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"I have been on this site for 2 yrs and can't get a meet to save my life. I am polite, dont give any shit to any woman and ain't bad looking compared to some. What do I need to do. " On behalf of shag, be patient. 
In seriousness, if it's been 2 years maybe it's time to review your profile, your photo's and your approach.
Alternatively delete the profile and start again. | |||
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"I have been on this site for 2 yrs and can't get a meet to save my life. I am polite, dont give any shit to any woman and ain't bad looking compared to some. What do I need to do. On behalf of shag, be patient.
I'd delete and start again because unfortunately after being here so long without being verified you will be classed as a time waster by some. The other option will be get to a few of the socials to get yourself verified. Best of luck which ever way you choose to go.
In seriousness, if it's been 2 years maybe it's time to review your profile, your photo's and your approach.
Alternatively delete the profile and start again." | |||
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"Pretend your a couple works for me, oops I mean us.  "pmsl  | |||
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"I have been on this site for 2 yrs and can't get a meet to save my life. I am polite, dont give any shit to any woman and ain't bad looking compared to some. What do I need to do. " Resist sagging others off, ie comparing your looks to theirs .... seriously though, op, what she said e.g...get out and about, there are some friendly people out there. We have managed to hit a few clubs in the last few weeks, and got a small spattering of veris from just being our charming social selves .... | |||
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"I have been on this site for 2 yrs and can't get a meet to save my life. I am polite, dont give any shit to any woman and ain't bad looking compared to some. What do I need to do. " Beg | |||
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"I have been on this site for 2 yrs and can't get a meet to save my life. I am polite, dont give any shit to any woman and ain't bad looking compared to some. What do I need to do. " But you have met people so.... | |||
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"I have been on this site for 2 yrs and can't get a meet to save my life. I am polite, dont give any shit to any woman and ain't bad looking compared to some. What do I need to do. " mollie your verification says she has met you loads though. | |||
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"Is that cos I look good to men " no its just men will fuck Owt | |||
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"I have been on this site for 2 yrs and can't get a meet to save my life. I am polite, dont give any shit to any woman and ain't bad looking compared to some. What do I need to do. " It's not all about looks. | |||
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"search the forums this question has been asked dozens of times." Dozens of millions  | |||
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"I have been on this site for 2 yrs and can't get a meet to save my life. I am polite, dont give any shit to any woman and ain't bad looking compared to some. What do I need to do. Beg" That's never worked for me! | |||
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"Pretend your a couple works for me, oops I mean us. "I literally LOLed! | |||
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"What one on 2 years mmm xx " less of the x x's. you can't lure me to bed | |||
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"Get to the York social. You look like you'd fit right in "The Socials don't seem to be well advertised, if they where every couple and single lady would understand and get to know guys properly! I think we should have a Social Chatroom!! | |||
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"Get to the York social. You look like you'd fit right in
The Socials don't seem to be well advertised, if they where every couple and single lady would understand and get to know guys properly! I think we should have a Social Chatroom!!"They're advertised widely on the meets forum and the UK forum, plus on various organisers statuses, and in the meets & events page. We are the ones who make the effort to find them. | |||
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"I am not allowed to the York social, because the first ever one I went To, to try and meet new people, it was my downfall for the next one. " Oooh controversy! Must have been bad because they let me go back any time.  | |||
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"I am not allowed to the York social, because the first ever one I went To, to try and meet new people, it was my downfall for the next one. " That bad were they  | |||
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"Get to the York social. You look like you'd fit right in
The Socials don't seem to be well advertised, if they where every couple and single lady would understand and get to know guys properly! I think we should have a Social Chatroom!!"I don't go to socials. I get to know men on here. I'm unsociable | |||
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"I am not allowed to the York social, because the first ever one I went To, to try and meet new people, it was my downfall for the next one. That bad were they "I know I am  | |||
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"I am not allowed to the York social, because the first ever one I went To, to try and meet new people, it was my downfall for the next one. " Why? | |||
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"You need patience "lol yes, you said it before me there | |||
