FabSwingers.com forum: Getting started

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been on site for a few weeks and realise that it is predominantly a swinging site ,the name gives it away ,

What I would like to know is how does a single guy get into it , for instance it seems the parties are for couples and single woman ?

Would it be best to try and pair up with a lady if possible or can single guys go to the parties ?

Also how do you find out about etiquette,would not want to make a complete plum of myself ,any info would be gratefully received.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Welcome

Do a forum search for those questions and you'll find good answers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some clubs only allow single men after they've become members. There is a whole section for clubs on here, you can find clubs near you and read their sites and see what it says.

Many women, but not all, aren't interested in teaming up with guys for clubs, but if you have that on your profile that you'd like to go to clubs with people then women who are interested would know from the start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well can only speak of our experience ,we hold and attend parties and see and welcome single guys as well as couples and ladies so just got to put yourself out there fella good luck

However most have limited numbers of guys

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I would also expand on your profile and add more pics.

If your looking to meet, your current attempt wouldn't attract anyone no matter how great your message is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure. I haven't started to swing yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure. I haven't started to swing yet."

How can you say that after what we did last night?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fabbed his pic coz he's smiling. More men need to do this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure. I haven't started to swing yet.

How can you say that after what we did last night?

So that's why you cancelled our meet? Tsssss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure. I haven't started to swing yet.

How can you say that after what we did last night?

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lol yes. I must of forgot that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure. I haven't started to swing yet.

How can you say that after what we did last night?

So that's why you cancelled our meet? Tsssss."
Yes. I think that is why I cancelled it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patiance is a virtue. Go to socials, get to know people, let them get to know you. I'm a single guy, and have met lots of nice people/ couples, played with some, and just chatted with some.... Verifications are not the be all and end all. What is important is that you enjoy the experience .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure. I haven't started to swing yet.

How can you say that after what we did last night?

So that's why you cancelled our meet? Tsssss.

Yes. I think that is why I cancelled it

Haha. I'll remember that next time i'm having a BBQ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Patiance is a virtue. Go to socials, get to know people, let them get to know you. I'm a single guy, and have met lots of nice people/ couples, played with some, and just chatted with some.... Verifications are not the be all and end all. What is important is that you enjoy the experience ."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure. I haven't started to swing yet.

How can you say that after what we did last night?

So that's why you cancelled our meet? Tsssss.

Yes. I think that is why I cancelled it

Haha. I'll remember that next time i'm having a BBQ..."
That is good. I will bring some extra buns and salsa for the hotdogs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure. I haven't started to swing yet.

How can you say that after what we did last night?

So that's why you cancelled our meet? Tsssss.

Yes. I think that is why I cancelled it

Haha. I'll remember that next time i'm having a BBQ...

That is good. I will bring some extra buns and salsa for the hotdogs

Cool. See you in summer then, if you don't cancel again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure. I haven't started to swing yet.

How can you say that after what we did last night?

So that's why you cancelled our meet? Tsssss.

Yes. I think that is why I cancelled it

Haha. I'll remember that next time i'm having a BBQ...

That is good. I will bring some extra buns and salsa for the hotdogs

Cool. See you in summer then, if you don't cancel again.

"
Yes and I wont cancel this time, will defo see you the summer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure. I haven't started to swing yet.

How can you say that after what we did last night?

So that's why you cancelled our meet? Tsssss.

Yes. I think that is why I cancelled it

Haha. I'll remember that next time i'm having a BBQ...

That is good. I will bring some extra buns and salsa for the hotdogs

Cool. See you in summer then, if you don't cancel again.

Yes and I wont cancel this time, will defo see you the summer

Bring Racheal too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure. I haven't started to swing yet.

How can you say that after what we did last night?

So that's why you cancelled our meet? Tsssss.

Yes. I think that is why I cancelled it

Haha. I'll remember that next time i'm having a BBQ...

That is good. I will bring some extra buns and salsa for the hotdogs

Cool. See you in summer then, if you don't cancel again.

Yes and I wont cancel this time, will defo see you the summer

Bring Racheal too.

"
Yes, Rachel can come as well, will be a nice bbq

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op sorry about the private chat thing going on. Find it outrageous to use a post for a private chat. Admin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure. I haven't started to swing yet.

How can you say that after what we did last night?

So that's why you cancelled our meet? Tsssss.

Yes. I think that is why I cancelled it

Haha. I'll remember that next time i'm having a BBQ...

