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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think ive messaged loads of profiles and exhausted all of em.. Lol. Got some replies but all fizzled out. Clubs?

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

What are you expecting from clubs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are a good idea. Not only can you meet people outside of filters but the real you can come across without the limitations of messages.

And they open lots of doors to the party scene and other meets.

Go for it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What are you expecting from clubs? "
fresh targets lol.. Dunno.. Maybe face to face may be a better approach.. Cant be my profile.. Plus single men are heavily outnumbered here..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Clubs are a good idea. Not only can you meet people outside of filters but the real you can come across without the limitations of messages.

And they open lots of doors to the party scene and other meets.

Go for it. "
yea will have a look.. Again.. Lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Think ive messaged loads of profiles and exhausted all of em.. Lol. Got some replies but all fizzled out. Clubs? "

Hmmmm......sounds like you're not very picky and if the conversations have 'fizzled out' then you're the common denominator in them.

Try thinking what you want from fab and put your energy into that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are you expecting from clubs? fresh targets lol.. Dunno.. Maybe face to face may be a better approach.. Cant be my profile.. Plus single men are heavily outnumbered here.. "

Why can't it be your profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seen some single mens profiles and have lots of meets.. May have to plagerise, get other selfies done.. wait a while then pester everyone in 20.. 30.. 100.. Miles lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What are you expecting from clubs? fresh targets lol.. Dunno.. Maybe face to face may be a better approach.. Cant be my profile.. Plus single men are heavily outnumbered here..

Why can't it be your profile? "
kiddin .. Been told my profile is .pretty crap as they put it. Suppose theyre right.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Seen some single mens profiles and have lots of meets.. May have to plagerise, get other selfies done.. wait a while then pester everyone in 20.. 30.. 100.. Miles lol "

If you copy other men's profiles you could get banned from the site.

If you copy another mans profile it means you don't have the imagination to think of your own, so although someone else's profile might get you replies, but if you lack the wit or imagination, you won't be able to keep the conversation going and it will fizzle out.

It won't be mine though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think ive messaged loads of profiles and exhausted all of em.. Lol. Got some replies but all fizzled out. Clubs?

Hmmmm......sounds like you're not very picky and if the conversations have 'fizzled out' then you're the common denominator in them.

Try thinking what you want from fab and put your energy into that. "
just reply to the peoples profiles i like. The ones that fizzle out is usually mutual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are you expecting from clubs? fresh targets lol.. Dunno.. Maybe face to face may be a better approach.. Cant be my profile.. Plus single men are heavily outnumbered here..

Why can't it be your profile? kiddin .. Been told my profile is .pretty crap as they put it. Suppose theyre right. "

Unfortunately it didn't come across as kidding to me, it came across as arrogance. As Steve says above you don't seem too picky in your search, the comment above about pestering ladies, joke or not is a real turn off to many.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seen some single mens profiles and have lots of meets.. May have to plagerise, get other selfies done.. wait a while then pester everyone in 20.. 30.. 100.. Miles lol

If you copy other men's profiles you could get banned from the site.

If you copy another mans profile it means you don't have the imagination to think of your own, so although someone else's profile might get you replies, but if you lack the wit or imagination, you won't be able to keep the conversation going and it will fizzle out.

It won't be mine though "
oh go on! No one would guess lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Seen some single mens profiles and have lots of meets.. May have to plagerise, get other selfies done.. wait a while then pester everyone in 20.. 30.. 100.. Miles lol

If you copy other men's profiles you could get banned from the site.

If you copy another mans profile it means you don't have the imagination to think of your own, so although someone else's profile might get you replies, but if you lack the wit or imagination, you won't be able to keep the conversation going and it will fizzle out.

It won't be mine though oh go on! No one would guess lol "

My profile reflects my personality. It just wouldn't work for you. Why would you copy someone else's profile? It's pointless.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What are you expecting from clubs? fresh targets lol.. Dunno.. Maybe face to face may be a better approach.. Cant be my profile.. Plus single men are heavily outnumbered here..