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"Your profile tells me pretty much nothing about you other than you want sex, it also doesnt make me want to know anything else about you either. Try writing a proper one rather than "meh that should be enough to hit the minimum character limit"" It does seem a tad bullet pointed. Though you have at least made an effort to show what you can offer to potential meets, it doesn't really showcase your personality. That's important to us, to get on with anyone we might meet. Just a pointer | |||
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"Get to the York social. You look like you'd fit right in "He did!  | |||
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"Get to the York social. You look like you'd fit right in
He did! "You always crack me up with your posts, sir! | |||
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"Get to the York social. You look like you'd fit right in
He did! "Obviously didn't fit. | |||
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"Haha! Tell me about it. 2 years ago, when I was last on here, I seemed to be able to get meets galore. Now I suck... Haha! It's just the way you word things. Remember that the ratios on here are crazy. It's like 50:1! I totally get you though. I had a whinge before (and a subsequent roasting) about being ignored. Looooool!" Bump | |||
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"I have been on this site for 2 yrs and can't get a meet to save my life. I am polite, dont give any shit to any woman and ain't bad looking compared to some. What do I need to do. " I don't know you. At all  But after this short post I can say....your attitude stinks | |||
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"Pretend your a couple works for me, oops I mean us. "Yup, turn up and tell then your wife is parking the car. Say it's best to get down to business and not wait for her, after all she has an early start tomorrow. Wham, bam thank you mama and then when you've cum say that she's just text you saying she's got a flat tyre and you need to go help her. I should really charge for this tried and tested advice. 50% of the time it works every time. | |||
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"I have been on this site for 2 yrs and can't get a meet to save my life. I am polite, dont give any shit to any woman and ain't bad looking compared to some. What do I need to do. " Go to swingers clubs, be sociable. | |||
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"Pretend your a couple works for me, oops I mean us.
Yup, turn up and tell then your wife is parking the car. Say it's best to get down to business and not wait for her, after all she has an early start tomorrow. Wham, bam thank you mama and then when you've cum say that she's just text you saying she's got a flat tyre and you need to go help her.
I should really charge for this tried and tested advice. 50% of the time it works every time. "....making a note of this one.... | |||
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"I have been on this site for 2 yrs and can't get a meet to save my life. I am polite, dont give any shit to any woman and ain't bad looking compared to some. What do I need to do. I don't know you. At all But after this short post I can say....your attitude stinks " | |||
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"I have been on this site for 2 yrs and can't get a meet to save my life. I am polite, dont give any shit to any woman and ain't bad looking compared to some. What do I need to do. " Add some info about yourself, your profile tells people nothing much and add some new photos and lose some of the current ones | |||
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"I have been on this site for 2 yrs and can't get a meet to save my life. I am polite, dont give any shit to any woman and ain't bad looking compared to some. What do I need to do. " What you need to realise is that being polite and not bad looking is not enough. Women do not go to bed with someone because they look ok and they are polite. They have sex with men who are sexy and exciting. Politeness is important, but it should go without saying - it's certainly not an aphrodisiac. So turn up the sex appeal in how you sell yourself. I had a look at your profile. It's not obvious what you are looking for from this lifestyle, nor is it clear what you can offer. Your profile is also very similar to so many other male profiles, so you will blend in somewhat in a ladies inbox. I see you are only looking for female couples and female singles. Most men exploring the swinging lifestyle would be looking to play with MF couples. As there are limited FF couples on this site, I'm guessing you just want to meet single women. If that's the case you may find casual dating sites more geered up for one on one meets. | |||
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"Pretend your a couple works for me, oops I mean us.
Yup, turn up and tell then your wife is parking the car. Say it's best to get down to business and not wait for her, after all she has an early start tomorrow. Wham, bam thank you mama and then when you've cum say that she's just text you saying she's got a flat tyre and you need to go help her.
I should really charge for this tried and tested advice. 50% of the time it works every time. " It works! I said my hubby was outside... had a fab shag.... left. | |||
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"Get to the York social. You look like you'd fit right in
The Socials don't seem to be well advertised, if they where every couple and single lady would understand and get to know guys properly! I think we should have a Social Chatroom!!
They're advertised widely on the meets forum and the UK forum, plus on various organisers statuses, and in the meets & events page.
We are the ones who make the effort to find them."Y socials are well advertised, some like us have there own profile | |||
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