That is good. I will bring some extra buns and salsa for the hotdogs

Cool. See you in summer then, if you don't cancel again.

Yes and I wont cancel this time, will defo see you the summer

Bring Racheal too.

Yes, Rachel can come as well, will be a nice bbq

I'll bring beer. Lots of beer.

And I didn't cancel. It was amaaaaazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op sorry about the private chat thing going on. Find it outrageous to use a post for a private chat. Admin"

Are you Admin?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure. I haven't started to swing yet.

How can you say that after what we did last night?

So that's why you cancelled our meet? Tsssss.

Yes. I think that is why I cancelled it

Haha. I'll remember that next time i'm having a BBQ...

That is good. I will bring some extra buns and salsa for the hotdogs

Cool. See you in summer then, if you don't cancel again.

Yes and I wont cancel this time, will defo see you the summer

Bring Racheal too.

Yes, Rachel can come as well, will be a nice bbq

I'll bring beer. Lots of beer.

And I didn't cancel. It was amaaaaazing

Making me jealous... How do we take this 3way banter to PM?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure. I haven't started to swing yet.

How can you say that after what we did last night?

So that's why you cancelled our meet? Tsssss.

Yes. I think that is why I cancelled it

Haha. I'll remember that next time i'm having a BBQ...

That is good. I will bring some extra buns and salsa for the hotdogs

Cool. See you in summer then, if you don't cancel again.

Yes and I wont cancel this time, will defo see you the summer

Bring Racheal too.

Yes, Rachel can come as well, will be a nice bbq

I'll bring beer. Lots of beer.

And I didn't cancel. It was amaaaaazing

Making me jealous... How do we take this 3way banter to PM?"

Well I can't; you've blocked everyone trans xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op sorry about the private chat thing going on. Find it outrageous to use a post for a private chat. Admin"
You will find a banter is allowed lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure. I haven't started to swing yet.

How can you say that after what we did last night?

So that's why you cancelled our meet? Tsssss.

Yes. I think that is why I cancelled it

Haha. I'll remember that next time i'm having a BBQ...

That is good. I will bring some extra buns and salsa for the hotdogs

Cool. See you in summer then, if you don't cancel again.

Yes and I wont cancel this time, will defo see you the summer

Bring Racheal too.

Yes, Rachel can come as well, will be a nice bbq

I'll bring beer. Lots of beer.

And I didn't cancel. It was amaaaaazing

Making me jealous... How do we take this 3way banter to PM?"
Yes, they would have to make the inboxes work 3 ways x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure. I haven't started to swing yet.

How can you say that after what we did last night?

So that's why you cancelled our meet? Tsssss.

Yes. I think that is why I cancelled it

Haha. I'll remember that next time i'm having a BBQ...

That is good. I will bring some extra buns and salsa for the hotdogs

Cool. See you in summer then, if you don't cancel again.

Yes and I wont cancel this time, will defo see you the summer

Bring Racheal too.

Yes, Rachel can come as well, will be a nice bbq

I'll bring beer. Lots of beer.

And I didn't cancel. It was amaaaaazing

Making me jealous... How do we take this 3way banter to PM?

Well I can't; you've blocked everyone trans xx"

Shag is gonna get a forum ban hehe...

Idk we couldn't all chat to each other in PM anyway, maybe use our statuses?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure. I haven't started to swing yet.

How can you say that after what we did last night?

So that's why you cancelled our meet? Tsssss.

Yes. I think that is why I cancelled it

Haha. I'll remember that next time i'm having a BBQ...

That is good. I will bring some extra buns and salsa for the hotdogs

Cool. See you in summer then, if you don't cancel again.

Yes and I wont cancel this time, will defo see you the summer

Bring Racheal too.

Yes, Rachel can come as well, will be a nice bbq

I'll bring beer. Lots of beer.

And I didn't cancel. It was amaaaaazing

Making me jealous... How do we take this 3way banter to PM?Yes, they would have to make the inboxes work 3 ways x."

You could fill my inbox while I fill hers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure. I haven't started to swing yet.

How can you say that after what we did last night?

So that's why you cancelled our meet? Tsssss.

Yes. I think that is why I cancelled it

Haha. I'll remember that next time i'm having a BBQ...

That is good. I will bring some extra buns and salsa for the hotdogs

Cool. See you in summer then, if you don't cancel again.

Yes and I wont cancel this time, will defo see you the summer

Bring Racheal too.

Yes, Rachel can come as well, will be a nice bbq

I'll bring beer. Lots of beer.

