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By *luefish2009 OP   Couple
over a year ago

blandford forum

Hi, we are a couple. Been here some years and swinging even longer. Well when I say swining its only me, the wife. Hubby is what I calll soft core cuckold, he likes to watch me. However we are just venturing into chastity. Hubby has now been locked up for six dsys and we are both enjoying it.

He has only been permitted to pleasure me with his tongue, fingers, and my toys. We wish to make this part of our meets, hubby locked up and made to watch.

Are there any here who are more experienced in this with any thoughts, ideas and advise in this sort of play?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you got things covered but can advise if you want

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By *luefish2009 OP   Couple
over a year ago

blandford forum

Hi thanks for the reply. Yes your right we have most things covered as you say and we are both enjoying our selves and feeling our way in this new avenue of fantasy and play. I guess really I am hoping for a few small pointers for my role. (The wife) he is not what you might call hard core cuckold and not into major humiliation. But he does like to hear things like my lovers cock is bigger than his (even though often they are not lol) and he is fucking me better than he can. Equally I am not what you would call a natural dominant person so knowing what to say, when to say it, or how often to let him out the cage, and what I might do when he is out of it. I am surprised I have enjoyed the control and the power of making him pleasure me while getting no release for himself. This is good on other levels as his sex drive is way higher than mine and means if I am not in the mood I can still tease and turn him down without feeling compelled to have sex. Or sometimes I would just rather have a relaxed masterbation which I now can instruct him to do to me and make him do it the way I like. But what I don't want to do is over frustrate him as I know he loves to masterbate also

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"Hi thanks for the reply. Yes your right we have most things covered as you say and we are both enjoying our selves and feeling our way in this new avenue of fantasy and play. I guess really I am hoping for a few small pointers for my role. (The wife) he is not what you might call hard core cuckold and not into major humiliation. But he does like to hear things like my lovers cock is bigger than his (even though often they are not lol) and he is fucking me better than he can. Equally I am not what you would call a natural dominant person so knowing what to say, when to say it, or how often to let him out the cage, and what I might do when he is out of it. I am surprised I have enjoyed the control and the power of making him pleasure me while getting no release for himself. This is good on other levels as his sex drive is way higher than mine and means if I am not in the mood I can still tease and turn him down without feeling compelled to have sex. Or sometimes I would just rather have a relaxed masterbation which I now can instruct him to do to me and make him do it the way I like. But what I don't want to do is over frustrate him as I know he loves to masterbate also"

You guys are doing great! Wonder what advise you need..just go with the flow

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

That sounds horrible for ur hubby he must b enjoying it . IDE luv to b dommed bye a lady mmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the sounds of it very similar to ourselves especially when we started out.

How long you leave him caged for is upto you a your lover if you have a regular guy. Also what joys cuck receives are your decision but should still have the opportunity to cum as good for his health....now here's where fun begins as you can edge him before putting him back in his cage which he'll find frustrating. Also you can ruin his orgasm by waiting till he's just about to cum and then withdrawing all stimulus. He still cums but without the enjoyment. This is particularly great to do on days when you have a meet planned as you can remind him that the guy with the bigger, fatter cock will be able to enjoy cumming when they fuck you. Feel free to message either myself or Ginger if you want

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By *luefish2009 OP   Couple
over a year ago

blandford forum

Thankýou everyone, and will be in touch cinnamon and ginger thank you.

its just nice to hear a few things to back up my thinking.

Thnk you x

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"By the sounds of it very similar to ourselves especially when we started out.

How long you leave him caged for is upto you a your lover if you have a regular guy. Also what joys cuck receives are your decision but should still have the opportunity to cum as good for his health....now here's where fun begins as you can edge him before putting him back in his cage which he'll find frustrating. Also you can ruin his orgasm by waiting till he's just about to cum and then withdrawing all stimulus. He still cums but without the enjoyment. This is particularly great to do on days when you have a meet planned as you can remind him that the guy with the bigger, fatter cock will be able to enjoy cumming when they fuck you. Feel free to message either myself or Ginger if you want "

Ever thought about writing a book on cuckoldin??? You can make good money lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By the sounds of it very similar to ourselves especially when we started out.

How long you leave him caged for is upto you a your lover if you have a regular guy. Also what joys cuck receives are your decision but should still have the opportunity to cum as good for his health....now here's where fun begins as you can edge him before putting him back in his cage which he'll find frustrating. Also you can ruin his orgasm by waiting till he's just about to cum and then withdrawing all stimulus. He still cums but without the enjoyment. This is particularly great to do on days when you have a meet planned as you can remind him that the guy with the bigger, fatter cock will be able to enjoy cumming when they fuck you. Feel free to message either myself or Ginger if you want

Ever thought about writing a book on cuckoldin??? You can make good money lol"

I agree - I'd buy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's already a load of different guides on the net to cuckolding and we write a lot of adult fiction in the stories and fantasies section but thanks for the kind words. Perhaps one day we'll compile and publish some of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's already a load of different guides on the net to cuckolding and we write a lot of adult fiction in the stories and fantasies section but thanks for the kind words. Perhaps one day we'll compile and publish some of them "

I want to check some of your stories out - it's a scene we have just got into and drives us wild but I (Mrs) am not dom and struggle with what to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's already a load of different guides on the net to cuckolding and we write a lot of adult fiction in the stories and fantasies section but thanks for the kind words. Perhaps one day we'll compile and publish some of them

I want to check some of your stories out - it's a scene we have just got into and drives us wild but I (Mrs) am not dom and struggle with what to say."

