FabSwingers.com forum: What do you call a sub?

By *urlyshirley OP Couple
over a year ago

Costa del Sol

I'm not crazy about 'bitch' and have heard 'kitten' but what do you call a sub?

I'm not one, but I'm curious. Not sure this is the place to ask.

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

Nautilus

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

hms trafalger was the last one launched

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"I'm not crazy about 'bitch' and have heard 'kitten' but what do you call a sub?

I'm not one, but I'm curious. Not sure this is the place to ask.

I'm not really sure I understand the question. I will quite often be literally called sub if I have been in downtime and a Dom wants to bring my attention to focus. It will switch me from vanilla to sub mode.

I've had a Dom that would never use my name and only call me sub. Other doms use my scene name or my real name. During play, I could be called his slut, his bitch, his puppy, his slave, his little girl or baby girl or whatever he wants.

I despise being called a bitch. I also despise being called a slut. But my dom can use whatever name be wishes for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rachael

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the meatball one from subway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have our own preferences, it depends on the dynamics too.

The majority of the time I like to be his ’good girl’ but sometimes I'm his naughty girl, sometimes his slut, and other times im terms I'm not willing to share on here....

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By *aked_ShenanigansCouple
over a year ago

nearby

The bottom x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually their name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Domme is very theatrical and entertains those watching. She talks to them, introducing each item from her arsenal; describing its effect before demonstrating it on me.

When she uses my name I snap into focus.

Anything else would pass me by as I'm in my own space.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"I'm not crazy about 'bitch' and have heard 'kitten' but what do you call a sub?

I'm not one, but I'm curious. Not sure this is the place to ask.

Surely it depends on how *you* want to be addressed? If you enjoy being called (insert your favourite term here) - then that's what your dom should use.

I would have thought that in a D/S scenario - there is no need to be referred to as 'sub' as you both know that is the case.

I guess it might be different if you are both switches...

I rarely (and in 'real' life too) call people by their names unless I want to attract their attention.

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By *urlyshirley OP Couple
over a year ago

Costa del Sol

"I'm not crazy about 'bitch' and have heard 'kitten' but what do you call a sub?

I'm not one, but I'm curious. Not sure this is the place to ask.

I despise being called a bitch. I also despise being called a slut. But my dom can use whatever name be wishes for me. "

Ah, great answer and yes, when the heat is on, any name works!

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By *urlyshirley OP Couple
over a year ago

Costa del Sol

"We all have our own preferences, it depends on the dynamics too.

The majority of the time I like to be his ’good girl’ but sometimes I'm his naughty girl, sometimes his slut, and other times im terms I'm not willing to share on here.... "

Ha, yup, got a FB who likes to tell me I'm a good slut - in the moment, it works. Outside the moment not so much! He does have Dom tendencies.

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By *urlyshirley OP Couple
over a year ago

Costa del Sol

"My Domme is very theatrical and entertains those watching. She talks to them, introducing each item from her arsenal; describing its effect before demonstrating it on me.

When she uses my name I snap into focus.

Anything else would pass me by as I'm in my own space. "

That makes complete sense. And sounds very erotic ..

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By *urlyshirley OP Couple
over a year ago

Costa del Sol

"Surely it depends on how *you* want to be addressed? If you enjoy being called (insert your favourite term here) - then that's what your dom should use.

I would have thought that in a D/S scenario - there is no need to be referred to as 'sub' as you both know that is the case.

I guess it might be different if you are both switches...

I rarely (and in 'real' life too) call people by their names unless I want to attract their attention."

A dom using a name that his sub has chosen and prefers? But yup your point about switches makes sense, the name used signals the switch

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

Surely it depends on how *you* want to be addressed? If you enjoy being called (insert your favourite term here) - then that's what your dom should use.

Certainly I may have ideas on how I would like to be addressed but they are irrelevant. It's how my Dom WANTS to address me that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on D/s dynamic and context. Outside of sub mode I'd probably lump someone calling me any terminology apart from my name, unless it's playful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not crazy about 'bitch' and have heard 'kitten' but what do you call a sub?

I'm not one, but I'm curious. Not sure this is the place to ask.

It's a private thing...

If you look at 101 names on dom sub life they are quite normal if not a bit sickly..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My Domme is very theatrical and entertains those watching. She talks to them, introducing each item from her arsenal; describing its effect before demonstrating it on me.

When she uses my name I snap into focus.

Anything else would pass me by as I'm in my own space.

That makes complete sense. And sounds very erotic ..

She does stand up and brings an element of that to the dungeon. If she's only warming me I'm not in so deep so I hear the humour and try hard not to respond to it.

When she's working me hard I only hear her voice and can hear every move she makes so I know exactly where she is.

She uses my name to pull me up a little from my space. Usually to make me count. Then she tells me the last two of the set are for her. 'You know know what that means, don't you Rachael?'

She doesn't hold back on those. She was a male Dom for 15 years prior to becoming a Mistress. She's strong. I'll say nothing more than 'thank you Mistress' when I can catch my breath.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hopefully I'm going to find out this weekend, as I'm meeting my mistress for our first experience.

Looking forward to having my sub side explored and used.

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By *urlyshirley OP Couple
over a year ago

Costa del Sol

"Hopefully I'm going to find out this weekend, as I'm meeting my mistress for our first experience.

Looking forward to having my sub side explored and used."

wayhey! report back!