And I didn't cancel. It was amaaaaazing

Making me jealous... How do we take this 3way banter to PM?Yes, they would have to make the inboxes work 3 ways x.

You could fill my inbox while I fill hers

"
Yes, that sounds good, take it in turns

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure. I haven't started to swing yet.

How can you say that after what we did last night?

So that's why you cancelled our meet? Tsssss.

Yes. I think that is why I cancelled it

Haha. I'll remember that next time i'm having a BBQ...

That is good. I will bring some extra buns and salsa for the hotdogs

Cool. See you in summer then, if you don't cancel again.

Yes and I wont cancel this time, will defo see you the summer

Bring Racheal too.

Yes, Rachel can come as well, will be a nice bbq

I'll bring beer. Lots of beer.

And I didn't cancel. It was amaaaaazing

Making me jealous... How do we take this 3way banter to PM?Yes, they would have to make the inboxes work 3 ways x.

You could fill my inbox while I fill hers

Yes, that sounds good, take it in turns

She has a strapon?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Op sorry about the private chat thing going on. Find it outrageous to use a post for a private chat. Admin

Are you Admin? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure. I haven't started to swing yet.

How can you say that after what we did last night?

So that's why you cancelled our meet? Tsssss.

Yes. I think that is why I cancelled it

Haha. I'll remember that next time i'm having a BBQ...

That is good. I will bring some extra buns and salsa for the hotdogs

Cool. See you in summer then, if you don't cancel again.

Yes and I wont cancel this time, will defo see you the summer

Bring Racheal too.

Yes, Rachel can come as well, will be a nice bbq

I'll bring beer. Lots of beer.

And I didn't cancel. It was amaaaaazing

Making me jealous... How do we take this 3way banter to PM?Yes, they would have to make the inboxes work 3 ways x.

You could fill my inbox while I fill hers

Yes, that sounds good, take it in turns

She has a strapon?

No, but my Maid friend has and he has first dibs when i am ready to try using one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure. I haven't started to swing yet.

How can you say that after what we did last night?

So that's why you cancelled our meet? Tsssss.

Yes. I think that is why I cancelled it

Haha. I'll remember that next time i'm having a BBQ...

That is good. I will bring some extra buns and salsa for the hotdogs

Cool. See you in summer then, if you don't cancel again.

Yes and I wont cancel this time, will defo see you the summer

Bring Racheal too.

Yes, Rachel can come as well, will be a nice bbq

I'll bring beer. Lots of beer.

And I didn't cancel. It was amaaaaazing

Making me jealous... How do we take this 3way banter to PM?Yes, they would have to make the inboxes work 3 ways x.

You could fill my inbox while I fill hers

Yes, that sounds good, take it in turns

She has a strapon?

No, but my Maid friend has and he has first dibs when i am ready to try using one.

So that was a no? Right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure. I haven't started to swing yet.

How can you say that after what we did last night?

So that's why you cancelled our meet? Tsssss.

Yes. I think that is why I cancelled it

Haha. I'll remember that next time i'm having a BBQ...

That is good. I will bring some extra buns and salsa for the hotdogs

Cool. See you in summer then, if you don't cancel again.

Yes and I wont cancel this time, will defo see you the summer

Bring Racheal too.

Yes, Rachel can come as well, will be a nice bbq

I'll bring beer. Lots of beer.

And I didn't cancel. It was amaaaaazing

Making me jealous... How do we take this 3way banter to PM?Yes, they would have to make the inboxes work 3 ways x.

You could fill my inbox while I fill hers

Yes, that sounds good, take it in turns

She has a strapon?

No, but my Maid friend has and he has first dibs when i am ready to try using one.

So that was a no? Right?

My friend has been waiting over a year now, he has first dibs that's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure. I haven't started to swing yet.

How can you say that after what we did last night?

So that's why you cancelled our meet? Tsssss.

Yes. I think that is why I cancelled it

Haha. I'll remember that next time i'm having a BBQ...

That is good. I will bring some extra buns and salsa for the hotdogs

Cool. See you in summer then, if you don't cancel again.

Yes and I wont cancel this time, will defo see you the summer

Bring Racheal too.

Yes, Rachel can come as well, will be a nice bbq

I'll bring beer. Lots of beer.

And I didn't cancel. It was amaaaaazing

Making me jealous... How do we take this 3way banter to PM?Yes, they would have to make the inboxes work 3 ways x.

