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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been in touch with a couple and they want me to travel a 200 hundred miles to have a wild time in hotel, they say there profile is temporarily hidden but they have 3 pics, 1 in the private gallery BUT this pic in priv gallery was in sunday sport yesterday advertising a text sex kinda advert. are they a hoax couple? What should i do? any advice peeps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

200 miles for a bonk .............. thats a long way to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been in touch with a couple and they want me to travel a 200 hundred miles to have a wild time in hotel, they say there profile is temporarily hidden but they have 3 pics, 1 in the private gallery BUT this pic in priv gallery was in sunday sport yesterday advertising a text sex kinda advert. are they a hoax couple? What should i do? any advice peeps? "

Well the private pic things does make it seem very dodgy to me

Can you not just phone the both of them ? Cannot see what that would be a problem if they was gen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yeah i know, i havent actually been though, but how crazy is it that her pic is in the paper as an advertisement. imagine if i went, or if someone else went, anything could happen to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm because it's not 'her' pic ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have been in touch with a couple and they want me to travel a 200 hundred miles to have a wild time in hotel, they say there profile is temporarily hidden but they have 3 pics, 1 in the private gallery BUT this pic in priv gallery was in sunday sport yesterday advertising a text sex kinda advert. are they a hoax couple? What should i do? any advice peeps?

Well the private pic things does make it seem very dodgy to me

Can you not just phone the both of them ? Cannot see what that would be a problem if they was gen"

I not got there number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they want to meet you then just ask for there number so you can have a chat if they are gen then this should not really be a problem ,we have a pay as u go phone that we call our 'swinging' phone that we use for things like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no number no meet thats the rule i always use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definately seems suspicious, and like so many people on here say, go with your gut feeling...

Get the number, best to check in with them to see if that makes you feel better or sets off more alarm bells.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very iffy.........have a wank and save the cost of the trip! R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fake written all over it use your instincts if you not 100% dont go and report.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suspicious pic and no phone number = no meet.

It's very likely that they are:-

~ timewasters (who have 'lifted' the pic from somewhere else)

~ professional sex workers (who have published their genuine pic elsewhere, but who will expect you to part with cash for sex).

Get a phone number and some reassurance from them, or write them off.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"I have been in touch with a couple and they want me to travel a 200 hundred miles to have a wild time in hotel, they say there profile is temporarily hidden but they have 3 pics, 1 in the private gallery BUT this pic in priv gallery was in sunday sport yesterday advertising a text sex kinda advert. are they a hoax couple? What should i do? any advice peeps? "

Ok, question to ask yourself - why would a complete stranger (a couple) from 200 miles away email you asking to meet? Surely there must be 200 single guys within 1 mile of them, much less 200 miles.

My guess - they're insulting your intelligence my assuming you're gullible.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for all your advice and im gonna use it.

They will be blocked now.

Im not going to be sucked into this trap.

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By *inups99Couple
over a year ago

manchester

Good move. We know for a fact that there are some people on the site who use photos which aren't genuine; plus we now have had three mails from guys all using the same photo!!! (a HUGE cock in a wet pair of drawers!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And anyone in the Sunday Sport,can you really take them serious. Hope you reported the profile too?

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Ditto anyone who reads the Sunday Sport and recognises the picture.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I am absolutely amazed that the OP needs to ask advice on this....

Sorry to have to say this but you should seriously question whether or not you are ready for this swinging malarky if you need to get the views of others on such a matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i recently rode 130 miles in just one direction to meet someone from here.

she was very genuine and we had known each other for ages.

you need to be sure about them.

if it was me id say no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone with porn style pics on ones profile sounds dubious to me anyway I know mine are arty farty and not naughty but that reflect who I am.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am absolutely amazed that the OP needs to ask advice on this....

Sorry to have to say this but you should seriously question whether or not you are ready for this swinging malarky if you need to get the views of others on such a matter."

Well we all have to start some where,EVEN YOU.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt go, simple as that, report and block them, let admin investigate, and you move on, plenty more fish in the sea

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"I am absolutely amazed that the OP needs to ask advice on this....

Sorry to have to say this but you should seriously question whether or not you are ready for this swinging malarky if you need to get the views of others on such a matter.

Well we all have to start some where,EVEN YOU."

It's not a question of starting somewhere, it's a question of thinking rationally. You clearly haven't had much contact with whoever you're planning to meet - no phone, no profile, and one pic.

What was it about this couple that made you consider driving 200 miles for a shag?

...Other than the fact that they invited you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they were messing you about OP yes we all have to start somewhere but unless your that desperate no one in there right mind is gonna travel that distance with little or no information unless you like playing russian roulette

Just be grateful you didn't go and when you turned up a 50 year old man was there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think they were messing you about OP yes we all have to start somewhere but unless your that desperate no one in there right mind is gonna travel that distance with little or no information unless you like playing russian roulette

Just be grateful you didn't go and when you turned up a 50 year old man was there."

ha ha ha yeah thats true, lol

i had a good chat with this so called couple and they seemed genuine enough by the questions they were asking and stuff, plus they lived in blackpool, which is ace so i fancied making a weekend of it up there as i know other peeps in the area,

i thought i could kill 2 birds with 1 stone if you know what i mean.

oh well thank fuck i didnt go, i could of bumped into a right dirty old perv pmfsl.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i wouldnt go, simple as that, report and block them, let admin investigate, and you move on, plenty more fish in the sea"

Been done now . lets hope they get kicked off.

Why are there so many fakes, its hard to tell the difference i think.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


" its hard to tell the difference i think. "

Hopefully it'll get easier for you.

/diplomacy

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow


"200 miles for a bonk .............. thats a long way to go "

Depends on how many strokes

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