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"Is it me or its fab not all its cracked up to be? Ive been in here for a while now and I've noticed this site seems to be a bit of a waste of time. Women act like there too nice to reply or there a catfish of some sort. I can't get my mind round it. I'm really interested in finding like minded people but this site needs to flush put the time wasters." We seem to do just fine on fab , and have made some great friends ![]() | |||
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"Patience is the key lol" pmsl x | |||
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"Is it me or its fab not all its cracked up to be? Ive been in here for a while now and I've noticed this site seems to be a bit of a waste of time. Women act like there too nice to reply or there a catfish of some sort. I can't get my mind round it. I'm really interested in finding like minded people but this site needs to flush put the time wasters." Sounds like FAB isn't for you.cheerio now. | |||
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"Is it me or its fab not all its cracked up to be? Ive been in here for a while now and I've noticed this site seems to be a bit of a waste of time. Women act like there too nice to reply or there a catfish of some sort. I can't get my mind round it. I'm really interested in finding like minded people but this site needs to flush put the time wasters." Well if your messages to women are as incomprehensible as this posting, it's no wonder you're not doing so well on the site. How can women "act too nice to reply"? or are a "catfish of some sort"?? ![]() | |||
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"Is it me or its fab not all its cracked up to be? Ive been in here for a while now and I've noticed this site seems to be a bit of a waste of time. Women act like there too nice to reply or there a catfish of some sort. I can't get my mind round it. I'm really interested in finding like minded people but this site needs to flush put the time wasters." You need to identify the people who are of the same mind as you and interact with them. I think the point that you're missing is that the site isn't what you thought it was rather than anything having happened to it, therefore you need to reassess your expectations or acknowledge that it isn't suitable for your needs. Good luck whatever you decide. | |||
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"i don't understand what you mean by women 'acting like there too nice to reply'?....surely if they haven't replied, then they are simply not interested?..how are they 'acting too nice' exactly?" maybe saying they think there too nice is a bit harsh but I find it strange How stuck up people act on here.. I'm a nice guy I don't just message ppl saying "let's fuck" I do actually try but people don't appreciate that. | |||
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"Their are a lot of women who befriend you say they're interested but just don't chat regularly or meet you ![]() ![]() Well if that is the case, they're clearly not that interested or they would have taken things further. | |||
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"i don't understand what you mean by women 'acting like there too nice to reply'?....surely if they haven't replied, then they are simply not interested?..how are they 'acting too nice' exactly? maybe saying they think there too nice is a bit harsh but I find it strange How stuck up people act on here.. I'm a nice guy I don't just message ppl saying "let's fuck" I do actually try but people don't appreciate that." still don't get what you mean..are they 'stuck up' because they don't reply to you?...that is not time wasting... | |||
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"i don't understand what you mean by women 'acting like there too nice to reply'?....surely if they haven't replied, then they are simply not interested?..how are they 'acting too nice' exactly? maybe saying they think there too nice is a bit harsh but I find it strange How stuck up people act on here.. I'm a nice guy I don't just message ppl saying "let's fuck" I do actually try but people don't appreciate that." What people? You're getting quite a lot of nice, helpful replies on this thread ![]() | |||
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"Is it me or its fab not all its cracked up to be? Ive been in here for a while now and I've noticed this site seems to be a bit of a waste of time. Women act like there too nice to reply or there a catfish of some sort. I can't get my mind round it. I'm really interested in finding like minded people but this site needs to flush put the time wasters." I really can't complain Why are you? | |||
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"Their are a lot of women who befriend you say they're interested but just don't chat regularly or meet you ![]() ![]() This ![]() | |||
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"And appreciate everyone's advice I'm just airing my frustration with the site... does anyone have any suggestions as to what I need to do diffrently? Please check out my profile and let me know. Regards ![]() You probably don't need to do anything differently. Just keep messaging etc but don't make it your main focus. ![]() | |||