You could fill my inbox while I fill hers

Yes, that sounds good, take it in turns

She has a strapon?

No, but my Maid friend has and he has first dibs when i am ready to try using one.

So that was a no? Right?

My friend has been waiting over a year now, he has first dibs that's all.

I have my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure. I haven't started to swing yet.

How can you say that after what we did last night?

So that's why you cancelled our meet? Tsssss.

Yes. I think that is why I cancelled it

Haha. I'll remember that next time i'm having a BBQ...

That is good. I will bring some extra buns and salsa for the hotdogs

Cool. See you in summer then, if you don't cancel again.

Yes and I wont cancel this time, will defo see you the summer

Bring Racheal too.

Yes, Rachel can come as well, will be a nice bbq

I'll bring beer. Lots of beer.

And I didn't cancel. It was amaaaaazing

Making me jealous... How do we take this 3way banter to PM?Yes, they would have to make the inboxes work 3 ways x.

You could fill my inbox while I fill hers

Yes, that sounds good, take it in turns

She has a strapon?

No, but my Maid friend has and he has first dibs when i am ready to try using one.

So that was a no? Right?

My friend has been waiting over a year now, he has first dibs that's all.

I have my own

Lol.

Night i'm off to bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure. I haven't started to swing yet.

How can you say that after what we did last night?

So that's why you cancelled our meet? Tsssss.

Yes. I think that is why I cancelled it

Haha. I'll remember that next time i'm having a BBQ...

That is good. I will bring some extra buns and salsa for the hotdogs

Cool. See you in summer then, if you don't cancel again.

Yes and I wont cancel this time, will defo see you the summer

Bring Racheal too.

Yes, Rachel can come as well, will be a nice bbq

I'll bring beer. Lots of beer.

And I didn't cancel. It was amaaaaazing

Making me jealous... How do we take this 3way banter to PM?Yes, they would have to make the inboxes work 3 ways x.

You could fill my inbox while I fill hers

Yes, that sounds good, take it in turns

She has a strapon?

No, but my Maid friend has and he has first dibs when i am ready to try using one.

So that was a no? Right?

My friend has been waiting over a year now, he has first dibs that's all.

I have my own

Lol.

Night i'm off to bed."

Me too. No farting tonight or stealing the duvet. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure. I haven't started to swing yet.

How can you say that after what we did last night?

So that's why you cancelled our meet? Tsssss.

Yes. I think that is why I cancelled it

Haha. I'll remember that next time i'm having a BBQ...

That is good. I will bring some extra buns and salsa for the hotdogs

Cool. See you in summer then, if you don't cancel again.

Yes and I wont cancel this time, will defo see you the summer

Bring Racheal too.

Yes, Rachel can come as well, will be a nice bbq

I'll bring beer. Lots of beer.

And I didn't cancel. It was amaaaaazing

Making me jealous... How do we take this 3way banter to PM?Yes, they would have to make the inboxes work 3 ways x.

You could fill my inbox while I fill hers

Yes, that sounds good, take it in turns

She has a strapon?

No, but my Maid friend has and he has first dibs when i am ready to try using one.

So that was a no? Right?

My friend has been waiting over a year now, he has first dibs that's all.

I have my own

Lol.

Night i'm off to bed.

Me too. No farting tonight or stealing the duvet. Xx"
Night both of you, will go to bed soon as well x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not sure. I haven't started to swing yet.

How can you say that after what we did last night?

So that's why you cancelled our meet? Tsssss.

Yes. I think that is why I cancelled it

Haha. I'll remember that next time i'm having a BBQ...

That is good. I will bring some extra buns and salsa for the hotdogs

Cool. See you in summer then, if you don't cancel again.

Yes and I wont cancel this time, will defo see you the summer

Bring Racheal too.

Yes, Rachel can come as well, will be a nice bbq

I'll bring beer. Lots of beer.

And I didn't cancel. It was amaaaaazing

Making me jealous... How do we take this 3way banter to PM?Yes, they would have to make the inboxes work 3 ways x.

You could fill my inbox while I fill hers

Yes, that sounds good, take it in turns

She has a strapon?

No, but my Maid friend has and he has first dibs when i am ready to try using one.

So that was a no? Right?

My friend has been waiting over a year now, he has first dibs that's all.

I have my own

Lol.

Night i'm off to bed.

Me too. No farting tonight or stealing the duvet. Xx"

Too late about the farting.

Night OP also, as you can see there is a wide variety of people and stuff they're into on the forums.

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