Why can't it be your profile? kiddin .. Been told my profile is .pretty crap as they put it. Suppose theyre right.

Unfortunately it didn't come across as kidding to me, it came across as arrogance. As Steve says above you don't seem too picky in your search, the comment above about pestering ladies, joke or not is a real turn off to many."
i always find it difficult to approach women.. Couples are a lot easier.. When chatting women up. it feels like i am pestering them.. And nerve racking.. fine taking socially to women otherwise. .So so much easier with couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I exhausted all in London years ago lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seen some single mens profiles and have lots of meets.. May have to plagerise, get other selfies done.. wait a while then pester everyone in 20.. 30.. 100.. Miles lol

If you copy other men's profiles you could get banned from the site.

If you copy another mans profile it means you don't have the imagination to think of your own, so although someone else's profile might get you replies, but if you lack the wit or imagination, you won't be able to keep the conversation going and it will fizzle out.

It won't be mine though oh go on! No one would guess lol

My profile reflects my personality. It just wouldn't work for you. Why would you copy someone else's profile? It's pointless. "
looks like i dont need to do much to my profile.. Just the pics, and the words..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are you expecting from clubs? fresh targets lol.. Dunno.. Maybe face to face may be a better approach.. Cant be my profile.. Plus single men are heavily outnumbered here..

Why can't it be your profile? kiddin .. Been told my profile is .pretty crap as they put it. Suppose theyre right.

Unfortunately it didn't come across as kidding to me, it came across as arrogance. As Steve says above you don't seem too picky in your search, the comment above about pestering ladies, joke or not is a real turn off to many. i always find it difficult to approach women.. Couples are a lot easier.. When chatting women up. it feels like i am pestering them.. And nerve racking.. fine taking socially to women otherwise. .So so much easier with couples. "

So your using silly remarks to cover up your own insecurities? I'd work on that for yourself rather than make the remarks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What are you expecting from clubs? fresh targets lol.. Dunno.. Maybe face to face may be a better approach.. Cant be my profile.. Plus single men are heavily outnumbered here..

Why can't it be your profile? kiddin .. Been told my profile is .pretty crap as they put it. Suppose theyre right.

Unfortunately it didn't come across as kidding to me, it came across as arrogance. As Steve says above you don't seem too picky in your search, the comment above about pestering ladies, joke or not is a real turn off to many. i always find it difficult to approach women.. Couples are a lot easier.. When chatting women up. it feels like i am pestering them.. And nerve racking.. fine taking socially to women otherwise. .So so much easier with couples.

So your using silly remarks to cover up your own insecurities? I'd work on that for yourself rather than make the remarks."
thanyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think ive messaged loads of profiles and exhausted all of em.. Lol. Got some replies but all fizzled out. Clubs? "
clubs will be the same but you'll pay a fortune to get in ,a lot will recommend a club but no substitute for sending a well thought out message using their profile as your guide with a face pic eventually you will get success ,good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think ive messaged loads of profiles and exhausted all of em.. Lol. Got some replies but all fizzled out. Clubs? clubs will be the same but you'll pay a fortune to get in ,a lot will recommend a club but no substitute for sending a well thought out message using their profile as your guide with a face pic eventually you will get success ,good luck "
cheers mate. I always prefer face to face.. And do better than chattin on here. Been to some and the socials are great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are you expecting from clubs? fresh targets lol.. Dunno.. Maybe face to face may be a better approach.. Cant be my profile.. Plus single men are heavily outnumbered here.. "

Targets???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Targets.. Was making fun of myself mate. Unfortunatly taken the wrong way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People are geared up to judge quick too,. Seeing some othe posts on here hu!s understandable.. Have fun naughty but nice mate.

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

The landlord thing is a bit odd! Do you really have a landlord who doesn't allow you to have friends over?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"Clubs are a good idea. Not only can you meet people outside of filters but the real you can come across without the limitations of messages.

And they open lots of doors to the party scene and other meets.

Go for it. "

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