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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, my profile just doesn't seem to do it. Any advice please?

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Where to start

1 photo

Tiny profile

Not verified

That's just for starters

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Some might say that they don't play with married men.

Profile wise you are not doing anything wrong. It's just tough for single men on here and tougher for single married ones.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all. Food for thought.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Ok, my profile just doesn't seem to do it. Any advice please?"

All the above. More photos are needed as there are many single guys on here and I would personally look at pics before I read a profile. It's good to be honest, but many won't play with married men. Maybe try a social or club?

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Firstly, you need to remember...this is not insta-shag. 5 weeks in and asking what your doing wrong suggests your expectations could be slightly high.

Secondly, whilst there are some that will meet married men playing away...quite a lot won't. Also being married means you can't accom.

One good thing tho is that you have been honest. Good luck.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

don't disrespect your marriage and by default your wife, huge turn off for me anyway.

Otherwise you need to say more about yourself and put up some decent pictures.

Good luck.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

1. No pictures ( not even private)

"pictures available" would deal with that, if you don't want to put up pictures

2. Some people here don't like married men playing away, ( but others are OK with it). You are being upfront about it, so that's OK and some ladies get a turn on from it. ( loads of the " single" blokes here are partnered up and playing away )

3. I Think the bit about " missing the intimacy" thing sounds a bit needy and might put some off; just state the fact and move on: no need to justify it

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

There are countless threads offering generic profile advice in the archives... The rest is for you to do. Happy reading..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all. Will take what I can on board. Merry Christmas!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks all. Will take what I can on board. Merry Christmas!!"

A few lines of banaal text. No thank you. Show some personality.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

As all the above plus you will meet women up to the age of 99 ? Suggest you alter this.

Add something . About what you like, what you are good at, the type of person you would like to meet.

Finally move to the Midlands. We have lots more sexy swingers here

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"As all the above plus you will meet women up to the age of 99 ? Suggest you alter this.

Add something . About what you like, what you are good at, the type of person you would like to meet.

Finally move to the Midlands. We have lots more sexy swingers here "

18-99? Could be:

- age is not relevant

- some people lie about their age (I know some people who do this - like, decades older than they really are)

- or couldn;t be bothered to change it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You claim to be professional, whatever that means. Presumably you can string together more than a few words. And we did not request a private message. We had alrady indicated a lack of interest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all and apologies to anyone that has taking offence!!

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

No offence, bit an unverified married man would definitely seem like too much trouble for us. Each to their own but I'm sure there is someone out there for everyone

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"As all the above plus you will meet women up to the age of 99 ? Suggest you alter this.

Add something . About what you like, what you are good at, the type of person you would like to meet.

Finally move to the Midlands. We have lots more sexy swingers here

18-99? Could be:

- age is not relevant

- some people lie about their age (I know some people who do this - like, decades older than they really are)

- or couldn;t be bothered to change it"

Can't be bothered to change it suggests to me that the bloke does not put any effort into the profile. Will the effort put into sex be any better. ?

It takes a minute to change it to a more realistic number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, my profile just doesn't seem to do it. Any advice please?"
think the married bit is part of your downfall not absolutely sure on that but 99%

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Ok, my profile just doesn't seem to do it. Any advice please? think the married bit is part of your downfall not absolutely sure on that but 99% "

Yep. In summary ^^

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Ok, my profile just doesn't seem to do it. Any advice please? think the married bit is part of your downfall not absolutely sure on that but 99% "

I don't think its the married bit I think its saying "unfortunately" beforehand. If you can show that much disrespect to a long term relationship it doesn't bode well for a short encounter.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Ok, my profile just doesn't seem to do it. Any advice please?"

Reading words like "respectful of others" and "trust" from someone married and playing away would make me go yeah...right!

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