FabSwingers.com forum: Review

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't seem to be attracting many women or couples for some unkown reason to me. I have read every profile before sending them a message, and have actually put some time to writing a message, and haven't said things like "I wanna fuck you", or simply "hey, let's meet up". I have also always sent a face pic, and believe myself to be quite good looking (because of past comments I've had by good loking women). I understand I might not be everyone's cup of tea, but seriously? Only 2 girls have answered out of 20? I also understand they get 100s of messages every day sometimes and have a hard time answering, but they often get deleted... So, I'd appreciate a review and feedback of my profile by anyone (ladies mostly appreciated) and tell me what seems wrong please. Thank you for your patience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have only been here a week, it can take a while to meet someone, and is not an instant shag place mostly.

Your profile says your pics aren't up to date, ladies will want to see what you look like now, not a year ago.

And what does 'true average' mean to you? It means different to different people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah true... But my concern is more about not getting replies ehatsoever rather than getting to it in the bed. I'm not pushy. I don't see why prople wouldn't answer to me (being photo-verified) for only being here a week. But suppose people might see it diferently to me.

You're right about the pictures, I should update them... Even though, I do explain that I'm in an athletic shape still only not so toned. But still no excuse of my part for that.

About body shape, I have only just changed that cause yeah I agree with you.

Apart from these minor details, I can't spot a problem... Thanks anyway, I take it into consideration!

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

Most will read your profile before opening a message op and a deleted or unanswered message means no thank you for the most part

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Most will read your profile before opening a message op and a deleted or unanswered message means no thank you for the most part "

I understand this... My question is if there's an obvious reason for it regarding my profile.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Most will read your profile before opening a message op and a deleted or unanswered message means no thank you for the most part

I understand this... My question is if there's an obvious reason for it regarding my profile."

*this is a joke

Out of date photos...one looks unfocused....the other is your cock.....you say you're good looking....a bit hectic about the strictly straight stuff and to be brutally honest.....it doesn't say much about you as a person. Try to get some personality into your profile. It's your shop window. Fill it with interesting stuff. Make it bright and attractive so ladies choose you over the other guy. Or go bi and be knee deep in clunge*

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

" I don't see why prople wouldn't answer to me (being photo-verified) for only being here a week."

Do you answer every piece of junk mail you get?

And as for the photo veried bit... it means nothing, so you sent a pic of a guy in... big deal, could be anyone, they are easily faked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't seem to be attracting many women or couples for some unkown reason to me. I have read every profile before sending them a message, and have actually put some time to writing a message, and haven't said things like "I wanna fuck you", or simply "hey, let's meet up". I have also always sent a face pic, and believe myself to be quite good looking (because of past comments I've had by good loking women). I understand I might not be everyone's cup of tea, but seriously? Only 2 girls have answered out of 20? I also understand they get 100s of messages every day sometimes and have a hard time answering, but they often get deleted... So, I'd appreciate a review and feedback of my profile by anyone (ladies mostly appreciated) and tell me what seems wrong please. Thank you for your patience. "

Try a bit of personality and less of the straight stuff. Perhaps a little less arrogance?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Try a bit of personality and less of the straight stuff. Perhaps a little less arrogance?"

That helps

thanks

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Ps. Don't reply to the bi guy in your thread otherwise you might be seen as being happy chatting to bisexual men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with everyone else, you would be a delete for me just for not being able to accommodate so some might just be that sort of thing! Updated pictures are a must and your profile kind of reads

-I'm very straight and don't fuck men

-my pictures are old but I'm still hot

- I don't really want to fuck near men

-I'm clean

-I would at most share a woman with another man but never touch him!

I think more about what you are into, what you are like as a person person and what you are looking for might be better

best of luck - it's only a week and ladies really do get hundreds of messages so do keep looking for your right one!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm with everyone else, you would be a delete for me just for not being able to accommodate so some might just be that sort of thing! Updated pictures are a must and your profile kind of reads

-I'm very straight and don't fuck men

-my pictures are old but I'm still hot

- I don't really want to fuck near men

-I'm clean

-I would at most share a woman with another man but never touch him!