That's an order.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hopefully I'm going to find out this weekend, as I'm meeting my mistress for our first experience.

Looking forward to having my sub side explored and used.

wayhey! report back!

That's an order.

Of course I will as requested

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By *gowbhoy4funMan
over a year ago

glasgow

A football player thats on the bench ??

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"I'm not crazy about 'bitch' and have heard 'kitten' but what do you call a sub?

I'm not one, but I'm curious. Not sure this is the place to ask.

A sub?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not crazy about 'bitch' and have heard 'kitten' but what do you call a sub?

I'm not one, but I'm curious. Not sure this is the place to ask.

A sub?

My thoughts exactly

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By *rivate roomMan
over a year ago

Bracknell

A male or female who is a regular play partner to a couple or single person that is told what to do in the relationship.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Why would someone call a sub a kitten? Not all subs are kittens and not all kittens are sub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been called Slut before and I had to call him Sir, only I couldn't stop laughing, rather ruined the moment!

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"I'm not crazy about 'bitch' and have heard 'kitten' but what do you call a sub?

I'm not one, but I'm curious. Not sure this is the place to ask.

Surely it depends on how *you* want to be addressed? If you enjoy being called (insert your favourite term here) - then that's what your dom should use.

I would have thought that in a D/S scenario - there is no need to be referred to as 'sub' as you both know that is the case."

Depends on the setting. Especially if the relationship extends outside of the bedroom. I had been doing the food shop on Tesco and my Dom called my name, he would instantly get my attention, but if he addresses me as sub, I know regardless of where we are, he has ended downtime and we are about to enter our full D/s mode together. I'd always respond accordingly if I hear sub. Usually with whatever title they require of me such as Sir. I wouldn't call my Dom 'Sir' during downtime unless it was stipulated I should.

In most cases with regular play partners or Doms, there has been a pet name involved and I know hearing that indicates a shift in dynamic from very low protocol to medium protocol or that play is about to commence.

It depends on individuals desires. No right or wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm called whatever they want to call me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Footlong tuna on hearty Italian?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything you like coz it can't hear you ,we are talking submarine here ?!#$@!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not crazy about 'bitch' and have heard 'kitten' but what do you call a sub?

I'm not one, but I'm curious. Not sure this is the place to ask.

My alternative fetish name is delorean gray, my sub is lady gray. We don't use vulgar pet names. What animal are you the most fond of? what about animal spirit guides? Might be horse, bird, Fox, etc. And choose a name to suit. Gypsy, polly, red tail, cotton tail etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like the meatball one from subway"

Are you a 6" or a foot long kind a girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually their name."

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call mine JL audio

Both of 10" of raw power

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

... of the day? Usually, cheaper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not crazy about 'bitch' and have heard 'kitten' but what do you call a sub?

I'm not one, but I'm curious. Not sure this is the place to ask.

My favourite is to be called Girl. Mind you it is a while since I really was a girl lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Master calls me sub .. some times he will call me a slut he said by calling me this it also stops the feelings but at times when he messages me and things get a bit deep he calls me babe then realises and says sorry sub.. i still don't think it stops the feeling that develop

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've enjoyed looking at the subs photos. More caned Arse pics please

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Red October ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on D/s dynamic and context. Outside of sub mode I'd probably lump someone calling me any terminology apart from my name, unless it's playful."

I'd agree with this. I've never been called sub and never been able to use sir as its never felt right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call them a fuck toy

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By *oretta DelamonteTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I'm not crazy about 'bitch' and have heard 'kitten' but what do you call a sub?

I'm not one, but I'm curious. Not sure this is the place to ask.

Call my subs 'baby' , or 'boy' or 'Darling' depending how I am hurting them.x

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By *Carver-Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Usually their name."

This. I've had partners who liked to be called Fucktoy or Cumdumpster and partners who wanted to be a good girl. But you can never go wrong in the heat of the moment with someone's actual name. In fact I really like my partner using 'yes, (McMohawk)' as a response too...

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

"Usually their name.

Luckily my real name is "whatastud"!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U-247 was a sub.

Torpedoed my great uncle in 1943

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not crazy about 'bitch' and have heard 'kitten' but what do you call a sub?

I'm not one, but I'm curious. Not sure this is the place to ask.

I call mine a chicken tikka cheese melt toasted on nine grain honey oat!!

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By *smCouple
over a year ago

Liskeard

I call mine, sweet boy, little angel, or sweetness. As long as they are pleasing me,

If they are not pleasing me , they might get called little fuck or some other derogatory term .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I call mine, sweet boy, little angel, or sweetness. As long as they are pleasing me,

If they are not pleasing me , they might get called little fuck or some other derogatory term . "

I liked my answer better!

(and yes - I AM being childish tonight!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U517

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything you like until you give that bitch permission to speak.

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By *urlyshirley OP Couple
over a year ago

Costa del Sol

"I call mine a chicken tikka cheese melt toasted on nine grain honey oat!!

That's quite a mouthful ... shortened to honey?

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

Surely it depends on how *you* want to be addressed? If you enjoy being called (insert your favourite term here) - then that's what your dom should use.

Certainly I may have ideas on how I would like to be addressed but they are irrelevant. It's how my Dom WANTS to address me that matters."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slut I'm fine with. Actually bitch to. Or baby doll , girl etc

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