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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK it might be the 2nd time I have asked but it was a very long time ago

How does my profile come across to you ?

To long ? Not enough information ?

It does seem I attract people who I have no interest in meeting so just wondering if there is anything I could add or remove from my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it. It states what you are looking for and I think you come across well, and you have nice photo's. Especially the wet t-shirt one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like it. It states what you are looking for and I think you come across well, and you have nice photo's. Especially the wet t-shirt one "

Thank you

I know I exclude a lot of people but it is my preference of the type of people I would like to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And why not! You are on here to please yourself so I think it's good to be clear about what you are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK it might be the 2nd time I have asked but it was a very long time ago

How does my profile come across to you ?

To long ? Not enough information ?

It does seem I attract people who I have no interest in meeting so just wondering if there is anything I could add or remove from my profile "

It is fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OK it might be the 2nd time I have asked but it was a very long time ago

How does my profile come across to you ?

To long ? Not enough information ?

It does seem I attract people who I have no interest in meeting so just wondering if there is anything I could add or remove from my profile

It is fine."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile looks much better than the majority and reads like someone who knows what they want. Your preference for height/weight proportionate will make some women think twice, but then that's the point, presumably. Also, your comment on couples will likely make some think you're not really keen. Again, a good thing if it's true.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile looks much better than the majority and reads like someone who knows what they want. Your preference for height/weight proportionate will make some women think twice, but then that's the point, presumably. Also, your comment on couples will likely make some think you're not really keen. Again, a good thing if it's true."

The comment on couples - I just mean I like the social side of meets as well as the sex, So would feel a little uncomfortable if he didn't join in the conversations or just give one word replies, I will have another look at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's better than many. You come across well in your blurb and your pics are pretty reasonable too.

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Well written profile, nice pictures, not the usual single male cock shots.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I liked it, although you say you like the social side ... but won't meet with a couple where the male is bi ... I would avoid you for that reason, even in a club, for fear of you being negative towards Mr, even when chatting. There are plenty of people who we meet but dont play with and there are lots of couples where the male is bi or bi curious who may be put off by that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it. It states what you are looking for and I think you come across well, and you have nice photo's. Especially the wet t-shirt one "

This

The only thing I might possibly change is to put a dress size when you say average. As everyone has different opinions on what "average" means. If anyone decides to be not so nice for you specifying, then that's their business.

I think it's clear, and you come across well. I'm not going to say anything more about "that" winning pic

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Mmmmm very homo-erotic..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't get to the writing. Couldn't get past the pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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The only thing I might possibly change is to put a dress size when you say average. As everyone has different opinions on what "average" means. If anyone decides to be not so nice for you specifying, then that's their business.

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I'm not good at guessing a Woman's dress size so opted to put a similar size to me

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

A very good profile as far as I am concerned. Gold star and a team point. .....oh not at work now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find writing a profile quite difficult to be honest it would be nice to get a bit of advise. I also feel I shouldn't have face picture available to the public as I work in local government. What are your thoughts ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair OP...most people asking a similar question have a crap profile and no meets/veris.

Your profile looks good, decent pics etc and you have a few verifications so shows you are genuine.

When you say you "attract" the wrong types do you mean looking at your profile?

Lately I have had loads of people from Ireland looking at mine...dunno why but it happens.,

Just make sure you message/contact the right people for you and continued good luck!

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"I find writing a profile quite difficult to be honest it would be nice to get a bit of advise. I also feel I shouldn't have face picture available to the public as I work in local government. What are your thoughts ??? "

Have your face pic in private so you can send it to people if you feel comfortable with them and plan to meet. Regarding the profile....take inspiration from the OP's splendid profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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When you say you "attract" the wrong types do you mean looking at your profile?

It doesn't bother me who looks at my profile, But 90% of the messages are from are from people I'm not looking to meet with, I have never had a bad/nasty message I was just wondering if I wasn't being clear of what I'm looking for in my profile,

Just make sure you message/contact the right people for you and continued good luck!

Thank you,

And it's been a long time since I sent a message to someone not using the forums asking to meet, I would rather meet someone from the forums who sort of know me and I have got to know them a little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair OP...most people asking a similar question have a crap profile and no meets/veris.

Your profile looks good, decent pics etc and you have a few verifications so shows you are genuine.

When you say you "attract" the wrong types do you mean looking at your profile?

Lately I have had loads of people from Ireland looking at mine...dunno why but it happens.,

Just make sure you message/contact the right people for you and continued good luck!"

And just had a wink from a 23 yr old gay man....so hey! Take it in your stride as we all do. You can't catch the ghey from someone looking at your profile!

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Your profile is just fine,although from the lovely pics I would bet you get more views from men than women.

Can I ask the ratio of your pics that have been fabbed? women and men..

Hope you get what you want Ax

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