, something must feel "right" about that particular set of stimuli.

But squirting isn't a goal to be worn like a Scout badge. If it happens, great. If it doesn't, great. Just do your best to give your wife satisfying times in the bedroom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not the holy grail of sexual satisfaction.

However after almost 30year's together I have started making her gush/squirt in the last few weeks.

It's very much a novelty and we both see it as a bit of fun, the novelty will wear off soon and we will save it for special occasions.

I would point out she actually enjoys the feeling and has learned to do it on her own which she does when masturbating.

It's extremely messy and prepare to get very very wet.

Body position and being fully hydrated is very important.

We weren't trying to do it when we found out.

It was purely accidental, so don't force it.

Experiment and have fun, don't put too much pressure on each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tips and advice guys on making my wife squirt!

Anything that should be specifically done to help encourage it"

She knows her body better than anyone, so ask her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just like to point out we were together when I posted this, she knows about it, in fact it is my wife that wants to experience it more than me.

Thank you for everyone's comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making a women squirt is fairly ease and very enjoyable for both parties. She will have to be relaxed and open to the feeling of pressure. Message me if want to know more. Dan x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a 'squirter' and there is absolutely no technique to it in my opinion, I just have to be relaxed.

However no matter what type of orgasm I have dry/wet/squirting they all feel incredible and if you put your wife under pressure to squirt because you think that's the ultimate pleasure, it'll probably have the opposite effect. If you want to get wet, have her piss on your or something hahaha

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

Several years ago, when I was with an ex we looked it up on the Internet as we were both intrigued. Lots of practice was needed, but practice makes perfect.

I find the "come hither" movement over my g-spot is what gets me going. Such a great feeling!

Mrs x

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By *renchieeeWoman
over a year ago

Surrey and West London

G point over stimulation is key.... But don't put too much pressure, performance anxiety does also affect women, it is all about creating a naughty horny moment, stress and pressure free....as most things in women pleasure most is in the mind...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she squirts she squirts I agree sometimes the desire to squirt isnt their and she could put to much pressure on wanting it and you may get an undesired affect just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just like to point out we were together when I posted this, she knows about it, in fact it is my wife that wants to experience it more than me.

Thank you for everyone's comments "

As I said before.....cannot message you guys....feel free to message me for techniques....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a 'squirter' and there is absolutely no technique to it in my opinion, I just have to be relaxed.

Couldn't agree more, another tip might be to buy her a water pistol she can squirt all she likes with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"G point over stimulation is key.... But don't put too much pressure, performance anxiety does also affect women, it is all about creating a naughty horny moment, stress and pressure free....as most things in women pleasure most is in the mind...

Took the words right out of my mouth. Not everyone knows where the gspot is either....up about an inch inside behind the clit...A slight rough spot about the size of 10/50p and become engorged as u stimulate it. Key is not too much pressure but plenty of stimulation...

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

1. Fingers two and three inside her.

2. Do the Spiderman.

3. Up down motion instead of in out motion.

... is one of the most common techniques...

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By *he MuffinmanMan
over a year ago

West Gloucestershire

Is it a must that a woman should squirt/gush? When I see veries off guys to women it seems to be the wow factor in their play. I don't gush/squirt and still very much enjoy myself. But because I don't does that mean sex with me isn't wow?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it a must that a woman should squirt/gush? When I see veries off guys to women it seems to be the wow factor in their play. I don't gush/squirt and still very much enjoy myself. But because I don't does that mean sex with me isn't wow?

Don't think the issue of squirting ability makes sex any better or less so....its just another aspect. Some enjoy it some don't. I think the issue with enjoyment in my opinion is more to do with if the female is enjoying it. If she isn't then I won't be either. If I'm not enjoying it she probably isn't too.

It's like anal...some do and some don't. ..like blow jobs some do some like me find them a bit take it or leave it.

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

It's like anal...some do and some don't. ..like blow jobs some do some like me find them a bit take it or leave it. "

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

Not at all. Sex is still great regardless of if someone can squirt/gush. Some like it, some don't. I love it and seem attract others that do too.

I have been told by a couple of guys I've met that it's the equivalent of seeing a man ejaculate. A visual thing.

For me, it's the intense feeling and seeing the pleasure others get from it too. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. Sex is still great regardless of if someone can squirt/gush. Some like it, some don't. I love it and seem attract others that do too.

I have been told by a couple of guys I've met that it's the equivalent of seeing a man ejaculate. A visual thing.

For me, it's the intense feeling and seeing the pleasure others get from it too. Xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I ask how long have you been with your wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all women will/can/ or want to ..... Not everything that works on one woman will work on another .. it is also very much a in the mind thing.

Lee can make me gush/squirt very quickly... But other men even if they have the skills can't make me as mentally I can't relax enough x

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By *he MuffinmanMan
over a year ago

West Gloucestershire

I don't mind that I don't gush. I was just pointing out that going by guys veries it seems to be the be all and end all of a good sex session. I quite like having sex on a dry bed

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By *he MuffinmanMan
over a year ago

West Gloucestershire

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By *he MuffinmanMan
over a year ago

West Gloucestershire

Ask her; does she want to squirt?

Some men seem to think making women squirt is some " badge"

Some women don't squirt, some never will , some do and hate it.

Others do and love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she's a squirter it will happen quite easily. Not all women can squirt and to be honest it becomes more of a burden at times lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avoid the ..."do you squirt guys ..in my experience they ain't got a fekkin clue "....and will hurt you ...Mr d

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The poor OP was only asking advice, not looking to get strung up lol

Squirting/Gushinging/Watersports loving people are always ridiculed and this is no different

lets face it we like different things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Willing to get shot down for this but get her on all fours and use your thumb, you might, I stress might, be pleasantly surprised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh dear god. Not again. She's not a performing seal

This

Ask her; does she want to squirt?

Some men seem to think making women squirt is some " badge"

Some women don't squirt, some never will , some do and hate it.

Others do and love it"

^^This^^

Doesn't make you a better lover or more of a man!

Every woman is different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't mind that I don't gush. I was just pointing out that going by guys veries it seems to be the be all and end all of a good sex session. I quite like having sex on a dry bed

Me too!

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By *un Bear 23Man
over a year ago

"1. Fingers two and three inside her.

2. Do the Spiderman.

3. Up down motion instead of in out motion.

... is one of the most common techniques... "

This is the best way

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