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"Is it me or its fab not all its cracked up to be? Ive been in here for a while now and I've noticed this site seems to be a bit of a waste of time. Women act like there too nice to reply or there a catfish of some sort. I can't get my mind round it. I'm really interested in finding like minded people but this site needs to flush put the time wasters." I dont reply sometimes coz dometimes i just cant be bothered just as the guy who messaged hasnt been bothered enough to read my profile.. so why should ibreply to unsolicited mail that i havent asked for?? | |||
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"If you just want to get your dick in a warm wet place that happens to be attached to a female..... Try pof... This is a place for swingers... Most single guys have nothing to offer.. M" Except to those of us who are actively looking for single guys. | |||
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"If you just want to get your dick in a warm wet place that happens to be attached to a female..... Try pof... This is a place for swingers... Most single guys have nothing to offer.. M" that's funny I find most couples have nothing to offer, different stroke for different folk | |||
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"I find this site quite easy to manage and it works well for me. I have meets booked into February. Almost every forum thread I have read from men who are not finding it easy tell the same old story - blaming anything and anyone but themselves. " if you are to be successful first you must want to be. I don't have the motivation to chase most down on here now if they want to pull up and succumb to my will easily that's different. | |||
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"Is it me or its fab not all its cracked up to be? ....this site needs to flush put the time wasters." This site works fine for me, and I think single guys have lots to offer. But there is too much emphasis in the Forums about getting rid of the timewasters. It's not Fab's job to do your due diligence for you. You need to develop your own way of working out whether a contact is likely to lead to a meet or not. I find it quite easy. If you want advice on what to do differently, I would suggest using the chat room regularly, as you get to understand people's approach to swinging. | |||
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"And appreciate everyone's advice I'm just airing my frustration with the site... does anyone have any suggestions as to what I need to do diffrently? Please check out my profile and let me know. Regards ![]() I would forget the sense of entitlement and write a decent profile. Other than that, I cannot say as I do not know what you are doing. | |||
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"If you just want to get your dick in a warm wet place that happens to be attached to a female..... Try pof... This is a place for swingers... Most single guys have nothing to offer.. M Except to those of us who are actively looking for single guys." What she said | |||
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"Some very bitter men on here who are clearly offended they are not what every female/cpl wants. Get over yourselves chaps." ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I find this site quite easy to manage and it works well for me. I have meets booked into February. Almost every forum thread I have read from men who are not finding it easy tell the same old story - blaming anything and anyone but themselves. " I'm with Brighton Steve on this.....you get out what you put in, same as anything else in life. If B S or anyone else recognises me from my previous profile they will know I was actually one of his double platinum members...so success is there if you have the correct attitude. | |||
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"i got kicked out of the ireland chat i was asking questions im only new to chat the kicked me out i was enjoying chatting can anhyone help me " Hiw can they kick you out? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Is it me or its fab not all its cracked up to be? Ive been in here for a while now and I've noticed this site seems to be a bit of a waste of time. Women act like there too nice to reply or there a catfish of some sort. I can't get my mind round it. I'm really interested in finding like minded people but this site needs to flush put the time wasters." Are you willing to travel? I find the some men that are successful tend to travel up to 100 miles. | |||
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" Unfortunately people are less trusting because there are so many fakes, time wasters and rude user around. " Isn't that why we display our veris? To show people we are not timewasting, rude fake single males?? untill we don't get replied to for showing to many genuine gentleman proving veris and marked down as players ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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" Unfortunately people are less trusting because there are so many fakes, time wasters and rude user around. Isn't that why we display our veris? To show people we are not timewasting, rude fake single males?? untill we don't get replied to for showing to many genuine gentleman proving veris and marked down as players ![]() ![]() ![]() That's one of the reasons I do not display my Veri Summary....don't want to be known as a player ![]() | |||