I think more about what you are into, what you are like as a person person and what you are looking for might be better

best of luck - it's only a week and ladies really do get hundreds of messages so do keep looking for your right one!"

Thanks, this was really helpful! Very much appreciated

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

It looks like you've updated it since the first round of comments on here. Reads pretty good, though I am curious about the 'I don't really do soft fucking' part? That kind of comes across as 'wannabe dom / read too much 50 shades'

Otherwise, your age may count against you with some women / couples and may explain the lack of replies. Not much you can do about that but wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you thought that maybe they just don't fancy you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're young, you live in the middle of nowhere, you seem a bit uptight about your sexuality... those things will put alot of people off.

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By *orders2forUCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

The self describing as clever is not clever as it would put us off instantly.

Try words like articulate, conversation, openness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually, I think it is much better now. I would get rid of that cock picture, though. Hairy and a bit, erm, unpleasant. Apart from that, it seems fine to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It looks like you've updated it since the first round of comments on here. Reads pretty good, though I am curious about the 'I don't really do soft fucking' part? That kind of comes across as 'wannabe dom / read too much 50 shades'

Otherwise, your age may count against you with some women / couples and may explain the lack of replies. Not much you can do about that but wait

Thanks, really appreciate it!

and yeah, I don't really know how to clarify that so I took it off haha! Basically, I like a bit of roughness in bed, donMt like going slow like some do...

Again, thanks!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you thought that maybe they just don't fancy you?"

I think they'll fancy my abs more than your fruity pics mate. Think carefully in front of the mirror before saying things like that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Actually, I think it is much better now. I would get rid of that cock picture, though. Hairy and a bit, erm, unpleasant. Apart from that, it seems fine to me."

Haha thank you! Just got it there cause some people actually ask for it in the first message, but I've hidden it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you thought that maybe they just don't fancy you?

I think they'll fancy my abs more than your fruity pics mate. Think carefully in front of the mirror before saying things like that."

That won't help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you thought that maybe they just don't fancy you?

I think they'll fancy my abs more than your fruity pics mate. Think carefully in front of the mirror before saying things like that."

Actually the goggly eyes is a classic and one of my favourite pics on here

Oh an no need to get nasty, he has a valid point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually, I think it is much better now. I would get rid of that cock picture, though. Hairy and a bit, erm, unpleasant. Apart from that, it seems fine to me.

Haha thank you! Just got it there cause some people actually ask for it in the first message, but I've hidden it..."

Well done. I would suggest not sending it, though. It was a bit, erm, ugh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you thought that maybe they just don't fancy you?

I think they'll fancy my abs more than your fruity pics mate. Think carefully in front of the mirror before saying things like that."

A bit too late to delete my last comment now but sorry for that rude comment. Not gonna lie, it was a valid but unnecessary and obvious point. I think I saw it in an offensive way though, should've thought before acting. Never make decisions when you're angry is a good saying... Again, sorry. Everyone has a different cup of tea to their preference and it seems girls like yours so I'm no one to say anything bad about that. Merry christmas!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 out of 20....... ? Pretty good going i'd say matey, keep doing whatever you're doing !!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"otherwise you might be seen as being happy chatting to bisexual men

I am very happy chatting to them

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

A rude comment in the forum is fabicide

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"otherwise you might be seen as being happy chatting to bisexual men

I am very happy chatting to them

I've noticed

I really can't care less if a man ignores me. It's not me asking for advice. Even if I've said it just now and wrecked my own comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you thought that maybe they just don't fancy you?

I think they'll fancy my abs more than your fruity pics mate. Think carefully in front of the mirror before saying things like that.

Actually the goggly eyes is a classic and one of my favourite pics on here

Oh an no need to get nasty, he has a valid point

I don't know how I'm going to cope with such bitter criticism

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