Tfif is one of my stories and also ginger has home alone running at the moment and more on our blog that have done but would have to try dig out the link as been awhile since updated it.

As to being Dom and knowing the right things to say think a lot of women struggle at the beginning. Ginger did to start with as didn't want to say something or do something that might hurt me or our relationship. Also what didn't help was though I wanted to be submissive I didn't know how to be but learnt my lesson know and she's come out of her shell lol.

Best advice ask cuck what he wants to hear you say and what his boundaries are. Cuckolding is a 3 way dynamic but first the couple must know and be comfortable with what they seek before looking for a bull to help make their fantasy come true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's already a load of different guides on the net to cuckolding and we write a lot of adult fiction in the stories and fantasies section but thanks for the kind words. Perhaps one day we'll compile and publish some of them

I want to check some of your stories out - it's a scene we have just got into and drives us wild but I (Mrs) am not dom and struggle with what to say.

Tfif is one of my stories and also ginger has home alone running at the moment and more on our blog that have done but would have to try dig out the link as been awhile since updated it.

As to being Dom and knowing the right things to say think a lot of women struggle at the beginning. Ginger did to start with as didn't want to say something or do something that might hurt me or our relationship. Also what didn't help was though I wanted to be submissive I didn't know how to be but learnt my lesson know and she's come out of her shell lol.

Best advice ask cuck what he wants to hear you say and what his boundaries are. Cuckolding is a 3 way dynamic but first the couple must know and be comfortable with what they seek before looking for a bull to help make their fantasy come true "

Thanks - I know cuck wants to be submissive and wants me to tell him how much I'm enjoying being with someone who knows how to fuck me properly. We've got a cock cage which plan to lock him in before next meet too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't be arsed quoting lol but wish both you and the op all the best for your future cuckold meets.

Something else really frustrating for a cuck....being told to put his cage on before leaves for work (can also tell him to wear a pair of panties if your thing) and then when he's at work and without prior knowledge was going to happen send him pictures of a meet that you've had. When he comes home he'll be dying to know everything that happened. Can either uncage him and use the above techniques to frustrate him perhaps using his cock to bring yourself off without him entering you! Or could leave him caged and say don't need his cock tonight as your lover satisfied that afternoon. If cuck is to have sex with you has to earn it by being good and doing everything you ask of him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The most fun toy I discovered with my wife when we played around a bit with chastity was a dice.

I note you say you lack a little in dominance so you let the dice make your decisions.

Not sure how long to lock him up? Throw a dice to choose his time. Perhaps throw it to choose how many throws you'll do and add together for the days or weeks locked.

How many times he must make you cum before release? How many guys you play with?

You catch the idea?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The most fun toy I discovered with my wife when we played around a bit with chastity was a dice.

I note you say you lack a little in dominance so you let the dice make your decisions.

Not sure how long to lock him up? Throw a dice to choose his time. Perhaps throw it to choose how many throws you'll do and add together for the days or weeks locked.

How many times he must make you cum before release? How many guys you play with?

You catch the idea? "

Brilliant thanks have found a dice

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By *luefish2009 OP   Couple
over a year ago

blandford forum


"The most fun toy I discovered with my wife when we played around a bit with chastity was a dice.

I note you say you lack a little in dominance so you let the dice make your decisions.

Not sure how long to lock him up? Throw a dice to choose his time. Perhaps throw it to choose how many throws you'll do and add together for the days or weeks locked.

How many times he must make you cum before release? How many guys you play with?

You catch the idea? "

brilliant thank you, will find a dice

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By *luefish2009 OP   Couple
over a year ago

blandford forum


"Couldn't be arsed quoting lol but wish both you and the op all the best for your future cuckold meets.

Something else really frustrating for a cuck....being told to put his cage on before leaves for work (can also tell him to wear a pair of panties if your thing) and then when he's at work and without prior knowledge was going to happen send him pictures of a meet that you've had. When he comes home he'll be dying to know everything that happened. Can either uncage him and use the above techniques to frustrate him perhaps using his cock to bring yourself off without him entering you! Or could leave him caged and say don't need his cock tonight as your lover satisfied that afternoon. If cuck is to have sex with you has to earn it by being good and doing everything you ask of him "

great thank you

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