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" Unfortunately people are less trusting because there are so many fakes, time wasters and rude user around. Isn't that why we display our veris? To show people we are not timewasting, rude fake single males?? untill we don't get replied to for showing to many genuine gentleman proving veris and marked down as players ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() That's the main reason for me not to display the veri summary. | |||
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"I think the people who rely on it for sex, may be disappointed over time. It's an add on to an existing great sex life, it's a laugh at how serious take all this malarkey. And the rants, they are the best of all. " ![]() | |||
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"...Women rule the world in swinging, you just have to accept it...." I don't. | |||
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"That's one of the reasons I do not display my Veri Summary....don't want to be known as a player ![]() But it was such a nice one I wrote ![]() | |||
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"That's one of the reasons I do not display my Veri Summary....don't want to be known as a player ![]() ![]() ...but why did you have to mention the chicken ![]() | |||
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"I find this site quite easy to manage and it works well for me. I have meets booked into February. Almost every forum thread I have read from men who are not finding it easy tell the same old story - blaming anything and anyone but themselves. if you are to be successful first you must want to be. I don't have the motivation to chase most down on here now if they want to pull up and succumb to my will easily that's different." hey women don't succumb to anything here they don't have to they have so many guys and women messaging them that you don't matter a jot even if you've been talking many times a day for months ,they don't need to think of you and don't ,they move onto whoever messages them next ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Is it me or its fab not all its cracked up to be? Ive been in here for a while now and I've noticed this site seems to be a bit of a waste of time. Women act like there too nice to reply or there a catfish of some sort. I can't get my mind round it. I'm really interested in finding like minded people but this site needs to flush put the time wasters." . There is no need to worry about time wasters. They have no impact on other members ..All a member has. to worry about is marketing their own profile in the most effective manner possible , not other members | |||
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"That's one of the reasons I do not display my Veri Summary....don't want to be known as a player ![]() ![]() ![]() I thought that was better than the Domestos bottle. | |||
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"Its definitely got worse. Couples never commit to meeting. Single guys come up with the most ridiculous excuses and women are up themselves. Single guys are the best out of the bunch though. That's why I'm still here " Awwwww my hero a single guy lover x ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I think the people who rely on it for sex, may be disappointed over time. It's an add on to an existing great sex life, it's a laugh at how serious take all this malarkey. And the rants, they are the best of all. " ^^this... It's fun.. Not life... | |||
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"Patience is the key lol" So is a good body and a cheeky streak if you are a male ![]() | |||
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"Patience is the key lol" some things never change eh !! we like fab | |||
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"I'm loving fab right now ![]() ![]() ![]() im also loving fab and i aint met noone lol . I think these forums are class ![]() | |||
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"I find this site quite easy to manage and it works well for me. I have meets booked into February. Almost every forum thread I have read from men who are not finding it easy tell the same old story - blaming anything and anyone but themselves. if you are to be successful first you must want to be. I don't have the motivation to chase most down on here now if they want to pull up and succumb to my will easily that's different. hey women don't succumb to anything here they don't have to they have so many guys and women messaging them that you don't matter a jot even if you've been talking many times a day for months ,they don't need to think of you and don't ,they move onto whoever messages them next ![]() ![]() Trademark, you seem to think you know an awful lot about single ladies profiles. You're generalising and totally wrong. From her that has a single profile. | |||
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"I find this site quite easy to manage and it works well for me. I have meets booked into February. Almost every forum thread I have read from men who are not finding it easy tell the same old story - blaming anything and anyone but themselves. if you are to be successful first you must want to be. I don't have the motivation to chase most down on here now if they want to pull up and succumb to my will easily that's different. hey women don't succumb to anything here they don't have to they have so many guys and women messaging them that you don't matter a jot even if you've been talking many times a day for months ,they don't need to think of you and don't ,they move onto whoever messages them next ![]() ![]() one bases ones opinion on ones experience of this place and that's mine sorry if it doesn't fit in with how you think you react to things its true everyone is different and you are part of a couple but I only talk to really nice people and I talk to them but new guys come along all the time and I am sorry its like a kid in a candy shop the ladies don't know what to pick so they try and deal with them all and eventually they end up hiding profile or spending all their time in forums ,so kind of hiding from the problem ![]() | |||
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"Is it me or its fab not all its cracked up to be? Ive been in here for a while now and I've noticed this site seems to be a bit of a waste of time. Women act like there too nice to reply or there a catfish of some sort. I can't get my mind round it. I'm really interested in finding like minded people but this site needs to flush put the time wasters." It is you. You have a veri from last month...were you expecting a shag a week? It's pretty good going if you ask me and I've noticed you've posted a couple of similar threads since you joined...so personally - I would quit whinging in public and get yourself to more clubs, as this isn't attractive in the slightest. | |||
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"Is it me or its fab not all its cracked up to be? Ive been in here for a while now and I've noticed this site seems to be a bit of a waste of time. Women act like there too nice to reply or there a catfish of some sort. I can't get my mind round it. I'm really interested in finding like minded people but this site needs to flush put the time wasters. It is you. You have a veri from last month...were you expecting a shag a week? It's pretty good going if you ask me and I've noticed you've posted a couple of similar threads since you joined...so personally - I would quit whinging in public and get yourself to more clubs, as this isn't attractive in the slightest." I personally find this post ironic. But not for the reason you think... ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Is it me or its fab not all its cracked up to be?" It's most certainly you. Cal | |||
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"I find this site quite easy to manage and it works well for me. I have meets booked into February. Almost every forum thread I have read from men who are not finding it easy tell the same old story - blaming anything and anyone but themselves. if you are to be successful first you must want to be. I don't have the motivation to chase most down on here now if they want to pull up and succumb to my will easily that's different. hey women don't succumb to anything here they don't have to they have so many guys and women messaging them that you don't matter a jot even if you've been talking many times a day for months ,they don't need to think of you and don't ,they move onto whoever messages them next ![]() ![]() ![]() I dunno about other women, but I hang out in the forums because I like forums. Not because I'm hiding from a massive inbox (I don't get many emails at all.) | |||
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"Is it me or its fab not all its cracked up to be? Ive been in here for a while now and I've noticed this site seems to be a bit of a waste of time. Women act like there too nice to reply or there a catfish of some sort. I can't get my mind round it. I'm really interested in finding like minded people but this site needs to flush put the time wasters." Difficult to give knowledgeable advice because we have only experienced the Fab meeting situation from a couples point of _iew, but we have no problems with the site, you have been here 4 months, had one meet last month, I would class that has average, there are lots of people on this site who have been here a lot longer with no meets, so like previous posters have stated, patience would be the key ![]() | |||
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"If you just want to get your dick in a warm wet place that happens to be attached to a female..... Try pof... This is a place for swingers... Most single guys have nothing to offer.. M" Most couples are quite nice. But there are exceptions. ![]() | |||
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"You could actually try and take some of the advice you've had in all the different threads you've created. If you had put as much thought and effort into your profile as you have into your same old same old whining threads, you'd be far more successful on here." . The green arrow of truth? | |||
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"For me the worst thing about fab is some of the attitudes on the forums. It's like tolerance, understanding and empathy all died in here at times. " I see plenty of all three on these threads | |||
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"Is it me or its fab not all its cracked up to be? Ive been in here for a while now and I've noticed this site seems to be a bit of a waste of time. Women act like there too nice to reply or there a catfish of some sort. I can't get my mind round it. I'm really interested in finding like minded people but this site needs to flush put the time wasters." Timewasters are generally easy to spot, don't blame the site, take a look at yourself and how you go about things. I've been around the scene for several yaers as a single guy and ine half of a couple, it has changed massively in that time, but it's neither better nor worse - just different. | |||
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